fineboynl:
there is this coded guest house I discovered recently. and i have been hanging out there with few drinks. but there is rescuing things I am seeing there that is getting me worried.

when you see advance men with a young girls its seen as normal thing. but seeing advance men with advance women with big ass it called for concern. things are really happening. no married couple will come to coded guest house for sex. guest houses is for bad things.


when women of 45+ coming to guest house with men of 45+ it look some how. looking at them you will know this people are married with kids. with their decent dressing unlike prostitute and gangstas and the way they stylishly and shamefully enter rooms. its even worst when they are coming out. they will first observe coast and turn face the other way when coming out but the men usually walk freely. its more like boss is sleeping with big ass employees somebody wife or something.


I have a nose that scent pussy that has been troubled even from distance. when this women walk by I scent the pussy oozing following their direction.

women are not to be trusted but for men its understandable.

ichommy:


See U.

fineboynl:
shut up there. even if they are widow's should they be doing it in guest houses? that's where bad things happens. and you hear about married men and women dying in hotel rooms

afroxyz:
You must be deranged. What do you mean by 'with men it is understandable'? If a woman can't cheat, then men shouldn't. Accept responsibility!

King44:
same here bro... almost every woman don turn olosho ... caught my neighbours wives and a gf of someone i know several times ... i work in one

AreaFada2:
OP are you a learner?

Is it today you know that people are banging each other left, right & centre, married or not?

Funny that you had to be hanging out in a guest house "pucee-sniffing" to know.

Abeg volunteer your nose to the police to replace sniffer dog. Or to EFFC to smell looted money. That will stop your tatafo.

Regarding women & infidelity, we do not believe in juju anymore. That used to scare women. Now anything goes.

Polygamy has been part of African culture. Yes we can enumerate many demerits of it. But was polyandry ever in our culture? No. Many subsequent wives begin as gfs or bang-mates.

I guess if suddenly Europeans/Americans allow polygamy, we Africans will simply follow them. Follow follow is our way.

Like we are gradually, albeit reluctantly, following gayism now. Law or no law.

DickDastardly:
Oga Observer, go on punishing your poor soul. There are divorcees, widows and widowers, matured singles etc. Stop jumping into conclusion like a rhesus monkey swinging on trees. Btw, its their lives not yours. See, in this great circle of life, everyone must play their role. Thats why we had JUDAS among the apostles and also the adulterous woman jesus saved from being stoned to death.
Your should draw the positives from this. And thats to stay as far away as possible from the negatives observe at that hotel. I.e be as faithful as possible to your partner when you join the married league and live God to judge the evil doers.

fineboynl:
there is this coded guest house I discovered recently. and i have been hanging out there with few drinks. but there is rescuing things I am seeing there that is getting me worried.

when you see advance men with a young girls its seen as normal thing. but seeing advance men with advance women with big ass it called for concern. things are really happening. no married couple will come to coded guest house for sex. guest houses is for bad things.


when women of 45+ coming to guest house with men of 45+ it look some how. looking at them you will know this people are married with kids. with their decent dressing unlike prostitute and gangstas and the way they stylishly and shamefully enter rooms. its even worst when they are coming out. they will first observe coast and turn face the other way when coming out but the men usually walk freely. its more like boss is sleeping with big ass employees somebody wife or something.


I have a nose that scent pussy that has been troubled even from distance. when this women walk by I scent the pussy oozing following their direction.

women are not to be trusted but for men its understandable.

RaggedyAnn:




I do consider myself an, as you say: aggressive and formidable feminist, but I would plead with other aggressive feminists (men and women) to leave this man to his beliefs. Not every tragedy can be averted, and some shouldn't be. People like this make others stand out; it's a dirty but necessary job.

hedonistic:


Sometimes I wonder whether most of you live in the same real world here in Nigeria, or your lives begin and end on the Internet.

