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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by dopedude(m): 10:28am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008: Imagine u r in a serious relationship with a girl whom you have engaged, and she is being open to other options as you said, how would you feel if you find out? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by loswhite(m): 10:30am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008:you don't need to sleep with a man begin you build emotional attachment or are u not aware of that? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 10:30am On Apr 24, 2017 |
refiner: Nah.... u go edit the message....put yeye mog there.. make me too edit my own.... but stop all this english wen u dey form sha. e dey pain me for body cos i no sabi how to speak am like u |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by loswhite(m): 10:33am On Apr 24, 2017 |
GodblessNig247:so u come to Nairaland to look for babe? Smh get a life |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by loswhite(m): 10:36am On Apr 24, 2017 |
obi58:they hate it when a girl turn them down telling them that they are in relationship all this are manipulative techniques. As woman follow your instinct 1 Like |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by loswhite(m): 11:03am On Apr 24, 2017 |
pepemendy:with this write up you are also very foolish well birds of the same feather |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by refiner(f): 11:49am On Apr 24, 2017 |
TheLordIsGr8:Lol...i no mind to speak pidgin with u sha...u know as babes...we need to form small sha So u no dey vex for me now abi? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 11:51am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Oladokunst:hehehehhehe, I knew you would take that line of defense, but let's be honest,what I have said is the bitter truth, Its not about poisoning innocent minds but letting others know whats obtainable out there and making the right decision that favours them after all it is wise to learn from experience but more wiser to learn from other people's experience. They already own each other you say?please do us all a favor and tell us by which standard according to the law or culture?, let's stop being sentimental finally, the only exception should be when the guy in question knows the value of loyalty, which brings me to my next question,how many guys out there and even on this thread, can put their hands up that they have been faithful to their current gf or partner?,you can't expect loyalty when you don't give loyalty, just like you guys say you don't move around with xrays to know the inner beauty of a woman, so also women dont move around with xrays to know faithful men. And by the way, I am not grieving over what is not mine, infact you shot yourself in the foot there, nobody owns anybody, the woman has a biological clock and she is more at a disadvantage should the relationship go south, so I think you will agree with me that she needs to keep her options open so as not to get her time wasted since she (in your own words) doesn't own the guy either until he puts a ring on it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 11:56am On Apr 24, 2017 |
refiner: who say u no b correct babe ehn.... the thunder that will ehn..ehn... is still looking for whistle to blow. how u dey na? make i see whether i fit toast u small and get your number. no tell me no oooo. I no dey like am at all abeg tell me which kind words dey bust your head, and wen be ur birthday? i want buy u whistle. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 12:01pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
NoToPile:blunt!, most guys here are just being sentimental about the issue, because it places them at a disadvantage for free access until they are ready to settle with someone else, but the blunt truth is there is no standing rule anywhere that accepts bf and gf relationship as being legal or exclusive, if a lady decides to be loyal to a guy,it should be because he has earned it,and not because they are dating, of which in all honesty,only a very minute percentage of men know what loyalty means 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by refiner(f): 12:01pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
TheLordIsGr8:Lol...i dey oo...u nko? Toast me?...i no be bread nah...or i resemblr brrad for ur eye...u no fit toast me na oga... |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 12:14pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
refiner: I fine jor. I dey work. Computer wen dem carry give me dey slow like say recession hol am. So I just dey console myself for NL Haba!!! no be woman u be? woman wen dey soft like today bread i know say u dey wait for me to pm u now, but what a man can do a woman can do .... u know d story na abeg no derail this thread ooo so try do d needful. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 12:15pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
dopedude: I will marry her and close other options. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by firstking01(m): 12:20pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
loswhite:Marriage guarantees nothing and you fell from the sky abi?...the way some of you think eh, @times i just feel like giving up(this one weak me)....so, God that instituted it was foolish?, smh....marry the right person and for the right reason and your mentality about marriage will change. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by FILEBE(m): 1:19pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008: Toks2008: ehn ehn. We seem to be saying the same thing here. You are not just putting it right. Simply say: Lady, move along if you see no future with your boyfriend. If you are in a relationship, you talk to him, advice him if the need be . If he changes and you see him working towards it, support him and you guys should work things together. Not all of us are ready made. We have to struggle to be made and a lady who stays with us through the thick and thin is the one we respect. Or simply put it this way: LADIES. USE YOUR HEAD NOT YOUR BODY |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Josephamstrong1(m): 2:14pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
Oga Toks, if ur woman had been double dating. Do u tnk u would have settled wt her? Sometimes you contradict yourself with most of your write-ups. Mitschww 1 Like |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Josephamstrong1(m): 2:23pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
FILEBE: You've said it all man... Ignore that guy. Wonder why mods don't scrutinise write-ups before publishing on FP. Abeg take ds...
