My brother in law was recently shot at by Armed Robbers.
Unfortunately, he lost his life due to the negligence and incompetence of medical practitioners.
He had 2 kids and a wife......
What role does a brother in law play in the upbringing of both kids and support for his beloved wife?
Thank you in advance for all responses........

Awwww olalexus! May God himself care for those he left behind and grant him good passage. E Pele. My hugs to his sister and wish you could take heart too. No leaf comes of a tree without God's knowledge.


If you are capable, I think promising and actually taking up the education responsibility of the kids will go a long way. If you could do that for her, she would be the most grateful. Also, you could help start her up with a good business or boost her existing business with some cash. These depends of course on your capabilities.

IMO, apart from the love gone, the most painful loss for a widow is : turning a waltz to a dance for one. Its most difficult to dance alone. It is well. Imagine all that responsibilities left for her alone...

May God bless your good heart. It is well.

Dyt: Come and help the maruwa guy with some warm embrace o.

sisisioge:
Awwww olalexus! May God himself care for those he left behind and grant him good passage. E Pele. My hugs to his sister and wish you could take heart too. No leaf comes of a tree without God's knowledge.


If you are capable, I think promising and actually taking up the education responsibility of the kids will go a long way. If you could do that for her, she would be the most grateful. Also, you could help start her up with a good business or boost her existing business with some cash. These depends of course on your capabilities.

IMO, apart from the love gone, the most painful loss for a widow is : turning a waltz to a dance for one. Its most difficult to dance alone. It is well. Imagine all that responsibilities left for her alone...

May God bless your good heart. It is well.

Dyt: Come and help the maruwa guy with some warm embrace o.

Thank you for your response and encouraging words + advices.
I have asked one of my brother in laws to setup a whatsapp group of all well intended uncles + friends, so we can all think together and agree on the best route.

Lexusgs430:


Thank you for your response and encouraging words + advices.
I have asked one of my brother in laws to setup a whatsapp group of all well intended uncles + friends, so we can all think together and agree on the best route.

Cool...that's a good start. It's a good way to keep promisers active too. I have seen where well meaning Uncles and Aunties disappeared after the first week cos nobody is nudging them. Yeah,it isn't by force to be benevolent but ...it is well jare.

May God be with her and hers.

sisisioge:


Cool...that's a good start. It's a good way to keep promisers active too. I have seen where well meaning Uncles and Aunties disappeared after the first week cos nobody is nudging them. Yeah,it isn't by force to be benevolent but ...it is well jare.

May God be with her and hers.

Hence my thinking of engaging, while the fire is still hot..
And while we are all within the same group, we/I can directly engage ourselves and nudge, if and when required....

Lexusgs430:


Hence my thinking of engaging, while the fire is still hot..

Groovy.

sisisioge:


Groovy.

Indeed. My brother in law earned very well, and did not require his wife to work at all.
So this is a big shock to her system....

Lexusgs430:


Indeed. My brother in law earned very well, and did not require his wife to work at all.
So this is a big shock to her system....

It is well o...biko stand by her the best you could. May God help you and her.


#womanshouldearnaliving!

sisisioge:


It is well o...biko stand by her the best you could. May God help you and her.


#womanshouldearnaliving!

Amen

#whenshetriedlookingforajobbutcouldnotfindwentforhermschopingtogetstillnojobshekukuopenshop

Lexusgs430:


Amen

#whenshetriedlookingforajobbutcouldnotfindwentforhermschopingtogetstillnojobshekukuopenshop

I can relate. I'm presently jobless but I had a little saved and have kinda opened a tax office. May God bless our hustle.

sisisioge:


I can relate. I'm presently jobless but I had a little saved and have kinda opened a tax office. May God bless our hustle.

I hope your rate of tax is not 87.5%?

Lexusgs430:


I hope your rate of tax is not 87.5%?

No rate attached, na pay as you can manage. May God help us all jare. Hugs to you SIL

sisisioge:


No rate attached, na pay as you can manage. May God help us all jare. Hugs to you SIL

Thank you

Support the wife and kids in any way you can. Treat them well.

Wait for two years and marry her

SirVintageCock:
Wait for two years and marry her

I should marry my brother inlaws wife ? And what do I about his sister ?

NotOfThis:
Support the wife and kids in any way you can. Treat them well.

Goes without saying....... Would do my best within reason.
Thanx

Lexusgs430:


I should marry my brother inlaws wife ? And what do I about his sister ?

scratches chin I don't know . Left my brain at the church.

SirVintageCock:
scratches chin I don't know . Left my brain at the church.

Abeg Oga, go and retrieve it........

Discuss with your wife


*modified

Acidosis:
Discuss with your wife


*modified

Thanks.
Already had a mini conversation to understand better dynamics.

my condolences about your brother inlaw. May his soul rest in peace and God grant him eternal glory.

nurey:
my condolences about your brother inlaw. May his soul rest in peace and God grant him eternal glory.

Thank you Boss

I was asked to give you plenty hugs
But I don't hug married men
But I can make do with lots of ehugs and ekisses

Lexusgs430:


Thank you Boss

Sorry for the Loss.But was he arguing with the robbers or no money at home? in nigeria u dont argue with arm men.
RIP to the deceased

Tritri:


Sorry for the Loss.But was he arguing with the robbers or no money at home? in nigeria u dont argue with arm men.
RIP to the deceased

They mounted a road block, and were busy doing operation. They stopped him and he floored it. Then they shoot at his car..

Thank you

Dyt:
I was asked to give you plenty hugs
But I don't hug married men
But I can make do with lots of ehugs and ekisses

You could make an exception nah ?

Thank You

Lexusgs430:


They mounted a road block, and were busy doing operation. They stopped him and he floored it. Then they shoot at his car..

Heya...Only if he had known...Things like this happens on night travelling frequently ..am i right?

Tritri:



Heya...Only if he had known...Things like this happens on night travelling frequently ..am i right?

It happened in the afternoon

Lexusgs430:


You could make an exception nah ?

Thank You

Clown

Dyt:



Clown

Would be our warm secret ......