Continue deceiving yourselves.

hedonistic:


I don co-manage guest house before for Lagos, and part of my hustle then involved working out proposals with many.. So the duty tour no be small. Wetin my eyes don see, my mouth no fit talk.... Na tey tey I don tire for women and their pretence (pretence is what makes their case much worse than men; most men don't pretend to be 'decent' or prudish the way these deceitful women do).

Na for 'ungodly' working hours bad thing dey happen pass... Between 11am and 3pm wey people go think say man or woman dey work, then go come hotel come knack short time. I've seen the most beautiful young and mature women with the most despicable looking older men, striding in and out of nondescript guest houses during working hours on random weekdays. These same women go dey form no-nonsense 'decency' outside, that's the most annoying part.

hedonistic:


Anytime I see comments here by deluded pseudo-feministic bimbos, I just shake my head in pity. "If a man can cheat, a woman can too"... "If women should be faithful, then men should too". Things do not always follow a linear pattern in the real world. If not, if men can pay bride price, then women should pay groom price too.

With these kinds of ridiculous mindsets, this generation is in for it. Marriages would be more volatile than Boko Haram infested enclaves in the North East. That is for the mumu men who go ahead to marry women with these kinds of impractical orientations.

They want to change the aspects of culture and convention that do not favour them, but stubbornly hang on to those that favour them. It's more than laughable.

sulakishop:
Like it or not, Men always cheat, it's normal and mostly well arranged without trace. Women cheat the most and it's mostly suicidal!

DickDastardly:
Oga Observer, go on punishing your poor soul. There are divorcees, widows and widowers, matured singles etc. Stop jumping into conclusion like a rhesus monkey swinging on trees. Btw, its their lives not yours. See, in this great circle of life, everyone must play their role. Thats why we had JUDAS among the apostles and also the adulterous woman jesus saved from being stoned to death.
Your should draw the positives from this. And thats to stay as far away as possible from the negatives observe at that hotel. I.e be as faithful as possible to your partner when you join the married league and live God to judge the evil doers.

fineboynl:
shut up there. even if they are widow's should they be doing it in guest houses? that's where bad things happens. and you hear about married men and women dying in hotel rooms

MarieSucre:


Where are you getting your statistics from?!

hedonistic:


Anytime I see comments here by deluded pseudo-feministic bimbos, I just shake my head in pity. "If a man can cheat, a woman can too"... "If women should be faithful, then men should too". Things do not always follow a linear pattern in the real world. If not, if men can pay bride price, then women should pay groom price too.

With these kinds of ridiculous mindsets, this generation is in for it. Marriages would be more volatile than Boko Haram infested enclaves in the North East. That is for the mumu men who go ahead to marry women with these kinds of impractical orientations.

They want to change the aspects of culture and convention that do not favour them, but stubbornly hang on to those that favour them. It's more than laughable.

hedonistic:


Anytime I see comments here by deluded pseudo-feministic bimbos, I just shake my head in pity. "If a man can cheat, a woman can too"... "If women should be faithful, then men should too". Things do not always follow a linear pattern in the real world. If not, if men can pay bride price, then women should pay groom price too.

With these kinds of ridiculous mindsets, this generation is in for it. Marriages would be more volatile than Boko Haram infested enclaves in the North East. That is for the mumu men who go ahead to marry women with these kinds of impractical orientations.

They want to change the aspects of culture and convention that do not favour them, but stubbornly hang on to those that favour them. It's more than laughable.

chocodaviva:

what has religion got to do wit d topic
that is ao pple ignorantly start religious war.....
so Wat abt all d Alfa nd imams wit 3/4wifes still snatching some1 else only wife nko? agreed it wrong but its happening everywhere.

DickDastardly:
Oga Observer, go on punishing your poor soul. There are divorcees, widows and widowers, matured singles etc. Stop jumping into conclusion like a rhesus monkey swinging on trees. Btw, its their lives not yours. See, in this great circle of life, everyone must play their role. Thats why we had JUDAS among the apostles and also the adulterous woman jesus saved from being stoned to death.
Your should draw the positives from this. And thats to stay as far away as possible from the negatives observe at that hotel. I.e be as faithful as possible to your partner when you join the married league and live God to judge the evil doers.

