oxypress:


This is our line of duty. While we need to water down the language for all to understand we can always spot the language of the fakes.. They delve into issues far above their competence. In a book of 1000 pages they cannot exeed page one. In my years of practice I have never heard any qualified doctor using such an antiquated language.

Forgive my ignorance sir. Im still in training, few months to being in Final yr. Nice to have seasoned ones like you on this platform. Your field sir?

Bumbae1:


It is Autism
I can tell op thing his son does.and he will be amazed .

Read

Pls take time to go through my contributions on this topic,I was only trying to explain to the man I quoted to avoid labelling and he was busy preaching telemedicine. I dnt I argue once I make my point.

Hmmm

homeboy33:
Hi Yemi,
I also wanted to encourage you regarding your son. It's great you are seeking all the help you can for him and he's really blessed to have a such good dad. I actually know exactly what you are going through as I have a son that yours sounds a lot like(mine is also 3 years old). He has been diagnosed with autism and is receiving therapy. He is improving and we are very hopeful that by the grace of God he will improve more with time. I would suggest you see a developmental pediatrician, they would be able to do an assessment, provide a diagnosis if any and make recommendation on the best course of action. I know how draining the situation can be emotionally, financially and in so many other ways, but hang in there. Your son will get better, you just keep fighting for him!

amen, thanks

Yeah, I have been busy reading comments, suggestions and contributions of fellow nairalanders for the past few days concerning my child. I found a lot interesting and encouraging and I want to appreciate all for that. Even though I have not been directly answering most questions directed at me, all the same I still say "thanks" to you all. Though the boy's condition is depressing but I still thank God. I will continue to do my best and hope respite comes my way someday. I have heard a lot of medical jargons from different people, at some point, got confused but the good news is that my boy will overcome the challenge. Thanks all for your concerns. I love you all

I empathise with you Yemi. I know a few people with similar problems. Your child needs speciaIcare. I think you should join the Autism club. You'll get more information, support and assistance that way. A friend is a member of the club. Her son receives wonderful care and support and is able to talk slowly now. He's improved greatly and is doing well in a special school. He's now a teenager though.

I pray that your child improves tremendously soon. God makes all things possible.

yemi1261:
Yeah, I have been busy reading comments, suggestions and contributions of fellow nairalanders for the past few days concerning my child. I found a lot interesting and encouraging and I want to appreciate all for that. Even though I have not been directly answering most questions directed at me, all the same I still say "thanks" to you all. Though the boy's condition is depressing but I still thank God. I will continue to do my best and hope respite comes my way someday. I have heard a lot of medical jargons from different people, at some point, got confused but the good news is that my boy will overcome the challenge. Thanks all for your concerns. I love you all

He will be fine. Just try to get as much help and information as you can. He's still very young. With God and the right support, he will be able to do great things. You can pm me if you want to talk.

delpee:
I empathise with you Yemi. I know a few people with similar problems. Your child needs speciaIcare. I think you should join the Autism club. You'll get more information, support and assistance that way. A friend is a member of the club. Her son receives wonderful care and support and is able to talk slowly now. He's improved greatly and is doing well in a special school. He's now a teenager though.

I pray that your child improves tremendously soon. God makes all things possible.

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yemi1261:
Yeah, I have been busy reading comments, suggestions and contributions of fellow nairalanders for the past few days concerning my child. I found a lot interesting and encouraging and I want to appreciate all for that. Even though I have not been directly answering most questions directed at me, all the same I still say "thanks" to you all. Though the boy's condition is depressing but I still thank God. I will continue to do my best and hope respite comes my way someday. I have heard a lot of medical jargons from different people, at some point, got confused but the good news is that my boy will overcome the challenge. Thanks all for your concerns. I love you all

OP dnt be distracted by some of these comments, some are right while some are not just as you rightly pointed out. Continue the good works you are doing for your son.

Yemi1261, I asked for you to send me your number so we can chat on WhatsApp. I am no medical professional, just a parent who understand the heartbreak of dealing with something like this.
Imagine your child to be vessel which you can fill with the things you want him to keep.
Keep putting the right stuff in and slowly but surely, the same things will start to emerge from him.
It may look like it is vain but trust me, you will be making a difference.

Read up on Temple Grandin. She is on the spectrum as well and the professionals even recommended institutionalisation for her. But her mum refused to give up. Together they defied the prognosis given to her. She is still on the spectrum but has found success with her passion for animals.

Everything you need is around you, you just need to be able to see it. I met a mum at the park yesterday who's son is on the spectrum(older than my boy). He didn't play on the swings as such but that boy was like a cat, he could climb and balance on stuff so well.
His mum said in this resigned voice, "he climbs everything". Instead I saw a potential Olympic gymnast. Even if it's not the Olympic level, he was showing natural aptitude for the skills gymnast possess. It is all about perspective.

shaybebaby:
Yemi1261, I asked for you to send me your number so we can chat on WhatsApp. I am no medical professional, just a parent who understand the heartbreak of dealing with something like this.
Imagine your child to be vessel which you can fill with the things you want him to keep.
Keep putting the right stuff in and slowly but surely, the same things will start to emerge from him.
It may look like it is vain but trust me, you will be making a difference.

Read up on Temple Grandin. She is on the spectrum as well and the professionals even recommended institutionalisation for her. But her mum refused to give up. Together they defied the prognosis given to her. She is still on the spectrum but has found success with her passion for animals.

Everything you need is around you, you just need to be able to see it. I met a mum at the park yesterday who's son is on the spectrum(older than my boy). He didn't play on the swings as such but that boy was like a cat, he could climb and balance on stuff so well.
His mum said in this resigned voice, "he climbs everything". Instead I saw a potential Olympic gymnast. Even if it's not the Olympic level, he was showing natural aptitude for the skills gymnast possess. It is all about perspective.

thanks, let me send you a mail

@yem1261, you can see a consultant for free at the upcoming GTBank Annual Autism Conference. Visit this link to register
http://csr.gtbank.com/autism/new/you-want-your-child-to-see-a-consultant-for-free/

All special needs parents should also try and take this survey. It will help shape the future of services in Nigeria. Please complete the survey if your child/children has Autism, ADHD, Cerebral Palsy or any other developmental condition.

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