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Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by ronald4lif(m): 2:26pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
Hmmm not until you see your girlfriend cheating on you you'll realise it's not as easy like you put it. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by loswhite(m): 2:49pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
firstking01:you are so dumb. Marriage doesn't guarantee childbirth Incase if u don't ppl give birth to children with or without marriage. The God said that marriage is compulsory? Why did Jesus not get married? You are the one that is foolish and cannot understand simple English. MARRIAGE guarantees nothing. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by queenbetsy(f): 3:12pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
davidif:seriously, you are not getting it... |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by queenbetsy(f): 3:47pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
godman01:seriously?? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by firstking01(m): 3:53pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
loswhite:Lol, why the rage?...if marriage guarantees nothing why are you even in existence huh....from this your blind and dumb mindset i can conclude that you are a product of an un-stable and broken home, well, sorry about that sha... Note the following for your own good so you won't continue to wallow in foolery and ignorance(that's if you are a christian in the first place) . 1. For this purpose a man shall leave his father and mother and cleev to his wife and the both shall become one flesh....Gen 2:24.... 2. He who finds a wife finds a GOOD THING and obtains FAVOUR from the lord....so, from the above statement one of the things you are guaranteed of is "favour" and "good thing".... The no 1 point God said in the garden of eden that "it's not good for the man to be alone, HE created the woman eve after HE made adam to fall into a deep sleep and when the man woke up he looked at the woman and said, "indeed this is the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh, and he called her "WOMAN"....this is were the statement emanated from, for this purpose a man shall leave his father and mother and shall hold unto his wife and the two shall become one....i took out time to spare you this knowledge to show you that GODHIMSELF Instituted and approved marriage....lest i forget, the woman is "supposed" to be a helpmeet for the man but because people like you and maybe the people and family you 've surrounded yourself with made a mistake while chosing a wife and today the effect is taking a negative toll on you and left you with the mindset and believe that marriage guarantees nothing....so, i believe you won't make mistake why chosen a life partner in jesus name....amen . At the no 2 point....Marriage guarantees you not just good thing and favour but all round blessings dependind also the kinda woman you marry....still have alot to write but go home with this and next time be mindful of the kinda words you use on people.... Have a nice day . |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by GodblessNig247(m): 4:11pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
loswhite: U should be the one to get a life cos u don't know how to talk to ur elders. Do I look like your mate? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by sweetilicious(f): 5:56pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
Once a lady is really taken she should let other well wishers know.You don't expect ladies to loosen themselves and accept every Tom,Dick and Harry like they are intimacy gadgets.Even if she is not taken,i think being alone till you meet the one is the best for your vagina and your health. |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by adajoe555: 6:08pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
Booked |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by PastorandMentor(m): 6:28pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
Please send me your number adajoe555: |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Nobody: 7:10pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks, I actually think you have a point here. I agree with your premise to certain extent. It is not to say to sleep with a lot of men etc, but to know any guy can bail on you at any time and and be prepared if/when it happens. Gosh, sometimes even after marriage, men check out- as in physically present but emotionally or mentally absent. Addendum: the potential drawback to your proposition toks, is that it would cause people to 'hurry' up or 'hasten' the process of courtship, which defeats the purpose ("time" required for due diligence etc...). The result? Microwaved courtship & wedding = disaster marriage. Women should not play games (by flirting with other men) when they are in a serious relationship just so they can get the man to 'hurry' up and propose marriage. Men should not play games by staying in holding pattern (for no reason) and commit to marriage. In short people should not waste time, but they should not short cut time. Get it? Fine balance. Tit for tat. Goes both ways. 1 Like |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by godman01(m): 8:26pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
queenbetsy:I would rather tell you to say Yes to the man that sincerely knows that the relationship at the very beginning is to get married to you, and not to test. With that there won't be any question of showing him off or not. The very fact that many relationship these days starts with no purpose or rather the wrong one, is the more reason for many heartbreaks. Selah 1 Like |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Pearl005(f): 9:24pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
Toks2008:OMG!!! you guys should just make up your mind already.... So, you want HER to mention "friendship" after which you will be shouting Friendzoning Upandan ! |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Toks2008(m): 10:35pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
Pearl005: Na WA o..so this write up is so complex to decipher.... Keeping your option open simply means not flaunting your present Bae and it's not about double dating or sleeping around... |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by FILEBE(m): 11:18pm On Apr 24, 2017 |
Josephamstrong1: Dammmmmmn! Baba. you too much. Abeg, I go fit see some carry go house? |
Re: When She Says "I'm Taken" by Adanne9110(f): 3:55am On Apr 25, 2017 |
But come to think of this,how will a lady be trust worthy to a man without saying "NO" to others? The same set of people thatwill say trust no lady,will still come out to say "why did you say no to the second man..in summary,are u encouraging ladies to double date,cos i cant imagine a man meeting his girl in a fastfood with another man ans gladly call it a harmless date,definately not a naija man. |
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