IS THIS THE WAY LOVE IS SUPPOSED TO FEEL?

» Does the man you love assume the right to control how you live and behave

» Have you given up important activities or people to keep him happy?

» Is he extremely jealous and possessive?

» Does he switch from charm to anger without war no?

» Does he belittle your opinion, your feelings, or your accomplishments?

» Does he withdraw love, money, approval or sex to punish you?

» Does he blame you for everything that goes wrong in the relationship?

» Do you find your "walking on eggs" and apologizing all the time?.

If the questions here reveal a familiar pattern, you may be in love with a misogynist - a man who who loves you, yet cause you to tremendous pain because he acts as if he hates you.


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I am single guy (age 29) and I am madly I'm love with a recently married woman. She and I sing in a choir at church. I ve tried to wipe out of my mind, but each time I see her, I die with love. Yesterday I went to her home and told her, I want to stop feeling love for you. But then I couldn't stop myself from kissing her. She responded by kissing me deeply
Today I went back just to tell her, sorry I kissed you, but we ended up kissing passionately How can I stop loving her? The only plan I can think of is I must have sex with just one time. Probably that will cool my desire for her body.


Reply : God does not allow you to have sex (even one time) with anyone who is not your wife.

Can a man hold fire against his chest? It is equally dangerous to sleep with another man's wife. Never again enter Her house and if your desire for her continues, leave that choir. Run away from the lust which young man often have. (2 Tim. 2: 22).

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QUESTION: How can a guy know the right girl or lady to marry?

ANSWER: The Bible tells us to find our spouses wisely and prayerfully. It is a Biblical principle that to find you must seek or search first. God expected you to prayerfully make the choice of whom to marry your business. Proverbs 18:22 says: “he that find a wife finds a good thing and obtained favour from the Lord.” I don’t encourage guys and ladies to say “God told me or God showed you to me in vision or dreams”. Though all that is possible. Guys please, don’t use God name to get a lady. Traits of a good lady includes: someone that is mature, fears the Lord, forgiving, understanding, loving but not a fool. Please prayerfully seek for her. I mean a good lady. When you meet her, you better know, because once you lose her, it’s over. Like every good products, they don’t stay long on the shelf. When you are lucky to meet with a good lady, by all means, make the relationship worthwhile for her. This is one of the major mistakes guys make today.

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We all need to love and to be loved. Most of us want the comfort of a relationship and the closeness of companionship that such a relationship brings. We aren't island and we do need to share together with someone very dear and close to us. This human nature. We couldn't be the fantastic people we are without that need to give and to be given to.

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Question: Is there a time limit to which one should be in a relationship? – Anonymous

Answer: Yes, there should be time limit to every relationship. It is true that ladies should not give the impression of desperation to get married to any man, because men like the decision to marry a woman to be theirs, not the other way round. Hence ladies should never mention marriage to a man first. If he wants to marry you, he’ll bring up the subject. If he doesn’t he won’t. When a lady gives the man the impression she is desperate to get married, he’ll become extra cautious around her and will keep his distance as he feel she is trying to trap him. So sisters please don’t mention marriage till he does.
I would however like to recommend that you drop a man who dates you for as long as six to twelve months without giving you the slightest hint that he intends marrying you. It is true that the man takes the initiative and decides when and if he’s going to marry you but he doesn’t require a lifetime to make up his mind and certainly you haven’t got forever to wait for him. If after one year at most, he hasn’t proposed to you or spoken seriously concerning marriage, drop him. If he is serious, he will get the message (which is that you are not ready for games) and realize that he might lose you if he doesn’t make a real commitment and propose soon.
If he is not however, you will be free to move on and get on with your life, making yourself available ‘for the one’, who might just be waiting for you to free yourself from this ‘filter’ that won’t commit or let go. Don’t hang on him indefinitely hoping someday he will propose only for you to wake up one morning ten years later and he tells you he is sorry but he doesn’t believe things can work out between both of you. He dumps you for someone else leaving you shattered, much older, and with little or no self esteem. Be smart , if he doesn’t commit within a reasonable period
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Question: My fiancee wants me to get pregnant before he pays my bride price, and because I refused he broke the relationship, what is your advice to me? – Anonymous.

Answer: I am sorry that he had to take such a drastic step by leaving you because you refuse to get pregnant before marriage. Well I don’t know if you did not had free sex throughout the period you were with him. Every sexual activity you might have had with him did not help the relationship anyway.
Now, don’t kid yourself dear lady. If your man leaves you because you refuse to get pregnant for him, it is a clear proof that he didn’t really love you, in the first place. This man you intended to marry does not fear God and doesn’t really love you that was why he could treat you like trash and eventually broke your heart by calling off the wedding plans. Your relationship was not healthy from the beginning as it was based on sex and pregnancy, and not on true love.
When a man you have hoped will marry you leaves you, it is only natural, you will sulk, cry a lot, swear and feel you will never find someone as great as him or maybe even believe you will never love again. I have been there, I know how it feels. It is all right to cry a little and experience all the other feelings of rejection and hurt that comes with heartbreak. However, don’t remain there. As soon as you can, get yourself together, (which should be within three months of your break up), have a manicure and pedicure, have your hair done, get a make over, put on a nice dress and go out, attend church, hang out with your friends and go for other dates. Tell yourself he is not the only man on earth and that you will find someone better , because you will. Resist the temptation to act all moody and hung up. Moody hung up ladies repel guys. Warm friendly ladies attract them. Warmly reciprocate those warm gestures guys make towards you, except of cause when you are truly not interested. Even then, be polite about saying no. Have a right attitude. God will surely give you a better man soon. Have faith in God and hope for the best in relationship soon.

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Top ten things couples like best about their relationship

1. Trust in each other
2. Talking and listening
3. Being happy together
4. Being in love and or being loved.
5. Sharing values and interest
6. Being care for and feeling supposed
7. Laughing together
8. Sharing a close relationship
9. Feeling safe and secure
10. Being best friends

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True love is not for the materials things. True love, loves outrightly and genuinely.

Some ways to avoid argument in a relationship
1. Be calm and learn to accept fault 2. Leave the scene immediately if you can't withstand the pressure 3. Agree you can't win at all times 4. Learn what leads to arguments between you and your partner 5. Listen more instead of replying. 6. say am sorry even if not at fault to let peace reign . 7. If you can't espace from the scene engage in something to divert attention.

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Some Rules For Men In Marriage

1. Don't ever lay your hands on your wife
2. Appreciate your wife, pray and encourage her
3. You must not condemn your wife's idea
4. Don't ever forget she is your greatest asset. Cherish her
5. Never lack in your responsibility in your home and never be careless about the children welfare
6. Do not doubt your wife's faithfulness
7. You must not take life unbearable for her no matter how unbearable she may be
8. Don't mingle with bad friends and people of questionable character. They are a bad influence on your home / marriage
9. Don't ever forget to show care and affection to your wife
10. Dont deny your wife her sexual right.

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