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Attention by toyinaremu(f): 2:06pm On Mar 20, 2017
I am so tired of hearing some people's thought and ideas about some important issues. How can a man say he wants a godly wife when he is not, so that she can hold the family in prayer or represent the family in spiritual affairs! Another thing; in this present day that we are, some ladies still wait around for a man to make them 'wealthy'.

C'mon, there's no fun nor life in that, what sells now is your content, what you have in you, your creativity, what you have inside and not some cheap make up, dressing or physical attraction. Real men are not in love with a woman’s body but they find beauty in a woman’s heart, hand and soul. You don’t need to have those amazing curves or a flawless complexion to be defined as attractive. You don’t need to fit into any superficial mould set by others to be labelled as beautiful. All you need is God, vision or goal, what drives you, your reason for existence, when he sees these, then you're the most beautiful woman for him.

Ladies, that a man is rich does not guarantee a happy forever marriage! It is not about his money, it is about his person, who he is especially who he is in God. Learn to be confident, self confidence is the most attractive quality a person can have. How can anyone see how awesome you are if you can’t see it yourself? Don't wait for any man before you get something profitable to do for yourself. Define who you are by yourself, acquire knowledge (skilled and unskilled), equip yourself, read books, be connected to God, have a purpose or goal. Forget his money and concentrate on being a better person to complement him and his money; it is not about asking, it is also about adding!

Men, be a man not only in words but in actions too, you're adjusted to be the head in all aspect. Allowing your woman to be in charge of the spiritual affairs is like sending her to the battle front while you relax at home, so what type of man are you? It’s very apparent in the Scripture that the Lord expects Christian men to be the spiritual leaders of their homes. Paul, in his instructions to the Ephesians, placed the husband as the head of the home (Eph. 5:22-6:4), but what does that mean? In its deepest sense, what it means is that men need to be responsible for what goes on in their homes both physically and spiritually. Here is the truth though: spiritual leaders pray! If a man is not praying, he is not a spiritual leader. Prayerless men have renounced their place of spiritual authority and left their families open to attack. Be a change...

Choose a woman that will complement you spiritually, note I said 'complement' and not 'lead'. She may be pretty, and yes she catches your attention but you should be focused on what is going on in her spirit because her face and body won't minister and pour into your future children, her spirit will. So, remove her looks, job and personality and what do you find? Make sure that she has some substance and a strong foundation with Christ.

NOTE: A relationship without shared goals, shared vision, or shared purposes, is just occupying time and space, it will certainly bear no long lasting fruit and may fade away. Sadly, it has stolen your precious time, and blocked other profitable opportunities. There should be no sentiments or hard feelings, if you are in a wasting relationship, cut away now, your destiny is more precious than temporary gains and satisfactions.

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Re: Attention by Nobody: 4:32pm On Mar 20, 2017
Beautifully written...

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Re: Attention by Nobody: 9:51pm On Mar 20, 2017
Are you married?... Just asking

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Re: Attention by toyinaremu(f): 7:04am On Mar 23, 2017
Yes I am by His grace
Tosinex:
Are you married?... Just asking

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