What will u do 2ur wife who lied 2u that she was a virgin and made u wed her against ur peoples wish. This, she kept 4rm u until ön ur honey moon day after u v gone through serious exercise against d 'd' day and in preparation 4d heavy work u will do?

Try and walk it out, DIVORCE IS NO OPTION



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disappointed in her. i would think she's a deceptive witch.
the relationship would probably crumble from a lack of trust 'cos i'd be wondering what else she lied about

let love lead the way aight. she lied yeah,u urself, were u a virgin when u met her. Maybe u emphasised virginity a lot.

Ouch!

@Poster,
She lied to you and so?
Is virginity the basis for getting married?
Go siddon for chair joo.

Mo, where have u been, u've been off for a while, hope no probs?

@ OP.

Go collect your money (dowry) back from your in laws

goods once bought and taken home are not refundable!!!

Virginity was his warranty. . . . . . .and it was 30 days warranty!

Virginity is not a priority but if she lied she was a virgin & starved me thru out the period of courtship till marriage only for me to discover she isn't what she is then that is totally unacceptable & unforgivable.I'm throwin her out in a heartbeat

@Edu, no probs, good 2c u here! A thread once carried what turns u off ur partner? I specifically stated 'lack of virginity'. Im still a virgin and so needed a virgin too 4 crying out loud! If i should keep myself till date,y not her?

You should tek a sample my broda dnt tek dem 4 what dey say.

@poster-weren't you the same person that said that your inlaws,I mean ehmm*** are forcing you to marry their daughter that you impregnated I mean disvirgined? I don't understand,how did you get it back? It seems like you are just confused.

@ poster,u re d 1 hu said u r bein forcd 2 mary a girl u disvirgined & now u re married 2 a non virgin dat deceived u,na wa oo,u re rily fast o 2 hav goten maried wen u stil hav unresolvd issues wt ur disvirgined girl's family.

freecocoa:

@ poster,u re d 1 hu said u r bein forcd 2 mary a girl u disvirgined & now u re married 2 a non virgin dat deceived u,na wa oo,u re rily fast o 2 hav goten maried wen u stil hav unresolvd issues wt your disvirgined girl's family.

wao is that so

what a foolish poster

Sorry my dears, havent u heard of court marriage b4? We do it here in my country.

I wont pretend here,

I will make that marraige EXTREMELY MISERABLE to her. there will actually be a divorce in house for as long as she can cope before we finally officially divorce in the court.

the ONLY thing i think i owe her in that marriage is her upkeep (feeding, toiletries, and clothing-if i like sef). The truth is she ILLEGALLY made me pay for her pride price which means she stole my bachelorhood.

I pray NEVER to ex[erience such but if i do that witch oh! sorry woman will know say person dey devilish pass her

@talknafree,talk na rily free na him make u dey here dey yan rubbish,so u'll marry a girl cos she said she's a virgin n nt cos u luv her,na him be say u don loss naw.kpele

freecocoa:

@talknafree,talk na rily free na him make u dey here dey yan rubbish,so u'll marry a girl cos she said she's a virgin n nt cos u luv her,na him be say u don loss naw.kpele

Love is all about trust, truthfulness, and sharing. where is the love if she can lie and deceive me o boi lets be realistic. i might just find out 5 years into our marriage that she has once been married with 3 kids. will that still mean i should 'love' her?

I am extremely sincere in any relationship i go into so i think i also deserve same.

L- loose
O-out
V-very
E-easily

hell no!

Can't you just forgive and move on?

talknafree:

Love is all about trust, truthfulness, and sharing. where is the love if she can lie and deceive me o boi lets be realistic. i might just find out 5 years into our marriage that she has once been married with 3 kids. will that still mean i should 'love' her?

I am extremely sincere in any relationship i go into so i think i also deserve same.

hmm yea you only get one chance to get it right.

H2O2:

hmm yea you only get one chance to get it right.

yeah right!!! that one chance to make it right certainly doesnt have to be with her.

she lying that she was a virgin is like obj swearing he didn't steal naijas money or yaradua saying he had a perfect health until he became nigeria's president

IT IS A GREAT DECEIT

how did she force u to marry her

talknafree:

yeah right!!! that one chance to make it right certainly doesnt have to be with her.

she lying that she was a virgin is like obj swearing he didn't steal naijas money or yaradua saying he had a perfect health until he became nigeria's president

IT IS A GREAT DECEIT

what are you talking about yea right? we r agreeing with each other.
wtf

poster's a fool newai

H2O2:

what are you talking about yea right? we r agreeing with each other.
wtf

poster's a fool newai

Kpele! english is actually my 4th language (after hausa, takpa, ibibio, and kuntah)and i am just learning to read and spell in a night school, lol!

lol are you now yabbing me lol

Well all I can say is that I am so sorry for your experience but the question is, Is She not a lie herself, I mean everything she must have been telling you about herself and every other thing must have lies embedded in them,

i really dont want to say you got serve rightly but its true
whyy would you let yourself be deceived by the word VIRGIN
and perhaps did you get married to her virginity or she as a person?
my advice is try work things out between yourself

Happy New Year, yme.

FL Gators:

Happy New Year, yme.

happy new year love i wish you lots of love,happiness,divine breakthrough name all the good things of life and that is what i wish for you dear from the bottom of my heart.

y me:

happy new year love i wish you lots of love,happiness,divine breakthrough name all the good things of life and that is what i wish for you dear from the bottom of my heart.

lol wow, all that for me? Thanks o. I wish you the same and more, wish that this new year is better than the year before that.