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Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 4:01pm On Mar 15, 2017
A lovely quote I came across


•Sex Before Marriage Is not Joy.



•Sex Before Marriage Is not Fun.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Gain.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Love.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Trust.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Truth.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Light.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Right.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Peace.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Biblical.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Honour.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Mistake.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Promise.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Respect.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Progress.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Pleasure.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Salvation.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Scriptural.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Obedience.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Happiness.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Enjoyment.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Excitement.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Satisfaction.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Competition.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Understanding.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Godly Covenant.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Marital Pressure.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Relationship Game.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Knowing Good Wife.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Relationship Priority.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Knowing Good Husband.
****BUT, SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS CALLED "FORNICATION."



****BECAUSE, FOR THE BIBLE SAYS IN 1ST CORINTHIANS 7 VS 2. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
***FRIENDS,
•Fornication has sink many Glory.
•Fornication has silent many Voices.
•Fornication has hinder many Progress.
•Fornication has fornicate many Future.
•Fornication has suck many Great Stars.
•Fornication has killed many Great Giant.
•Fornication has destroyed many Business.
•Fornication has destroyed many Destinies.
•Fornication has destroyed many Marriages.
•Fornication has destroyed many Great Youth.
•Fornication has tormented many Great Future.
•Fornication has destroyed many Great Leaders.
•Fornication has destroyed many Great Children.
•Fornication has tyre down many Good Contract.
•Fornication has destroyed many Great Anointed.
•Fornication has destroyed many Anointed Ministers.


****REMEMBER THAT,
•Samson Destiny dies in Fornication.
•Samson Anointing dies in Fornication.
•Samson Glory ended up in Fornication.
•Samson Great Future expired in Fornication.
****SIR,
"UNTIL YOU FREE FROM FORNICATION, YOU CAN'T BE FREE FROM FRUSTRATIONS".
***SO,
•Don't let any man touch you Before Marriage.
•Don't let any woman seduce you Before Marriage.
*****THEREFORE,Finally..................


•Flee From Fornication.
•Flee From the Lust of Eyes.
•Flee From the Lust of the Flesh.
AND,
•Flee From Sex Before Marriage BECAUSE, IT KILLED GREAT DESTINIES, DESTROYED GLORIOUS GLORY & HINDER MANY STARS FROM PROGRESSING!!!


#No Sex Before Marriage

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by youngest85(m): 4:07pm On Mar 15, 2017
I deh cum, make I go ask Kemen

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nne5: 4:09pm On Mar 15, 2017
Eziokwu
grin

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nne5: 4:11pm On Mar 15, 2017
Lemme add mine

Sex before marriage is not 'reoiling your engine so that ee nor go rust'



grin grin

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by Cutehector(m): 5:07pm On Mar 15, 2017
Sex before marriage helps you to understand your sexual efficiency better.
Re: Sex Before Marriage by CeeJay9ja(m): 5:12pm On Mar 15, 2017
If not for the religious implications, sex before marriage is cool
Re: Sex Before Marriage by WHITEWIZARD(m): 5:13pm On Mar 15, 2017
Team virgin..
Re: Sex Before Marriage by CeeJay9ja(m): 5:15pm On Mar 15, 2017
WHITEWIZARD:
Team virgin..

More like "Team No girl don gree sleep with me yet"

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by WHITEWIZARD(m): 5:24pm On Mar 15, 2017
CeeJay9ja:


More like "Team No girl don gree sleep with me yet"
take a look at my profile and you will see I've got more vaginas than king Solomon.
Re: Sex Before Marriage by CeeJay9ja(m): 5:25pm On Mar 15, 2017
WHITEWIZARD:
take a look at my profile and you will see I've got more vaginas than king Solomon.

How old are you, bro?

As for your profile,you look dead...no offense

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by WHITEWIZARD(m): 5:36pm On Mar 15, 2017
CeeJay9ja:


How old are you, bro?

As for your profile,you look dead...no offense
Pm me the numbers of your sisters, aunties and girlfriend and let us bet if i won't fork all of them before April 1st.
Re: Sex Before Marriage by CeeJay9ja(m): 5:39pm On Mar 15, 2017
WHITEWIZARD:
Pm me the numbers of your sisters, aunties and girlfriend and let us bet if i won't fork all of them before April 1st.

Young man, calm down. Obviously, you are a kid or probably an adult with the brain of a toddler.

Start with girls on NL, Monkey.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 5:40pm On Mar 15, 2017
Due to my sister's current pain, I believe there should be sex before marriage. I want to have her arrested. He tricked my sister and likely knew he was impotent. He may even be a gay.
Re: Sex Before Marriage by WHITEWIZARD(m): 5:41pm On Mar 15, 2017
CeeJay9ja:


Young man, calm down. Obviously, you are a kid or probably an adult with the brain of a toddler.

