willibounce1:


Am sorry for your parents if you still have any.

ok.

chynie:
Dont buy it for her straight

send the money into her account and tell her to withdraw it and buy whatever she needs

she will be shocked at the cost and the value of money

so she will end up not buying it

Sign me an autograph! please.

I hear buh i no gree. Hou do i no wat u realy saying is the fact,if we call ur mum nw she would has somthing 2 say bout u. I av 2 hear ur mums first shikena

it is either she has always been like that and you did not notice or she is now having a new friend/friends that advice her she is entitled to her kids possesions since you have come of age plus working, and can demand whatever she wants as your mother without the need to show gratitude.
Report her to your dad if you are yet to do so.IF you dont curb her now by engaging her in verbal war i pray she will not be a problem when you get married

Annamma:
Hi fellow humans, my beloved mother is unknowingly forcing me to hate her. She has suddenly become megalomaniac.

She always want to have the final say in every issue not minding the feelings of others. She doesnt waste time to switch her allegiance and love to any of her children that has it big at the very moment..

She is in her 60s but always believe she knows the current things more than us. Immagine the torchlight Nokia phone we bought for her she cant even operate it well, but now telling us that we dont love her because we didnt buy android touchscreen phone for her to be browsing.
What is she going to browse? when she cant even communicate with english fluently.

You will teach her one thing for many months and even spend years doing serial correction for her, yet she wont get it right.

She is also very ungrateful... She lacks nothing as we timely assist her with upkeep allowances. My Dad still provide for all her daily needs too.

Nairalanders i cant even say much, infact i thought of committing suicide yesterday because of her unbearing attitude...

This megalomania is destroying the love i once had for her.
Pls what do i do as i have tried talking to her about this severally, only for the peaceful talks to snowball into a fiercing quarrell ofwhich it echo reaches the next day.

Pls what should i do?

my oga u feel really pained and am sorry u feel d way u do.if u have had more than one mum,it would have been easy to compare which is better.unfortunately, u can't and u stuck with this lady 4 life so I advise u start looking 4 better ways of managing d young lady.its rare to c a mother who isn't always right.I don't no d meaning of megalomania...its big grammar but I no d meaning of love. its not big grammar but heavy.u can also check 1 Corinthians 13 for d meaning of love just d way I will check d dictionary for ur word.its difficult bro but when d time comes u will look upon ur mums lifeless body,u will stand head high knowing that u did ur bit for her.if this time passes u by,u can never have it again.when she's gone u will spend money on expensive coffin and entertainment for people who didn't no what ur mum went thru to make u what u are.

Annamma:
Hi fellow humans, my beloved mother is unknowingly forcing me to hate her. She has suddenly become megalomaniac.

She always want to have the final say in every issue not minding the feelings of others. She doesnt waste time to switch her allegiance and love to any of her children that has it big at the very moment..

She is in her 60s but always believe she knows the current things more than us. Immagine the torchlight Nokia phone we bought for her she cant even operate it well, but now telling us that we dont love her because we didnt buy android touchscreen phone for her to be browsing.
What is she going to browse? when she cant even communicate with english fluently.

You will teach her one thing for many months and even spend years doing serial correction for her, yet she wont get it right.

She is also very ungrateful... She lacks nothing as we timely assist her with upkeep allowances. My Dad still provide for all her daily needs too.

Nairalanders i cant even say much, infact i thought of committing suicide yesterday because of her unbearing attitude...

This megalomania is destroying the love i once had for her.
Pls what do i do as i have tried talking to her about this severally, only for the peaceful talks to snowball into a fiercing quarrell ofwhich it echo reaches the next day.

Pls what should i do?

Bravo!
You are a true product of your mum.... 'F' family

I wish my mom was still alive, I wouldn't have minded her having megalomania.

byrron:


You help someone that is suicidal by talking them out of it as well as helping them see reasons why carrying out such act can never be a solution to their problem(s).
By helping someone with suicidal thoughts to make up their mind and carry out the act automatically makes you culpable even though you didn't commit the act but you facilitated the act by failing to stop it from happening.

bro, the op is more than 30yrs, i believe she's old enough to know whats good or bad for her.

OP it think you are the problem,you take life too seriously....if your father is not tired of living with her for more than 30yrs...who are you to complain....some children can be funny sha!

Annamma:
Hi fellow humans, my beloved mother is unknowingly forcing me to hate her. She has suddenly become megalomaniac.

She always want to have the final say in every issue not minding the feelings of others. She doesnt waste time to switch her allegiance and love to any of her children that has it big at the very moment..

She is in her 60s but always believe she knows the current things more than us. Immagine the torchlight Nokia phone we bought for her she cant even operate it well, but now telling us that we dont love her because we didnt buy android touchscreen phone for her to be browsing.
What is she going to browse? when she cant even communicate with english fluently.

