coolsegun2002:


Everything isn't about sexx....but this time I will have to agree with you on this one..

SmartchoicesNG:

I have read most of Soyinka's​ works
Elechi Amadi
All Shakespeare's​
All Achebe's except the last work
All Yoruba novels of note
All series existing in Hadley Chase
All Robert Ludlum's​
All grisham
All pacesetters​
Most mills and boon
Daniel Steel
Sidney Sheldon's
Mario Puzo
Cyprian Ekwensi
Fagbamigbe publishers
To mention the few I can remember...
Amanda is a slave in her mind...Reflected in her works.

SmartchoicesNG:

She's capable of unleashing an unrestrained literary prowess but heck no! She'd rather pander like a dog

eduevolutionnow:

You are entitled to your own opinion and she is entitled to her own opinion. She has the talent and she is using it to suit her agenda, you can also get a pen and write what you feel is right. It as simple as that.

SmartchoicesNG:

You are right to an extent.

uncleabbey:
Lol. So because she want to sell her books, she shouldn't air her opinion? I thought everyone is entitled to their respective opinions. Why take it personal

ElSherriff:
Feminism who invented that word? From ab initio, the woman has always been wired to have superior convincing powers than a man and a man superior muscles...with the introduction of sin in the world, man's punishment was to toil for his food, while a woman was to labour to bear children in pain. These punishments are fair on both sexes as far as I know and has seen man toil for food and family provision and women, labour...all responsible men fulfill this 'wiring' and therefore 'leave' their wives to their labour 'punishment'. But where the woman is involved in the toiling as much as the man, it then takes a wise man to understand the superiority of the woman in that context. There is no key or rule book to determine what makes a woman superior but common sense. If you place a woman properly 'superior' you win her over. She eventually becomes a 'slave' to the love you offer. Men have traits peculiar to men, and women traits peculiar to women, none can entirely assume the others and that is the foundation.

As for me, I believe my bae is superior, she is smarter than me, she is better looking, she earns as much as I do and a better christian. But in acting this way around her, I have her glued to me for life. I cant begin to tell how loyal and respectful she is to me.

Its in the mind men!

ElSherriff:
Feminism who invented that word? From ab initio, the woman has always been wired to have superior convincing powers than a man and a man superior muscles...with the introduction of sin in the world, man's punishment was to toil for his food, while a woman was to labour to bear children in pain. These punishments are fair on both sexes as far as I know and has seen man toil for food and family provision and women, labour...all responsible men fulfill this 'wiring' and therefore 'leave' their wives to their labour 'punishment'. But where the woman is involved in the toiling as much as the man, it then takes a wise man to understand the superiority of the woman in that context. There is no key or rule book to determine what makes a woman superior but common sense. If you place a woman properly 'superior' you win her over. She eventually becomes a 'slave' to the love you offer. Men have traits peculiar to men, and women traits peculiar to women, none can entirely assume the others and that is the foundation.

As for me, I believe my bae is superior, she is smarter than me, she is better looking, she earns as much as I do and a better christian. But in acting this way around her, I have her glued to me for life. I cant begin to tell how loyal and respectful she is to me.

Its in the mind men!

Sciencs:
a million likes for this.

eduevolutionnow:

Its all business my brother. How many people from Nigeria buy her books to read? She knows what her people want and she is giving it them. Personally, I think her books are pretencious and self serving. It won't stand the test of time.

Nofuckgiven:
The white man already said it before. If you want to hide something from a Blackman put it in a book.
The ones that are criticizing her do not even know the real truth and facts behind feminism!
The worse part is they would never understand because they have chosen already not to.

willibounce1:
all these noise won't change the fact that all over the world, women are not and will never be equal to men. You can be a feminist all you want, that's your problem. Sensible women can reach whatever height they desire if they work hard. A lot of women are doing way better than some men and men are not complaining . I think these feminist are just bunch of jealous people.

eduevolutionnow:

Its all business my brother. How many people from Nigeria buy her books to read? She knows what her people want and she is giving it them. Personally, I think her books are pretencious and self serving. It won't stand the test of time.