Start with girls on NL, Monkey.
ladies on naira land ain't my problem...
If you know that you are the true son of your father..
pm me the numbers of your sisters..
Re: Sex Before Marriage by CeeJay9ja(m): 5:42pm On Mar 15, 2017
WHITEWIZARD:
ladies on naira land ain't my problem...
If you know that you are the true son of your father..
pm me the numbers of your sisters..

I have better things to do, son. Now run along smiley

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by WHITEWIZARD(m): 5:45pm On Mar 15, 2017
CeeJay9ja:


I have better things to do, son. Now run along smiley
Next time, don't play with me..

now get lost!!!!!!
Re: Sex Before Marriage by CeeJay9ja(m): 5:47pm On Mar 15, 2017
WHITEWIZARD:
Next time, don't play with me..

now get lost!!!!!!

Mumu...so you are not a virgin again? grin

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by WHITEWIZARD(m): 5:48pm On Mar 15, 2017
CeeJay9ja:


Mumu...so you are not a virgin again? grin
I'm still a virgin...
Re: Sex Before Marriage by CeeJay9ja(m): 5:49pm On Mar 15, 2017
WHITEWIZARD:
I'm still a virgin...

But you were bragging to b a fuckaholic and saying you want to fuvk your sisters ? undecided

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by WHITEWIZARD(m): 5:51pm On Mar 15, 2017
CeeJay9ja:


But you were bragging to b a fuckaholic and saying you want to fuvk your sisters ? undecided
I wanted to open chapter with your aunties..
Re: Sex Before Marriage by CeeJay9ja(m): 5:54pm On Mar 15, 2017
WHITEWIZARD:
I wanted to open chapter with your aunties..

Finish with your sisters first

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by WHITEWIZARD(m): 5:57pm On Mar 15, 2017
CeeJay9ja:


Finish with your sisters first
Mtcheew
Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 6:20pm On Mar 15, 2017
My dear i must tell you the TRUTH as according to the FULL CONTEXT of the verses of the Bible which you have quoted. And which, UNLESS you lilyqueeny choose CELIBACY over MARRIAGE you are not walking in the path of he ST PAUL whose words were those that you have quoted.

Marriage is a CONCESSION, a way out of FORNICATION while CELIBACY Is better than MARRIAGE.

"But i say this as a CONCESSION, not as a COMMANDMENT (the verse you quoted). For i wish that all men were even as myself (UNMARRIED, ST PAUL THE CELIBATE) but each has his own gift from God, one in this manner and another in that. (St. Paul re-emphasizes CELIBACY over MARRIAGE again as you read on) But i say to the unmarried and to the widows: IT IS GOOD FOR THEM IF THEY REMAIN EVEN AS I AM. 1Corinthians 7: 6-8

Your point is that Sex before marriage is EVIL but Christianity still tags SEX in marriiage as a NECESSARY EVIL in marriage.

Don't you think its best to do away with all the EVILS be it necessary or otherwise by following the FOOT PATH of St Paul. "But i say to the unnmarried and to the widows: IT IS GOOD FOR THEM IF THEY REMAIN EVEN AS I AM." 1st Corinthains 7: 8

So, lilyqueen are you going to choose CELIBACY so you avoid sex altogether or you are going to choose to MARRY because YOU LACK SELF CONTROL?

"But if they cannot exercise self-control, LET THEM MARRY. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion" 1st Corinthians 7: 9

NOW THIS IS THE CRUX OF WHAT YOU PROBABLY DONT UNDERSTAND.

Marriage is not all about SEX a means for an escape from FORNICATION. Infact SEX is just 10% even less out of 100% of the activities during marriage. You dont have SEX 24 hours. There is the FINANCIAL ASPECT which is just one MOST IMPORTANT REASON WHY PEOPLE ARE NOT MARRIED. You have to EAT, CLOTH, E.T.C E.T.C YOURSELF, SPOUSE, eventually FAMILY. There are bills to be paid.......e.t.c e.t.c.

SEX IS A NATURAL THING. MARRIAGE IS A CULTURAL THING.

Its easier to QUICKLY satisfy one's sexual urges in a society like ours where unemployment is so high and cost of living is at cut throat price than to get married because the reality is that MARRIAGE IS NOT ALL ABOUT SEX.

So, unless you start thinking outside the box and coming up here to tell us how to improve the economy so that people get jobs and get married............YOUR PREACHING IS FAR FROM THE REALITY OF PRECISION.

The problem we are facing today is not even premarital sex but BROKEN HOMES. Marriages are not working which makes it most easy for the society to quickly decay.

