My stepdaughter is 10 years old. She started getting pubic hair just before turning 7 and her breasts are beginning to develop. She started masturbating when she was 6. At first it was in her bed at night and she would stop when someone came in the room. This is also when she started getting very attached to me as well. A few times she would masturbate under the blanket as she was laying on the couch watching tv next to me. I thought it was a phase that she would out grow but the masturbating has gotten more frequent and she would not stop when I came in the room at night. The issue got worse when she started sitting on my lap. She became very sexually suggestive, straddled me, and would press into me but if anyone else was around it she would not do it. Last month she started climbing into the bed in the mornings. She pulls my hands to her breast and will snuggle into my arm with my hand between her legs. She will get on top of me and position her clitoris against my penis and She has even had an orgasm like that. When I told my Wife she said I'm Just spoiling her name because she's not my daughter. I have tried talking to her and leaving when she starts the behavior but if we are alone she will follow me and even climb in the shower with me once, I had to Jump out. The big problem is that my body responded to her when she was on top of me and I got an erection, I'm so Ashamed. This has happened twice now. I am totally perplexed. She is sneaky about it. How do I stop it? Should I send her away to Boarding School?

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I've Done Extensive research on this Matter.
She Think its Spiritual, but I disagree.

jisos

This is utterly disgusting!

Chimo!!!!

omosedollar:
I've Done Extensive research on this Matter.
She Think its Spiritual, but I disagree.

Yes you have to believe it. Its a spiritual issue that only physical can't solve. But you have to be very careful the way you go about it anyway. Pls anytime you notice such act, try cutting her short. Y on earth should you allow her to lie on you knowing fully well what she's up to and you say you got an erection? You actually wanted it. U contributed to it also. If you had scold her whenever you see her masturbate, it wouldn't get to this level. You have a great roll to play I curbing this

Tufia.

Bloggers and tweeters keep on subtly encouraging sexxual perversion by creating sick stories just for traffic or attention.

Sickos

ifyalways:
Tufia.

Bloggers and tweeters keep on subtly encouraging sexxual perversion by creating sick stories just for traffic or attention.

Sickos

This Kind of things happens in Daly life. But there is no Awareness. Now this story is out, someone that knows about it or going through in can shed light on it. I Use to ague with friends before that Nigerians don't have pedophiles, Only to find out as an Adult that Nigerian is one of the Worst case in the World. Everything White people are doing that we think they are Crazy or have too much time on their hands, Nigerians are also doing it.

Your wife obviously lied about her daughter/your stepdaughter's age

mrsough:

Yes you have to believe it. Its a spiritual issue that only physical can't solve. But you have to be very careful the way you go about it anyway. Pls anytime you notice such act, try cutting her short. Y on earth should you allow her to lie on you knowing fully well what she's up to and you say you got an erection? You actually wanted it. U contributed to it also. If you had scold her whenever you see her masturbate, it wouldn't get to this level. You have a great roll to play I curbing this

Nigerians think everything Wrong in their lives is Spiritual, Sometimes the Witches in your Village just don't have your time.

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Only you one. 3 monikers in one thread. Issorite

I believe u.
Don't u think sending her off to boarding school will be worse? All this happening @10yrs old?!!
Dis one pass me

MrOreo:
I believe u.
Don't u think sending her off to boarding school will be worse? All this happening @10yrs old?!!
Dis one pass me

I don't think a boarding is a good idea either.. She's needs Parent Supervision. They mother is in denial

You haven't done your research well.Forgive me but i think the OP is illiterate.Your step daughter has sexual behaviour problems and you have come to the conclusion that she is suffering from spiritual issues.How old was she before she was taken away from her dad.Was she molested as a toddler?Gosh the OP went to school but no class.

ifyalways:
Tufia.

Bloggers and tweeters keep on subtly encouraging sexxual perversion by creating sick stories just for traffic or attention.

Sickos

There may be some exaggerations in this story but we can't rule out the possibility of it happening.



My neighbour's 4years old daughter came back from a long vacation and started behaving funny with me recently.


I naturally love kids but I took special interest in this girl and her Sister because of the way their father abandoned them so I believed I can play some big uncle role in their life and besides their mother is a very nice woman so they have unhindered access to my apartment.



This particular girl came back from the vacation and immediately I noticed that she will be trying to drag my hand to her chest. Even when I remove the hand she will drag my hand back forcefully. she will insist on sitting very close to me and all that.


I was really confused and had to stylishly ask her who has been playing with her chest and she mentioned a name I can't even understand because her pronunciation was not very clear then.


Unfortunately I can't tell the mother my observation due to some reasons mostly because there was a case before I knew them that someone was alleged to have raped the girl's elder sister when she was at around 4 years too.

Please sir, don't over look it o.

Spiritual husband/marine powers at work. She doesn't even know what she is doing. Please better to take her somewhere for serious prayers now before she encounters serious problems later in life.

That's how it begins. Please don't quote me. Thanks.

orbitalgis:
You haven't done your research well.Forgive me but i think the OP is illiterate.Your step daughter has sexual behaviour problems and you have come to the conclusion that she is suffering from spiritual issues.How old was she before she was taken away from her dad.Was she molested as a toddler?Gosh the OP went to school but no class.

