Cutehector:
Must you have a wedding of 1million naira? What happened to court marriage.. Mchew

pweetixandy:
if the rich guy is okay, marry him. me personally, I cannot marry anyone who will make me live in a a 2bedroom flat sef, at least 4bedrooms and a car and I'm okay. no be inside 2bedroom my papa born me, so therefore, I cannot come and go and suffer on top love.

OasisofRefuge:
introduction, traditional and wedding

pweetixandy:
if the rich guy is okay, marry him. me personally, I cannot marry anyone who will make me live in a a 2bedroom flat sef, at least 4bedrooms and a car and I'm okay. no be inside 2bedroom my papa born me, so therefore, I cannot come and go and suffer on top love.

OasisofRefuge:
introduction, traditional and wedding

pweetixandy:
if the rich guy is okay, marry him. me personally, I cannot marry anyone who will make me live in a a 2bedroom flat sef, at least 4bedrooms and a car and I'm okay. no be inside 2bedroom my papa born me, so therefore, I cannot come and go and suffer on top love.

Oyind18:
If you truly love him, do court marriage.

PaperLace:

Only you, introduction, traditional and wedding?
Only you?
You too much o.


How many bedroom flat you dey live for?
Once in a while, let's ask ourselves if we're the kind of woman a man desires. Your choice still

mhizEvangee:
My dear beta laugh in keke than cry in ferrari. cos if u see whats in ferrari, u will run.
if u truly love him, u can go for him. time and chance happens to everything. a rich man today may be a poor man tomorrow. with ur love and encouragement, I trust he would rise one day

kiddoiLL:
oya get out! Ko iranu eh kuro ni bi

pweetixandy:
I am a woman and I love myself. When my mum married my dad, he WS in a face me I face you house, then to a flat, and now in a duplex. But me personally, I can't marry someone and move into a small apartment, my spirit will not rest. better we make money before getting married, cos some men go into marriage with the "he who finds a wife finds a good thing" mindset, hoping manna from above will fall once they tie the knot.

pweetixandy:
I am a woman and I love myself. When my mum married my dad, he WS in a face me I face you house, then to a flat, and now in a duplex. But me personally, I can't marry someone and move into a small apartment, my spirit will not rest. better we make money before getting married, cos some men go into marriage with the "he who finds a wife finds a good thing" mindset, hoping manna from above will fall once they tie the knot.

pweetixandy:
is it a crime to say how I feel now.

Oyind18:
My landlord's daughter was like you, she always say to me that she can't marry a poor man that she must marry a rich man. She married one actually, last 2 weeks the husband saw me on my way to Church and said he wanted to send her back to her parents. I told him, its for better for worse.. No going back. Marry that man who loves you and is progressing gradually. Wealth can't guarantee a happy home.

pweetixandy:
lol, I also know a girl, whose dream it was to marry a rich man, not for love, she's from a very humble home. i remember how everytime we talked about marriage, she would say "na money i want, no time for love, i don suffer too much". dshe's been married for 3years now, she got married immediately after school, had her baby in the uk, he even flew her mum in for omugwo, started up a biz for her too. by all standards, I can say she is happily married. marry for what u believe in, if its money, go ahead, if its love, go ahead, if its good looks, go ahead.

Cutehector:
dats what am saying. Are you interested in a flamboyant wedding or a blissful marriage?

OasisofRefuge:
I don't want a flamboyant wedding

pweetixandy:
I am a woman and I love myself. When my mum married my dad, he WS in a face me I face you house, then to a flat, and now in a duplex. But me personally, I can't marry someone and move into a small apartment, my spirit will not rest. better we make money before getting married, cos some men go into marriage with the "he who finds a wife finds a good thing" mindset, hoping manna from above will fall once they tie the knot.

PaperLace:

Lol.
But the guy isn't living in face me I face you na.
Isn't 4bedroom rather too much for starting couple? Especially when it's not your personal house. E get as you talk your mind sha, I prefer your type sef.

OasisofRefuge:
Honestly we truly loved each other very much. We've known for 3 years, but he proposed last year Feb. He's my best friend. I can tell him evenything, with him, am just me. No forming because we know so much about each other.
I know he's been trying so hard, he's so eager to marry me just that things are not working as expected. The small business he's managing now, we joined hand and set it up together. He so much loved me, but he has no money to make it happened.
I had another suitor who is well to do. This guy is rich. My mum and everyone in the family wants him for me, but the thought of marrying someone else, scare hell out of me.
I am not getting any younger. Am in my late twenties and he's 30yrs, but he can't afford our marriage.
He kept pleading with me not to leave him. I don't want to let him go either, but how long am I going to wait?
We recently did an estimation of our traditional and white wedding. Everything almost 1million. I doubt how he can afford that money from the little things he's getting from the business. On my own part, I recently quite my job, but I just got something that can fetch me 20k in a month while am applying for jobs.

What should I do? Is like am making a mistake holding on
I felt I should return his ring. But will him be ok If I give up on him?
Can I have a happy life without him? I doubt
This is the only man I've met and so much loved. And the one who is not financially ok.
Can love grow if I marries someone else?
I don't want to wait anymore. I don't want pre marital s. e. x either. I want my own husband.
Am so confused. I feel like talking to someone.

pweetixandy:
if the rich guy is okay, marry him. me personally, I cannot marry anyone who will make me live in a a 2bedroom flat sef, at least 4bedrooms and a car and I'm okay. no be inside 2bedroom my papa born me, so therefore, I cannot come and go and suffer on top love.

LastMumu:


You are wasting your time with a troll.