Nairaland Forum

~Xerxes~:

Really?
We are talking single males n females. . . . .

amber_ella:

Thus the reason it's an invesment for men. You buy her a few presents while you're dating, and once you're married, you get a lifetime of free labor.

~Xerxes~:

I am having a laugh.
What's the probability that i would marry the girl i am currently dating?
Blimey. . . . What kind of high-risk investment is that?

amber_ella:



lol - sounds like you're wasting your money! I'd switch to a more conservative portfolio, my friend.

amber_ella:

Maybe you should stop trying to buy their love and they'll stop breaking your heart?

Nobody's holding a gun to your head. If you don't want to buy your girlfriend a present, then don't.

~Xerxes~:

It's not about me. . . . . .It's about these serpents(girls).
Guys spend and spend and spend and these tricks still break men's fragile hearts.

sistawoman:

I notice that Nigerian men tend to throw their money at women first w/o first determining if they deserve it.

~Xerxes~:

This is because Nigerian women don't regard Nigerian men who cannot splash some cheddarz in the chasing stage.
Money makes their world go round so a guy who wants to SCORE knows he must throw some cheese around.

I notice that Nigerian men tend to throw their money at women first w/o first determining if they deserve it.

sistawoman:

I hope noone gets mad at me but that is exactly what we call chickenheads over here in the states.

~Xerxes~:

Chickenheads?
Men don't mind to be called anything as long as they reach their CANAAN!!!!

Abi o!   

~Xerxes~:

Chickenheads?
Men don't mind to be called anything as long as they reach their CANAAN!!!!

sistawoman:


I was not talking about the men but the women. Not only are they chickenheads but they are hoes, if you will spread your legs for money then call it what it is.

~Xerxes~:

Technically, u are saying all women are whores.

amber_ella:

All women??

, or just the golddiggers you choose to date?

~Xerxes~:

All women!!!!!

amber_ella:

Not all women. You just need to get out more.

onyinye2:

@xerxes
how do you know it is not the woman that YOU attract that act this way

stillwater:

You guys still trying to decipher who Xerxes is? He's a Sexist!!!!

~Xerxes~:

Whores!!!!! You have just raised an interesting point there.
Technically, u are saying all women are whores.

The road that leads into any relationship starts from a guy meeting a woman. . . . . . .Taking her out on dates, buying gifts to impress, taking her out for lunch n sometimes dinner and finally getting her laid. I agree it is not directly straight cash-sex but then the end justifies the means.

sistawoman:

i can only speak of me personally. Just like my man takes me out i also take him out.

onyinye2:

may god help you xerxes

omoovie:

Xerxes I pity the girl that marries you and since it seems you place oyibo and acata girls higher than Naija babes is it any surprise to you that all the Naija babes you've been with want money, maybe a little sex and nothing else from you? You are a disgrace to the few respectful Naija men around the world! If it is so bad and you feel so put upon paying for the dates and giving presents would it kill you to let the babe know that "hey, I would like it if you offered or paid for our dates more and gave me presents". Let's be honest with ourselves. A Naija babe would only spend money on a man when she feels he deserves it and our upbringing has raised us to expect that a guy provides the finances on dates and so on. I am of the new school that believes in equality and I have surprised my boyfriends with a weekend vacation and a gifts before without prompting. The first time I was in a serious relationship with a Naija guy and did that he said it was emasculating and insulting that I picked up the cheque. Now tell me what y'all want? Naija men as far as I'm concerned are mostly a very confused bunch and brook no allowances for error whenever it comes to Naija babes. If she doesn't pay 4 anything she's just after your often nonexistent money. If she pays she's being insulting and treading on your male honor. If she gree without too much toasting she is a cheap slut and u now have clearance to just mess with her and waka, if she no gree or gree after much hardship she's a stuck up Naughty Lady and will ever remain a spinster! GOD! I'm tired of Nigerian men! & before u nitwits that I know exist out there start harping on the previous statement let me preemptively reply --- I'm glad you're effing tired of me too so kiss my large, tasty African Bottom!

Peace!