Clearly the little girl Was expose to sex at a very young age, the Stepfather like all Nigerians think everything that's not normal is Spiritual. More light are being sheds on this matters, now Parents know if Such thing is happening, it means someone. Might be moldering the Child or She's watching porn online

kayzat:





There may be some exaggerations in this story but we can't rule out the possibility of it happening.



My neighbour's 4years old daughter came back from a long vacation and started behaving funny with me recently.


I naturally love kids but I took special interest in this girl and her Sister because of the way their father abandoned them so I believed I can play some big uncle role in their life and besides their mother is a very nice woman so they have unhindered access to my apartment.



This particular girl came back from the vacation and immediately I noticed that she will be trying to drag my hand to her chest. Even when I remove the hand she will drag my hand back forcefully. she will insist on sitting very close to me and all that.


I was really confused and had to stylishly ask her who has been playing with her chest and she mentioned a name I can't even understand because her pronunciation was not very clear then.


Unfortunately I can't tell the mother my observation due to some reasons mostly because there was a case before I knew them that someone was alleged to have raped the girl's elder sister when she was at around 4 years too.

So that happened to you and you think this is Exaggeration? My former House girl use to use my 2year old Sons finger to Finger herself, she was caught on cctv. Things are happening in this country because we are allowing total Stranger around our Kids.

Example Bros Lakun from next door or chukuamaka from the next room sending children that can barely talk on errands , so the children will enter their rooms to deliver.

This story is very real and it happens everyday

omosedollar:
This story is very real and it happens everyday

I posted my experience with a kid here.... Something close to this...... Only for some people to start accusing me and saying i'm encouraging her despite d fact that I was soo worried about the kid and wanted to rid her of it

https://www.nairaland.com/3331022/think-someone-sexually-abusing-it

NevetsIbot:
I posted my experience with a kid here.... Something close to this...... Only for some people to start accusing me and saying i'm encouraging her despite d fact that I was soo worried about the kid and wanted to rid her of it

https://www.nairaland.com/3331022/think-someone-sexually-abusing-it

Omg just read the Story, you are no way at fault bro. I'm Sure the parents just leave her alone Wondering around the church. If you told them , They might pay more attention to her and keep her safe. Leave out the part that she's grinding on you. They might not believe you and think you are the one doing it to her

You let her straddle you long enough to have an orgasm and she's the problem? A 10yr old? Continue

ifyalways:
Tufia.

Bloggers and tweeters keep on subtly encouraging sexxual perversion by creating sick stories just for traffic or attention.

Sickos

My thoughts too

omosedollar:


Omg just read the Story, you are no way at fault bro. I'm Sure the parents just leave her alone Wondering around the church. If you told them , They might pay more attention to her and keep her safe. Leave out the part that she's grinding on you. They might not believe you and think you are the one doing it to her

bro.. It was since last yr. Distanced myself nd disciplined her. She dsnt do em no more......, couldnt tell d parents, they might just switch it all on me

Though this sounds like fairy tale, it actually does happen. OP I blame you for allowing such under your supervision. I had once had a little cousin of a family friend who just became close to me. I had thought it was just a brother church thing until the hugging increased whenever I came and I saw something else in her eyes. I had to scold her terribly and she stopped it.
This didn't solve the problem as she once got missing only to reappear a week later with stories of a kidnap and ritualists trying to kill her and she shouted Jesus and they left her. I got very suspicious about her story but others believed her.
When she was 13 she got missing again, that was when such stories couldn't hold water anymore.
OP you are the father figure and you have messed up so far, now take the bull by the horn and take her to a disciplinarian and psychiatric who will reset her hard disc while you repent and pray for her and urself.

Tazdroid:
If you could allow her to successfully molest you sexually at her age, then you have a major problem, worse than hers

please Elaborate

Bibors:
Though this sounds like fairy tale, it actually does happen. OP I blame you for allowing such under your supervision. I had once had a little cousin of a family friend who just became close to me. I had thought it was just a brother church thing until the hugging increased whenever I came and I saw something else in her eyes. I had to scold her terribly and she stopped it.
This didn't solve the problem as she once got missing only to reappear a week later with stories of a kidnap and ritualists trying to kill her and she shouted Jesus and they left her. I got very suspicious about her story but others believed her.
When she was 13 she got missing again, that was when such stories couldn't hold water anymore.
OP you are the father figure and you have messed up so far, now take the bull by the horn and take her to a disciplinarian and psychiatric who will reset her hard disc while you repent and pray for her and urself.

Well said...

Bibors:
Though this sounds like fairy tale, it actually does happen. OP I blame you for allowing such under your supervision. I had once had a little cousin of a family friend who just became close to me. I had thought it was just a brother church thing until the hugging increased whenever I came and I saw something else in her eyes. I had to scold her terribly and she stopped it.
This didn't solve the problem as she once got missing only to reappear a week later with stories of a kidnap and ritualists trying to kill her and she shouted Jesus and they left her. I got very suspicious about her story but others believed her.
When she was 13 she got missing again, that was when such stories couldn't hold water anymore.
OP you are the father figure and you have messed up so far, now take the bull by the horn and take her to a disciplinarian and psychiatric who will reset her hard disc while you repent and pray for her and urself.

At 13 , I can't Blame this little girls, Its the Adults I Blame. In Some areas You will see 6 7yrs old Children still Roaming the streets. No one is Watching them. If you Abuse a Child long Enough They will think it's normal

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