ifex370:



I never knew a lady could get Hot just by looking at a man ... well we learn everyday

thesicilian:
Would you have picked up your books and left if it happened in class? Or an exam hall? You just were not ready for church so you looked for an excuse to leave.
In as much as many of these ladies need to be sanctioned by ushers and ministers for their indecent exposures, you just cannot blame others for your own actions and inactions. That is the bitter truth. If you truly believe in Christ, then you'll know that your reason for leaving will definitely not stand on the last day.

NotOfThis:
Focus and keep your eyes on the Pastor instead of letting them wander about. You can't control what anyone wears but you can control your own eyes and mind. It's not difficult to do if you really want to.

NotOfThis:
Focus and keep your eyes on the Pastor instead of letting them wander about. You can't control what anyone wears but you can control your own eyes and mind. It's not difficult to do if you really want to.

dangotesmummy:
so we should wear Mary amaka skirts and big blouses because your phenese cannot stay calm in church for 4hrs without erecting inside your boxers?

I've got news for you my dear.you cannot control what other women wear however you can control that tail in between your thighs

omogidi234:


I had this discussion recently, I didn't succeed, so I left it. I said that any man who sexually harrases a woman should face the FULL wrath of the law but that our women shouldn't​ dress in such a way that they wouldn't​ entice a man.

The truth is any man will take a first look at a pretty and well dressed woman.

But they tend to brew terrible thought when they see women who dressed revealing parts of the body or wear dresses showing body line.

Even men who have discplined themselves over time and have overcome this issue can still fall prey of this, if they are constantly exposed to such dressing and give opportunity to it.

That's why some our MOG are getting involved in sexual issues. Because they are still men. Not condoning that though.
Please

Fundamentally​, rather than complain, I think we should learn how to overcome it ( though tasking), cause the argument from women would always be 'control yourself irrespective of however they dress'.

Secondly, the Onus is on us to teach our children, that men are wired by God to be biological aroused by the feminine body, but that the girls shouldn't dress to entice them and the boys should learn how to control themsevles whether or not the girls dress arousingly.

Once the war is first won in the society, it would be won in churches​ and other places of worship.

MARYchiells:












Bros, I understand your pain, fellow sisters let's help ourselves and others. It cost less to dress decent.

EmtolalaaPRAISE:



Hanty, lemme school you small. You cannot think for yourself as a woman and think for a man too. If I tell you that my hormones are secreting in high quantity because of your sexiness, please understand that and dress modestly. Well, what am I even saying. I've personally gone past that level but most people are still there and that's why they just woo a girl to be their girlfriend because she's sexy and hot and they want to f**k! Once they are done, they move on to the next sexy hot girl. So it's an advice for girls not guys.