suzan404:
You're very funny now.....all those points doesn't guarantee a good marriage....a pretender can do all those nd make you believe she's actually the right woman for you.....

There's always a joseph amongst every 12.

Origin:
I knew all this messages had to be from men.

You carry your weight and her own join for woman head. Kill the woman now.

She should not be a liability- so she should earn and provide for herself. She should do all the housework. Take care of you take of your kids family, never be tired never fall sick. Lets you keep late night and when you finally come home gladly opens up for you.

Please tell me your function in the home. To bring your thing to th bed.

More and more women are believing this shit cos they don't want to lose their man (cheats or 2nd wife)

My advice better to lose that man than to lose yourself.

lol, calm down.

Why would anyone want.a relationship with an adult who can't even try to crate a first good impression?

Cutehector:
The girl who did number one for me sadly didn't want a relationship... I just loved that girl..

firstking01:
There's always a joseph amongst every 12.

Well...you're right....

suzan404:
You're very funny now.....all those points doesn't guarantee a good marriage....a pretender can do all those nd make you believe she's actually the right woman for you.....

There's always a joseph amongst every 12 children.

Longcucumber:
i just day observe you with one eye.you better go gather clay and do the work yourself.

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daretodiffer:
Why would anyone want.a relationship with an adult who can't even try to crate a first good impression?

what do u want my dear?

yedidiah:
I do. More than anything else.

Great.

stephleena:
smh....and after portraying a good girl, the foolish men,would still settle down,with that club girl...they tell you,they don't want heavy make up,blah blah blah,but when they see such ladies, the men,would be like,those girls are hot, they know what's up..so ladies don't be deceived, no go guy house, Go dey form Ankara grade 1,wife material.. be yourself.. if you don't appreciate me,for who I am, bounce..everything is about how to please a man..mtcheeeew.

Point of correction, men aren't moved by makeups because we know that it is a farce.

Guys that see scantily dressed babes on the street and shout are only interested in pilgrimage on their Jerusalem and not build relationship/marriage with them. This is why runs girls hardly marry their runs mates, the few that managed to do end up divorcing or enduring.

As a guy I'll tell you a simple truth, men seek ladies they consider "wife material" to wife, I mean including the baddest players. Ladies that are perceived to be "bad assz" or not wife material enough are usually for "eat and clean mouth".


Real men don't wife perceived and real hoez

girls like this no dey again jor

Dojupyo:
My dear, we are little gods.. Why you no quickima create her yourself?



But I'm a wife material tho, 1000 yards cos I get almost all the qualities

Kindly upload a picture on you dp.
I'm saying this on behalf of 350,000 young eligible handsome guys that has checked your dp.

DJHANDSOME:
you'r a wife material?

Iyamm not, for real.

firstking01:
Great.

do you?

OP,are u kidding me 1 girl iz supposed to have all dese traits?...Alrite,kwantinue...

firstking01:
And what next??

na wedding plans now asap

yedidiah:
He is the best thing to ever happen to me. Yes I do.

Do you?

yes

Ladies that has the qualities to some extent still surely exist.....But are scarce, strictly for the lucky lads......

Cutehector:
for real u would help?

Only if you gamed. ;

No lady in her right sense would do all these, hence she is up to something

Claessique1:



Only if you gamed. ;

I am willing to... How do we start... I should pm

Op this is rubbish you know because I know a lady who possess all these traits right from when she started growing up and up till now she is still single. What you men what mostly is big breasts, big nyash. 80% of men thinks with their penis. As long as the woman is giving it to them hot any time any day they won't bothered to visit ijebu restaurant.

ipobarecriminals:
she might be playing u.once u take her to mama/u married, some of them will show their true colour /identity

firstking01:
Nah, i doubt it...for her to have gone this length.

@firstking, bia, siddon diah!
Why do u think (professional) prostitutes find it extremely easy to hook good 'husband materials'?
Simple: They already know and cunningly apply these points.