Curvinus:
Those of you castigating the OP should take a few steps back and see how you're playing yourselves.

This is how you will be saying mind your business, then you go to Libya and sleep with somebody's wife and when they react, you say there is Xenophobia in South Africa.

Most of you saying mind your business don't seem to realize that spousal betrayal and infidelity can lead to clinical depression and possible death. It is one of the leading causes of failed marriages and broken homes plaguing the society.


Rather than criticizing, you recalcitrant rats should give Kudos to the OP for pointing out what is wrong with society. And quit playing the ostrich before Karma visits you with the one-handed slamming and jamming.

Lastly, the men among you doing this are not men. You are gays. I kill you fagets

MoltenMagma:
Fineboynl you were making sense until this.



Guy, go and retrieve your brain from the trashcan you dumped it in.

Opinionated:
But wait O, how did every woman of midage visiting hotel with a man turn to 'widow'?

Can't widows remarry and lead decent lives?

hedonistic:


I don co-manage guest house before for Lagos, and part of my hustle then involved working out proposals with many.. So the duty tour no be small. Wetin my eyes don see, my mouth no fit talk.... Na tey tey I don tire for women and their pretence (pretence is what makes their case much worse than men; most men don't pretend to be 'decent' or prudish the way these deceitful women do).

Na for 'ungodly' working hours bad thing dey happen pass... Between 11am and 3pm wey people go think say man or woman dey work, then go come hotel come knack short time. I've seen the most beautiful young and mature women with the most despicable looking older men, striding in and out of nondescript guest houses during working hours on random weekdays. These same women go dey form no-nonsense 'decency' outside, that's the most annoying part.

DickDastardly:
Oga Observer, go on punishing your poor soul. There are divorcees, widows and widowers, matured singles etc. Stop jumping into conclusion like a rhesus monkey swinging on trees. Btw, its their lives not yours. See, in this great circle of life, everyone must play their role. Thats why we had JUDAS among the apostles and also the adulterous woman jesus saved from being stoned to death.
Your should draw the positives from this. And thats to stay as far away as possible from the negatives observe at that hotel. I.e be as faithful as possible to your partner when you join the married league and live God to judge the evil doers.

fineboynl:
there is this coded guest house I discovered recently. and i have been hanging out there with few drinks. but there is rescuing things I am seeing there that is getting me worried.

when you see advance men with a young girls its seen as normal thing. but seeing advance men with advance women with big ass it called for concern. things are really happening. no married couple will come to coded guest house for sex. guest houses is for bad things.


when women of 45+ coming to guest house with men of 45+ it look some how. looking at them you will know this people are married with kids. with their decent dressing unlike prostitute and gangstas and the way they stylishly and shamefully enter rooms. its even worst when they are coming out. they will first observe coast and turn face the other way when coming out but the men usually walk freely. its more like boss is sleeping with big ass employees somebody wife or something.


I have a nose that scent pussy that has been troubled even from distance. when this women walk by I scent the pussy oozing following their direction.

women are not to be trusted but for men its understandable.

enkayhope post=54665014:
bless u

Op u surprise me. In as much as I condemn what women of dez days do wc r heartbreaking n wicked. May I ask Wat is understandable abt d men committing same atrocity? Call a spade a spade n don't justify filth!

DickDastardly:
Oga Observer, go on punishing your poor soul. There are divorcees, widows and widowers, matured singles etc. Stop jumping into conclusion like a rhesus monkey swinging on trees. Btw, its their lives not yours. See, in this great circle of life, everyone must play their role. Thats why we had JUDAS among the apostles and also the adulterous woman jesus saved from being stoned to death.
Your should draw the positives from this. And thats to stay as far away as possible from the negatives observe at that hotel. I.e be as faithful as possible to your partner when you join the married league and live God to judge the evil doers.