Critically:

it will still bounce back on the single lady. Best thing is to stay clear or make it public if she's up for that.

kelvinrhs:

Everyone are not equal, I believe that If I get married someday with God by my side I will never cheat on my woman.

booscy:


The very Silent Reality is that Married Women Cheat so much nowadays too, its not a gender thing, guys go through a lot but won't blow trumpet
The thing is what ever that will hurt you, don't do to others.

verygudbadguy:
I didn't know NL babes are these God fearing ooo... First, the kind of friends u roll with, will determine the kind of things that will come ur way. I have friends who see nothing wrong in having a side chick. They condemn u if u don't go their way. If u are not strong, u will either go ur separate way or join their league.

Let me share my experience but won't go deep becos my wife is a NLer too.

Gals between the ages of 18 and 26 years often give in to married men's request majorly to meet their demand for extra ordinary lavish life styles on campuses and to satisfy the fantasies they watch on Tv and read in Novels.

I have read all the ladies' outburst here about married men going extra length to win them with material things. I must say this is 100% correct.

On the other hand, there are some ladies that see ring on ur hand and would still woo u stylishly. It is not all men's fault like it is being portrayed here. We are all humans and can be tempted sometimes. Some ladies are devilish too and they know how to get you with their tricks. I have had to deal with two in unilag and the glory of God, I didn't give in to their demands.

Both singles gals and married men should share the blame. If you are not going to fall, u won't.. It is when u have predetermined in ur heart to fall for married men that you fall. You only try to make it look like you were in a tight corner.

obstead200:

@ the bolded: u see, that is where u are wrong. 95% of married men who sleep around will NEVER leave their wife to marry that side chick. To them, that side chick is just a plaything that made herself available to be used to ease tension and make him feel good as a man. U know.......massage his ego because of his ability to conquer any woman of his choice, That is all. They still love their wife or at least respect their marriage. So if that is ur fear, forget it. 95% of the time, u are not taking anyone's husband, the men are simply catching fun, u are free to catch urs too if u are so inclined, or at least make them pay for catching fun with u.

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Unilag... Out of every 10 girls in New hall, 7 are dating married men.. I fear my school girls

How did u know? Exactly the hall I used to go.

Funny how we would all park along the roadside to wait for our pick after a hectic day at work . Those gals are just something else.

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God bless you! I felt so irritated reading that trash she calls opinion.

Divay22:


I never said he was going to leave is wife for me which i know will and can never happen, but going out with him means I'll have his attention more than the wife...
I don't need to tell you every woman needs her husband attention and not getting it can sometimes make her cry and feel bad, wondering what she did wrong not knowing I'm behind it.....
Whatever or however you wanna put it, women cry when their home is not in order, and that tears is not what I'm worth.....

All the single guys ain't finish yet for me to start catching fun with someone else hubby :olike seriously..
Fun he should be enjoying with is family...
You know what i so much respect and fear this word in a marriage "WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER LET NO MAN PUT ASUNDER "
Cos the consequences are sever.

verygudbadguy:


How did u know? Exactly the hall I used to go.

Funny how we would all park along the roadside to wait for our pick after a hectic day at work . Those gals are just something else.

scribble:



Lol u dont seem to understand the dynamic of marriage

Once the honeymoon period is over, the woman may not even notice the husbands absence

verygudbadguy:


How did u know? Exactly the hall I used to go.

Funny how we would all park along the roadside to wait for our pick after a hectic day at work . Those gals are just something else.

Adonis86:

Not only ladies, guys too.
Many married young guys are currently on my neck for sx. Some wit kids already,wen i ask why,they wil tell me their family forced them into marriage. They claim preference for fellow guys, these are handsome guys with cool cash here in Awka.

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Really so u just park and they hop in?

Or u park, get down, offer to buy them food...etc

Alondrah:
Some ladies are just too confused

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You eat the little you can? And not pay back?

favexx:
lol how can u pay the "little " when he is trying to woo you?....in the wooing process, u spend to convince me and dats the point i eat the little I can b4 his eyes opens and he notices dat nothing is gonna come out

Nellychinma20:
thanks
Don't get me wrong I never said its a gender oriented
am speaking for myself, married women don't come for me

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Hmm, my point is since you aren't interested at all, must you eat anything? No matter how little it may seem... You may not go Scot free if you try your method with some men.. Counter-strategic

Nellychinma20:
years back I would be the first to comment this but with experience I know better.
pray u don't encounter one cos i have one chasing me for 2yrs+ now and I don't think he's giving up in the nearest future

KKKWHITE:
Girls and married men are like 5 and 6 .

Alesandese:
Stubborn or not, once you make up your mind never to do it, then you will not date them. Guys with girlfriends professing love to me irks me let alone married ones. I can't even share self

favexx:
lol until then...but I must eat cos he gave that avenue....he should b sensible to tuck his pri pri into his pants...did I mention I go with my squad?

I888:
I don't have girlfriend,hope that won't irk you?

lovelygurl:
Op to be honest I don't know what your problem is.

Threaten to tell his wife

Make sure everybody knows he's married

Always give him disgusting looks because HE IS disgusting

Embarass him in public places. Especially in public places

Girl how did you even get yourself in that kind of situation in the first place?!

Alesandese:
you are funny

favexx:
if karma is to come after me lol,its 2 eat my husbands money and dump him without him tasting puna. And I think its fine by me, cos if the man foolish 2 go chyke girl, i pray make dem chop him money wel wel...btw I would b financially independent

Nellychinma20:
here's another one
There was this friend of mine, the girl love me no be small.
She was too fond of me and wanted me to meet her family ,mind u they are very rich
After the day I visited ,her dad took interest in me and anytime he's coming to school to visit her he would but lots of gifts for me and the mum too took me as a daughter.
we all became free around each other and got to know my family too.
I was in school one day when her dad called and told me to come outside (I thought it was about our surprise birthday party for her cos that was prior to her birthday)
with my innocent mind I came out and entered his car, he drove to a hotel and we went to the bar to have a drink.
He started confessing his love, at first I thought it was a joke and I jokingly told him to stop.
I was speechless when he tried grabbing and kissing me.
stunned, I stood up and told him to take me home
I was visibly shaking ,I least expected that from him
now my friend complains I don't like visiting her family and I always give flimsy excuses ,I can't tell her.
she talks about her perfect dad a lot and most times am mute, she won't understand
And whenever I visit them, her mum will tell me how happy she is for having such a faithful and good husband and even teach me how to make my man faithful when I get married.
He is still unrelenting but I can't betray a family that loves me so much
And I don't want to break his home, they are so lovely

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Se this one o..


you have refused to tell the house the countless gifts you receive from the married man ba..

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