You will teach her one thing for many months and even spend years doing serial correction for her, yet she wont get it right.

She is also very ungrateful... She lacks nothing as we timely assist her with upkeep allowances. My Dad still provide for all her daily needs too.

Nairalanders i cant even say much, infact i thought of committing suicide yesterday because of her unbearing attitude...

This megalomania is destroying the love i once had for her.
Pls what do i do as i have tried talking to her about this severally, only for the peaceful talks to snowball into a fiercing quarrell ofwhich it echo reaches the next day.

Pls what should i do?

@OP, I couldn't read through all the comments, but I guess someone would have told you this. Your mum is only going through a stage of life.. be more patient with her... apply wisdom in dealing with her.... observe her happy moments and maximise them.. try to work on your sef to accept the changes in her as it happens differently to everybody (it'll happen to you some day, maybe you can learn from this)... learn not to respond or react to everything she says or does, sometimes just smile... give her d phone or d cash to buy it, teach her how to browse, leave her to learn, fall and stumble while at it..(she watched you do this at different stages of your life before you became the person you are now)... she is still that loving mother... love her all the same.. in no time, everything will be fine... I was once in your shoes... if you think of all she's been through for you, you'll tolerate more.

Erngie:
I no even remember the sweet mother song/lyrics. Na just truth wey i talk from my mind

eh eh,,,,I like ya spirit sha!!!

So all this epistle because you don't want to by an android phone for your mum? I wish my father is still here with me, so that I can buy him an iPhone 7. Every parents deserves everything they asked of their children.

Martin124:
eh eh,,,,I like ya spirit sha!!!

thank you

chynie:
Dont buy it for her straight

send the money into her account and tell her to withdraw it and buy whatever she needs

she will be shocked at the cost and the value of money

so she will end up not buying it

your kidney is working perfectly

Pidgin2:


So you know your mum is sick and you can't be patient and understanding?

What sort of person are you and why do you think it was necessary to insult your mum on social media? Smh

where is the insult?

eosigwe:
your kidney is working perfectly

thanks
your liver is working well too

Erngie:
thank you

u welcome!!!

Many people here will not understand this guy's problem.
Talking from experience,my own beloved mother has become a distant friend.Because I can hardly communicate with her again like before,because I consider her very selfish.
@op,do what u can and leave the rest pls.

No kill urself oo.She ll only cry and move on.

All women do deserve to die for at all in any way.

Do ur best if u can and leave the rest.If u never marry ,go do asap without seeking anyone's consent on ur choice.

Annamma:
Hi fellow humans, my beloved mother is unknowingly forcing me to hate her. She has suddenly become megalomaniac.

She always want to have the final say in every issue not minding the feelings of others. She doesnt waste time to switch her allegiance and love to any of her children that has it big at the very moment..

She is in her 60s but always believe she knows the current things more than us. Immagine the torchlight Nokia phone we bought for her she cant even operate it well, but now telling us that we dont love her because we didnt buy android touchscreen phone for her to be browsing.
What is she going to browse? when she cant even communicate with english fluently.

You will teach her one thing for many months and even spend years doing serial correction for her, yet she wont get it right.

She is also very ungrateful... She lacks nothing as we timely assist her with upkeep allowances. My Dad still provide for all her daily needs too.

Nairalanders i cant even say much, infact i thought of committing suicide yesterday because of her unbearing attitude...

This megalomania is destroying the love i once had for her.
Pls what do i do as i have tried talking to her about this severally, only for the peaceful talks to snowball into a fiercing quarrell ofwhich it echo reaches the next day.

Pls what should i do?

In all,I can't never hate my biological mum.....tufiakwa,why even discussing about ur mum in public

Annamma:
Hi fellow humans, my beloved mother is unknowingly forcing me to hate her. She has suddenly become megalomaniac.

She always want to have the final say in every issue not minding the feelings of others. She doesnt waste time to switch her allegiance and love to any of her children that has it big at the very moment..

She is in her 60s but always believe she knows the current things more than us. Immagine the torchlight Nokia phone we bought for her she cant even operate it well, but now telling us that we dont love her because we didnt buy android touchscreen phone for her to be browsing.
What is she going to browse? when she cant even communicate with english fluently.

You will teach her one thing for many months and even spend years doing serial correction for her, yet she wont get it right.

She is also very ungrateful... She lacks nothing as we timely assist her with upkeep allowances. My Dad still provide for all her daily needs too.

Nairalanders i cant even say much, infact i thought of committing suicide yesterday because of her unbearing attitude...

This megalomania is destroying the love i once had for her.
Pls what do i do as i have tried talking to her about this severally, only for the peaceful talks to snowball into a fiercing quarrell ofwhich it echo reaches the next day.

Pls what should i do?

