Well I am. Surprise surprise I am tired of all these gender bashing because it's not taking us anywhere neither is it changing our perception of things. As much as I bash bini guys on a regular basis, that doesn't change the fact that I am in love with one. And the fact that I bash Nigerian men over what I consider as an arrogant and conceited attitude (sexism included), I am still going to find love with one of them.

Even these guys who bash Nigerian girls all the time still can't deny they see a role model in their mothers and in the great Nigerian women and admire the variety and spice Nigerian girls bring to their lives.

If una wan continue, feel free, but as for me, I don tire. I can't be bashing every night and day about someone I'll end up with at the end of the day. Why don't we try to find aspects we can appreciate in each other instead?

Besides if we think about it, do we even have a stereotype of a Nigerian man and woman when we have about 250 ethnic groups?

I am always complaining I don't like the arrogance some Nigerian guys portray but the fact is I find it quite sexy. Funny but true. I can't stand the attitude but it turns me on when a man really has something to show for all his over confidence. Nigerian men are smart arses and they know they need a smart ass sister to play their games.

Why would a man toast a girl for a year? They are both enjoying all the courtship and fun and know how to get along with each other. Although I am not into those forms of dating (I go for what I want from day one), it's fun to read all those threads about guys making moves on girls and girls asking for how long they should say no. I mean don't you just love the fun?

Why don't you admit you love each other so much? True we have our flaws but can we really say we can live perfectly fine, I am not saying fine because you can still date and have fun with other nationalities, I mean perfectly without a Nigerian pal to role with?

Ok u'r view and possible advice have been noted down, I myself will look into it with some deep thoughts,

@michelin89
u are on point!

yah, ur right u know.food for taught

Adam Brody, you are always saying how much you hate Nigerian women and other blahs blahs but can you deny a Nigerian woman has and is still rubbing your back?

Nor bite the hand wey dey give you food ooo. We Naija sisters still love you though.

now that you are tired, WILL YOU MARRY ME?

michelin89:

Adam Brody, you are always saying how much you hate Nigerian women and other blahs blahs but can you deny a Nigerian woman has and is still rubbing your back?

Nor bite the hand wey dey give you food ooo. We Naija sisters still love you though.

thank gawd, u are thinking now. Wish others will follow suit.

michelin89:

Adam Brody, you are always saying how much you hate Nigerian women and other blahs blahs but can you deny a Nigerian woman has and is still rubbing your back?

Nor bite the hand wey dey give you food ooo. We Naija sisters still love you though.

thank gawd, u are thinking now. Wish others will follow suit.

IYA NGBALI:

now that you are tired, WILL YOU MARRY ME?

**runs away and covers anal hole**

shouting I AM NOT GAY
I AM NOT GAY~

michelin89:

Well I am.   Surprise surprise I am tired of all these gender bashing because it's not taking us anywhere neither is it changing our perception of things. As much as I bash bini guys on a regular basis, that doesn't change the fact that I am in love with one. And the fact that I bash Nigerian men over what I consider as an arrogant and conceited attitude (sexism included), I am still going to find love with one of them.

Even these guys who bash Nigerian girls all the time still can't deny they see a role model in their mothers and in the great Nigerian women and admire the variety and spice Nigerian girls bring to their lives.

If una wan continue, feel free, but as for me, I don tire. I can't be bashing every night and day about someone I'll end up with at the end of the day. Why don't we try to find aspects we can appreciate in each other instead?

Besides if we think about it, do we even have a stereotype of a Nigerian man and woman when we have about 250 ethnic groups?

. . . . . . . . . and i can now offer you some ice cream  

190:

**runs away and covers anal hole**

shouting I AM NOT GAY
I AM NOT GAY~

Go back to the citedal! this is no place for animals,UP QUICKLY

Wow, Michelin Tyre can think like this? wonders shall never end (11th wonders of the world)

They call it a bipolar personality, abi?

michelin89:

They call it a bipolar personality, abi?

Too bad that you have this health issue.

And they complain about my thread.

hmmmmm i see your point girly.
you are very right!!
so make all of una go and siddon jare.

Can those of us who are not tired yet still continue

Carry go but one day one day una go tire.

@Michiganlin
how dare u ignore my post?did u think I was joking?I dont talk anyhow._{hisses n walks to get water}

can't tire of flaming some of the uncouth nigerian females.
not a firm believer in suffering in silence.


fanning the flame can be very entertaining.

@ Michelin

Tell me you are not trying to impress on guy here nau . . . . . *winks*.

Anyway, me I dont have anybody to play nice to herein so  . . . . Let the 'bashings' continue!

Ujujoan:

@ Michelin

Tell me you are not trying to impress on guy here nau . . . . . *winks*.

Anyway, me I dont have anybody to play nice to herein so  . . . . Let the 'bashings' continue!

Who the puff puffs or the ekalas? Mschewwwww

This is not a gender bashing comment, but a description on our male NLanders.

michelin89:

But does it make sense to bash people you'll prolly end up spending the rest of your life with?

ROFLMAO!!!!

On the other hand~
did you ever think of bashing as a constructive criticism?

@ Michelin

Yea right, and I actually thought you meant it. . .  *rooooooolz eyez*

I mean it. I didn't say Nigerian men. I simply said that those guys I have seen here are either puff puffs or ekalas. That's not gender bashing.

Whether you dump one today and date another tomorrow, they are still Nigerians and you'll be going from one Nigerian to the other.

PS: being a serial dater isn't flatttering. You shouldn't be proud of it.

Learn to live with it~
if you complain about it then you are weak or howelse can you improve without helpful criticism~
can you stop it anyways?

there is no wrong in serial dating. get to know as many people as you can. wet your javelin while you're still young.