Ugosample:


Kai!
I can't believe that I agree whole heartedly with you

A lot of men talking here don't know what feminism is all about (equal rights and opportunities for both genders)

Beneath all that noise they are making is fear, fear that they will lose their hold/power that the cultural inclinations here has made them believe that they have, and it's their God given right .

But sorry guys, the cultural attitudes are changing real quick, and in 20-25 years time, things will not be the same as they are now, with women having greater control over themselves, and their choices.

Unfortunately for you all, your noise cannot change it.

Ugosample:


What you said does not make sense at all.

There is a difference between feminism itself, and Family relations between husband and wife, even tho the lines get blurred a bit when the husband starts bullying the wives

0kp0nku:


And the divinely-ordained family structure will be in shambles

Ugosample:


How does it destroy the family structure again

The family structure in Nigeria for centuries has always been a scam, and the thing did not collapse because women bore the brunt, and we're supposed to keep mum, while The man does whatever dumb shit that comes to his mind

Across Nigeria, there has been millions of women thrown out of their homes that they laboured to build with their husband for stupid reasons, such as

inability to bear a male child (which the man determines Anyways
Mother in law wahala
Baseless accusation etc

Men beating the hell out of their wives was also widespread, and cheating the woman out of inheritance that is due to her was also common, as the husbands family will deal a deadly blow to her in that respect, and its double tragedy because she is not entitled to anything from her father's place, so she is left to suffer with her kids, I see all these scenarios play out all the time over the course of my existence.

What about the man sleeping around, putting the wife at risk of disease because the foolish man is doing all that unprotected?

Go to some federal hospitals and see how some pregnant women faint on finding out that they are hiv positive courtesy of a Randy he goat they call husband

Does this look like a proper family structure to you?
And you cannot lie that these rubbish things are not happening on a large scale in Nigeria

I'm a man, but I'm not scared of feminism because of I see it for what it truly is (equal rights for BOTH men and women)
not subjugation of men, or annihilation.

On a parting note, if you are a good husband to your wife, you will not be scared of anything, because the woman will know, and you have a loyal and faithful wife who will fight for you till her dying breath.
No smart woman throws a good man away (how many dey market sef )

That's it

comrChris:
both toiling is not suppose to be the excuse for this feminism wahala, was there any condition in scripture before women will submit to men? how many of these todays women are better than those wonderful women in scripture that understood where they belong and treated their husbands with all loyalty. ask any lady what she would love her husband do for her she will give you an unending list but will not know one thing is suppose to do for her husband.

Hope she is not trying to be hypocritical? causing problem in many families and treat her husband with all loyalty..l respect all female but do much more better to the few wise ones among them

willibounce1:


So where is the sense in your quote. It's not a must you quote people especially if you don't know what to type.

0kp0nku:


^^^ You have just failed to draw the line between basic human rights and feminism.

ElSherriff:
Feminism who invented that word? From ab initio, the woman has always been wired to have superior convincing powers than a man and a man superior muscles...with the introduction of sin in the world, man's punishment was to toil for his food, while a woman was to labour to bear children in pain. These punishments are fair on both sexes as far as I know and has seen man toil for food and family provision and women, labour...all responsible men fulfill this 'wiring' and therefore 'leave' their wives to their labour 'punishment'. But where the woman is involved in the toiling as much as the man, it then takes a wise man to understand the superiority of the woman in that context. There is no key or rule book to determine what makes a woman superior but common sense. If you place a woman properly 'superior' you win her over. She eventually becomes a 'slave' to the love you offer. Men have traits peculiar to men, and women traits peculiar to women, none can entirely assume the others and that is the foundation.

As for me, I believe my bae is superior, she is smarter than me, she is better looking, she earns as much as I do and a better christian. But in acting this way around her, I have her glued to me for life. I cant begin to tell how loyal and respectful she is to me.

Its in the mind men!