Oloriburuku child,End time child, you bring your mama issue come social Network, your pikin too go do u back....#Contunu

Annamma:

God bless you.. you truely understand my situation.
I'm not a teenager, but a 30yrs old adult in all ramifications. I dont stay with my parents. I work hard to impress and assist them. But my beloved mum is no longer my mum.... many above who criticize me do not bother to check the meaning of megalomania... Its not her doing, it is a sickness but i believe she allows herself to wallow in it so freely.

Guy, even if your mum is mad and roams the street naked, she's still your mum and her disgrace and shame is equally yours. So, just distance yourself a bit so you will have peace, but never hate no abandon her. She deserves your love irrespective. Insulting or hurting that old woman even when she's wrong will result to a curse for you. Your obligation as a son is the provide for her needs and see that she is well taken care of, but don't visit much and don't engage in much conversation with her that will be resulting to issues between you both. If possible, relocate to a different city. So that it will only be possible to see her once in a while.
Do this so you don't loose your mind someday and hurt that poor woman abeg

Please can u people just say sth meaningful for once I feel for the poor nigga, see as the female gender all above u n u, condemning the guy for what

Ohh! Coz its a woman in question , that's quite belligerent if u can't giv him a good advice just read on, and don't condemn him he is worried already and seeks a solution u can at least empathise

Haba!!

dorry62:

Op she's your mom.
 Treat her as one.

 If you continue to exhibit this your
 idiatic character and she die this
 your hate will turn to love and na you go 
 cry pass for her plus
 you'll regret ever thinking you hated her.
 If you like don't love ya mama.

 Me wen nor get mama  dey wish say
 my mommy dey alive you wen get hate
 your own.Receive sense.

Hi. You don't need to commit sin by hating her or commit suicide.
You only need to ignore her and save your money.
Concentrate on something else and get very busy during this time.
Anytime your mind is free towards her again. You could buy her something nice and give her plenty cash.
Keep looking away tho. She will realize she's doing something wrong.

darbeelicous:
u don't love ur mother, u never did! When u have grown up kids, I'll understand more! Mtchewww.......
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For now, karma is waiting for u!

Judgement is a negative frequency Assumption is lethal! What are you trying to pass across now? A nigga got issues, there you seated judging upandan ... Psst Get a grip

ABINTUK:

So funny i swear.....The question is, will she be able to use it?

It doesn't matter. They should buy it for her if they can afford it.
And again @op, you don't need appreciation from your mother whenever you did something for her, you're only repaying her.

Annamma:
where is the insult?

Hi bro!

Have you considered keeping a distance?

Like, relocate to a place far from where urr FAM stays.

Till now, I still don't understand why pple cling to tradition so much... give some space mehn! it grows love and whareva!

The level of hogwash, ignorance and hypocrisy on this thread is nauseatingly worrisome.


Same Nigerians that crucified this guy will jump on another thread and yelllll::: my parents can never choose a wife or husband for me!!!

Hypocritical lapdogs and keyboard terrorists.


Same people that crucified OP on this thread will jump on another thread to insult and condemn a possessive mother in law.


Na so e dey start, ordinary android phone, this poor boy is already thinking about suicide. I bet, this guy is a hustler who's yet to stabilize financially yet his mom's travail is almost sending his own son to the grave, and all our lapdogs can say is:: do for your mamaaaaa, whatever she askkkkkkkks!


Mu.mu trolls, if the mama tell the son to send his wife away tomorrow, the same classified lapdogs will come flexing keyboard muscles to call OP names like mommy's boy, weak man... Lmao



OP, do whatever you've got to do like I advised earlier. Opinion of the crowd will ruin you completely

It seems naij dot com takes news from nairaland to generate traffic in their own site. Just saw this at their site.

https://gossip.naij.com/1089448-woman-calls-60-year-mother-ungrateful.html?rs=r1

Pidgin2:


He said she is sick so why shouldn't she be shown more love to make her happier or did your mum not show you were ill?

Its not that kind of sickness, it's more like a behavioral thing. she is behaving like a narcissist, and would always play the victim when she is cornered or if she does not get her way.
I have had an experience with an aunt, when my cousin wouldn't marry the girl she approved of, she went into a fit. Playing tricks, crying and trying to coerce him, didn't want him to further his career because she didn't like his field of study, always wanting to get her way in the life of a grown up. it's just terrible. He needs to talk to her, to help her think, women are emotional and would not use their head in most situations like this.

Lol she con dey display grammer for here ... Yimu

Annamma:
Buying phone for her is not the problem.. we r many and can afford anything for her... Her level of education wont permit her to use such.

Such for your mother,if I should call your mother illiterate I guess you'll bounce on me
I believe she sent you to school not just for sending you to school but to cover her for not going,you bleep up honestly some of us are wishing our mom is still alive so we can teach u how to take care of a sick mother