ZarZar:
Lol, let me nitpick Because this is confusing. You say you hope, are optimistic that such ladies still exist & you've met a few? So where did you meet them? In your dreams, perhaps? If they were real, why didn't you take them to see your mama? I find it a bit hypocritical that you didn't do what you expect others to do for YOUR dream girl. I say dream girl because I doubt any one person has all those qualities & dream girl because I don't think those are the qualities every guy wants, so it remains your own personal illusion. I find a few of them quite boring, tbh. Hence you also ran the opposite direction when you "encountered" them yourself. So what gives?

keep deceiving urself.............until its too late. every reasonable young lady should have atleast 65% of those qualities. and yes every would appreciate these qualities.

Where person wan come see ladies wey get all these qualities nah?

Unfortunately, some ladies don't even posses any of these qualities

lol at your post.
u no knw say some girls can pretend well.
dont be fooled by all this yeye gestures.
dont say I dont warn una

firstking01:
1. At her first visit of your house she was very observant and complained of how unkept some of the places are and helped you to tidy it asap.


2. She hates you spending unnecesarilly eating outside...she prefers she always cook for you.


3. She doesn't allow you to waste your money on laundry...she encourages you to do it yourself or she does it herself atimes.


4. She most atimes pays for the meal whenever you take her out on a date.

5. She ask of your mum and siblings quite often.

6. She doesn't always allow you to be the first to call, not only that, upon her seeing your missed calls she doesn't hesitate to call you back instead of flashing you.


7. If you are a salary earner, she encourages you to set up a business as a back up plan should incase you are layed off by halliburton, schlumberger, total E and p, drillog, NLNG, cos she understands the way coys drops staff these days is just alarming.


8. She's not a lazy woman nor liability...she's always open to new developments and gives you a lucrative idea and always wants to work whenever the opportunity presents itself.


9. She doesn't just wake up and make plans on her own without making you part of the plans.


10. She doesn't appear aloof to you just like that without something in her hands, could be bole, fruits....most times she dashed into the boutique and buy you some nice shirts, boxers and a pair of shoe since she knows your size…


11. She doesn't wear provocative or revealing outfits, she's modest in her dressing…


12. She's not a phone freak...she knows when to touch her phone and when to get busy.


13. She seldomly go jealous at her sight of you with another girl, instead she'd lovingly and jokingly wanna know who she is, instead of ranting like a drammer queen.


14. She's faithful to a fault.


15. She can sing you into sleeping in her arms especially if she offends you, me i love this one eh .


16. She doesn't joke with church.


17. She has a blissing relationship with her colleagues both in church and in the office/school.


18. She's not a psycopath.


19. She doesn't believe in make ups, hence she knows she's not man hunting, it's only you she knows and have…


20. She loves you...



I hope we still have ladies who possess these qualities, yeah, i'm optimistic we still do have such ladies, i 've encountered a few tho, so, don't tell me to go gather clay and mould one myself...the thing is, most times our taste outweighs us there by making us to not see them when they come our way.


Have a fulfilling weekend y'all.

Abeg where you wan see girl wey get all these qualities in Nigeria of today?

Maybe in the 80s and 90s. Those days are long gone. Let's be realistic.

Rubbish!

Look for clay and mould her yourself, expecting all these traits from just one girl? Then what value do you want to add to her other than use and wear her out? At the end of it all you're still gonna dump her for someone who doesn't have half those traits.

Bull sh*t

You're looking for Mary, the mother of Jesus Christ.

Is ur bf(s) here to testify?

Dojupyo:
My dear, we are little gods.. Why you no quickima create her yourself?



But I'm a wife material tho, 1000 yards cos I get almost all the qualities

firstking01:
You find a few of them quite boring huh, henceforth i give up on you zarzar...

Don't get me wrong, some I'm fully supportive of (in general), for instance 1, 8, 11, 14, 15, 19 & 20. The rest I find either boring, brown nosing or insincere.

Dojupyo:
My dear, we are little gods.. Why you no quickima create her yourself?



But I'm a wife material tho, 1000 yards cos I get almost all the qualities

serious ma Korean lady....let mingle if yhu don't mind