there is this guy who is really into me n he is so nice n caring but i just dont like him no matter how much i try to sort out my feelings.How do i tell him off politely.I dont want him to get his hopes up while i know i willl neva bring myself to love him n on the other hand i dont want him to hate me like most guys do wen u tell them it just cant work.pls advice me

Deja Vu!!!
This thread already exists.

babe which one do you prefere-to prolong the pretese or to free the poor guy h[email]uh? suit your conscience.

u'll be doing him more harm dan gud if u lead him on so just tell he'll realise it's 4 the best atrall.

mindeh:

there is this guy who is really into me n he is so nice n caring but i just dont like him no matter how much i try to sort out my feelings.How do i tell him off politely.I dont want him to get his hopes up while i know i willl neva bring myself to love him n on the other hand i dont want him to hate me like most guys do wen u tell them it just cant work.pls advice me

i wonder why its always the nice and caring ones

@OP
anyways
i'm glad u've accepted he could hate you. . .lol, just do the deed with as few words as possible jo, dont go into a long story(as a friend would say, 'i already hate you and then u'll now be trying to give me more reasons i should hate you. . .lol').

dont go easy on him, if he's a man he'll learn from it!

Either way, its still going to hurt him. So tell em already, and stop putting him on a Long Thing.

Just tel him but make sure u do it in a crwded arena 2 avoid havin a black eye. Some guys cnt handle disappntmnts maturely.

Pray and Fast about it,

Kenny_G:

Pray and Fast about it,

Are you serious?

mama-gee:

Are you serious?

of course, prayer will open the guy's eyes kia kia, he needs to be delivered from that delusionary feeling he's mistaking for love,

@ topic
Hu givz a toss 'bout feelinz. . .juz tel him 2 gerrout!

Moyola:

@ topic
Hu givz a toss 'bout feelinz. . .juz tel him 2 gerrout!

haba Ika! u do know that no be only women dey bleed

Sure. . .buh hao many men fink 'bout d ladyz feelinz b4 dey act?! abeggi!

Moyola:

Sure. . .buh hao many men fink 'bout d ladyz feelinz b4 dey act?! abeggi!

ya, but 2 wrongs can never make a right,

Yu fink i care?!
I derive pleasure in hurtin 'dudes' hahaha!

Moyola:

Yu fink i care?!
I derive pleasure in hurtin 'dudes' hahaha!

hurting as in physically or , ?

Awwwwh babes you have to do it ASAP tell him you love him only as a friend.

Kenny_G:

hurting as in physically or , ?

Ahhh!Kenny! I dunno watchu mean shaa

Physically? naa! i dun fyt
Emotionally? yeah, dhazzit!

Moyola:

Ahhh!Kenny! I dunno watchu mean shaa

Physically? naa! i dun fyt
Emotionally? yeah, dhazzit!

oh my bad, for once i tot u were into masochism and all,

Dirtie dirtie!

Moyola:

Dirtie dirtie!

who me?

Kenny_G:


who me?

Ehn eh! yur twin. . .sillya$$!

Moyola:

Ehn eh! yur twin. . .sillya$$!

if i catch u ehn? u go see dirty!

I can see this thread is turning into something else
I'll be back.

mama-gee:

I can see this thread is turning into something else
I'll be back.

pls stay , apologies for derailing

mindeh:

there is this guy who is really into me n he is so nice n caring but i just dont like him no matter how much i try to sort out my feelings.How do i tell him off politely.I dont want him to get his hopes up while i know i willl neva bring myself to love him n on the other hand i dont want him to hate me like most guys do wen u tell them it just cant work.pls advice me

Ouch. . . . why did u leave it so late
why didnt u tell him from start abt how u feel abt him?

Kenny_G:

if i catch u ehn? u go see dirty!

Wat sort of dirt yu gon show me ehn?

@ mama-g
I dint do anytin o

TOPE2000!:

Ouch. . . . why did u leave it so late
why didnt u tell him from start abt how u feel abt him?

abi o, she collected the guy's gift now she is refusing to return the favour and as usual she runs to NL for counsel,

mindeh:

there is this guy who is really into me n he is so nice n caring but i just dont like him no matter how much i try to sort out my feelings.How do i tell him off politely.I dont want him to get his hopes up while i know i willl neva bring myself to love him n on the other hand i dont want him to hate me like most guys do wen u tell them it just cant work.pls advice me

I pity some guys oh. . . ^{Eyin padi mi. . .E kare lai. Awon bois ti o gba igbakugba.}
I wonder how some guys end up in the webs of people like you.  
When people says life is a B.I.T.C.H!. . . .Its people like you that makes em say so.

Moyola:

Wat sort of dirt yu gon show me ehn?

[size=5pt]i dey warn u ooooo, dont make me "flip" from my good boy mode to "dirty mode" ooo, ehen, [/size]

Kenny_G:

abi o, she collected the guy's gift now she is refusing to return the favour and as usual she runs to NL for counsel,

I thot as much
Maybe the dude aint freeloading anymre, he wants the gain the of the gifts he has been giving b4 he continues