AND I MUST TELL YOU. THE BIBLE LACKS ADEQUATE SEX EDUCATION BECAUSE IT TAGS THIS NATURAL PHENOMENON SEX AS INFACT EVIL EVEN IN MARRIAGE. THAT IS TO START WITH.

So how is one expected to enjoy SEX in marriage if he or she wants to be truely Christian?

NOTE: I dont support pre-marital sex. But there is alot we are not being taught about sex. I HAVE READ ABOUT VIRGINS WHO ARE LIVING SO MISERABLE IN THEIR MATRIMONIAL HOMES BECAUSE SEX WAS SUCH A NO! NO! TOPIC. Today they are just living in regrets not because the choose to be VIRGINS which is a great Virtue but because the DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT SEX. And are not even willing to learn because it has been drumbed into their minds that it is just a NECESSARY EVIL.

If marriage is all about "if you lack selfcontrol" even boys at their age of puberty will almost all be married because it starts with the WET DREAM which is a natural thing.

ALL I AM SAYING IS THAT THERE IS ALOT MORE TO PROPER SEX EDUCATION THAN TELLING PEOPLE THAT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS WRONG. THIS LACK OF PROPER SEX EDUCATION FROM THE BIBLE IS A MAJOR REASON FOR THE CARNAL CULTURE IN THE WESTERN COUNTRIES THAT ARE PREDOMINATLY CHRISTIANS.

Note also that i am not an advocate of CELIBACY but St. Paul according to the Bible.

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:36am On Mar 16, 2017
youngest85:
I deh cum, make I go ask Kemen

Hahahahaha. that was really funny!.
Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:38am On Mar 16, 2017
Two people's exchanges here really got me laughing so hard. I won't mention names sha lol grin
Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:49am On Mar 16, 2017
FortuneTeller:
Due to my sister's current pain, I believe there should be sex before marriage. I want to have her arrested. He tricked my sister and likely knew he was impotent. He may even be a gay.

Chai, that was really bad and i feel for your sister.
What that man did was a very wicked act. He knew he was impotent but tricked her under the umbrella of "No sex before marriage".
Nonetheless, sister there is hardly any ideology that can't be taken advantage of to perpetrate one form of evil, near evil or out right wickedness.
Lawyers say where there is a will, there is a way.
I will not judge the man anyway.

Now that you are a fortune teller, likely nobody can trick you like they did your Sister.
Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:53am On Mar 16, 2017
Cutehector:
Sex before marriage helps you to understand your sexual efficiency better.

ok oo
Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:56am On Mar 16, 2017
Nne5:
Lemme add mine

Sex before marriage is not 'reoiling your engine so that ee nor go rust'



grin grin
Very wise and great addition to the list.
Kudos to you girl.
Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 11:03am On Mar 16, 2017
Lilyqueeny:
A lovely quote I came across


•Sex Before Marriage Is not Joy.



•Sex Before Marriage Is not Fun.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Gain.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Love.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Trust.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Truth.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Light.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Right.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Peace.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Biblical.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Honour.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Mistake.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Promise.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Respect.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Progress.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Pleasure.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Salvation.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Scriptural.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Obedience.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Happiness.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Enjoyment.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Excitement.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Satisfaction.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Competition.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Understanding.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Godly Covenant.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Marital Pressure.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Relationship Game.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Knowing Good Wife.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Relationship Priority.
•Sex Before Marriage Is not Knowing Good Husband.
****BUT, SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS CALLED "FORNICATION

#No Sex Before Marriage
Dear OP,
you just boxed me into a tight corner.
I had my plans which though has failed me before but i was certain could work next time.
Now with all these you've just killed it for me.
Confusion reigns now.
I can be stubborn you know. lol.
May God continue to guide and protect his people however.
Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 11:09am On Mar 16, 2017
Sincere4u:

Dear OP,
you just boxed me into a tight corner.
I had my plans which though has failed me before but i was certain could work next time.
Now with all these you've just killed it for me.
Confusion reigns now.
I can be stubborn you know. lol.
May God continue to guide and protect his people however.


Amen

I'm happy to know I've stopped your plan

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Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 11:14am On Mar 16, 2017
Lilyqueeny:



Amen

I'm happy to know I've stopped your plan
Hahahahaha.
Lol.
Thanks my Queen.
However, where there is a will, there must be a way.
Re: Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 11:17am On Mar 16, 2017
Op am a believer of the word of God but we need to be wise in certain situations.
Having sex with boyfriend -No

But having sex with fiance - Yes.
At least one week after wedding date from both families is fixed.. Is honestly allowed. No sin or crime in it. The vices of impotent men cannot be rules out.. Even God himself understands.

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