Swegzfreak:
Ok o. Abdul razaq with no sperm come and see ooo

mztyqal:

Are you being funny or being stupid. I only put that for him to know that despite the great challenge, I never thought of leaving him. please don't make matters worse. insensitive comments would only ruin things more

Tritri:
@mztyqal , What's so hard in letting ur parent know it rasaq u want ...Blocking him at FIRST shows ur confused and might FINALLY BLOCK him one day and dat it.and we've seen a situation whereby a day to the marriage the lady left for the EX. You really need alot of effort to show rasaq dat you're INCHARGE of ur life and not ur parent ..and u want him becos u loved him not becos u feel PITY for him .

To Me i feel ur doing this out of GUILTY CONSCIENCE .
I felt all this r just DAMAGE CONTROL tactics lady play (knowingly hurt u and still cry )


Let me ask u a question:

Why shd u tell ur MOM abt his condition ? if u respect him or love him I swear u won't tell ur parent .

Imagine me telling my mom my fiance womb is destroy but i will still marry her ?? where does dat work.?


Did u even plan all this to make u look Innocent ??

best of luck...

Mimzyy:
^^^If she could block him under the so called duress, then, in the long run, she might eventually give in to pressure and go reconcile with her ex.

OP, please if you know you that you wl not be able to stand the test of time with him, just let him go now. Better than later, ain't blaming you or something. Sometimes in life, we just have to make some tough decisions. Don't do pity love, if you're for Rasaq, then defy all odds, if you are for you ex, save the dude the future heartache.

daylyt:


Hmmmm..

Mimzyy:


??

sisisioge:
Well well well...your story sweeted me from the begining , the rest isn't my scene though ( I no too gbadun drama)

The part that sweeted is where you met him in January and you've already picked the wedding date. Splendid! In less than four months? Wowzerful! Although, velocity of stuff like this needs more than empirical calculation. It is well.

Maybe I should start responding to all my PMs too , who knows, I might just get married next month just in time for my birthday day

Anyways, the guy should biko forgive you. He should forgive you o! Duude! Forgive her o! How many times you want make she beg you? Forgive her biko? Thank you.

eyinjuege:
Why is he so angry with you for blocking him for ordinary 2hours?, especially when it was under duress. At least you guys are just still ordinary bf/gf and not a married couple yet.
Abdulrazak, grow up please.
I understand he might have mixed feelings about your dad not supporting your union, afterall there's a saying that - you can have a bad wife, but its bad in-laws you can't afford to have.
But he shouldn't take that out on you na.
Even if he wants to break up, do it amicably.
If he has money to go and see a urologist abroad for his azoospermia. A little surgery might be what he needs.
He and his future wife- maybe you, would definitely need assisted fertilization- the likes of IVF. So you need to see a fertility specialist also. Its a lot of money though, a lot of money.
Don't waste time on all sorts of fasting and prayers only. Medical science works, and your fasting and prayer makes things just pan out perfectly.
However, if things don't work out between you two, life goes on. If one falls off a horse, you get back right on it, the race continues....

sisisioge:
Well well well...your story sweeted me from the begining , the rest isn't my scene though ( I no too gbadun drama)

The part that sweeted is where you met him in January and you've already picked the wedding date. Splendid! In less than four months? Wowzerful! Although, velocity of stuff like this needs more than empirical calculation. It is well.

Maybe I should start responding to all my PMs too , who knows, I might just get married next month just in time for my birthday day

Anyways, the guy should biko forgive you. He should forgive you o! Duude! Forgive her o! How many times you want make she beg you? Forgive her biko? Thank you.

eyinjuege:
Why is he so angry with you for blocking him for ordinary 2hours?, especially when it was under duress. At least you guys are just still ordinary bf/gf and not a married couple yet.
Abdulrazak, grow up please.
I understand he might have mixed feelings about your dad not supporting your union, afterall there's a saying that - you can have a bad wife, but its bad in-laws you can't afford to have.
But he shouldn't take that out on you na.
Even if he wants to break up, do it amicably.
If he has money to go and see a urologist abroad for his azoospermia. A little surgery might be what he needs.
He and his future wife- maybe you, would definitely need assisted fertilization- the likes of IVF. So you need to see a fertility specialist also. Its a lot of money though, a lot of money.
Don't waste time on all sorts of fasting and prayers only. Medical science works, and your fasting and prayer makes things just pan out perfectly.
However, if things don't work out between you two, life goes on. If one falls off a horse, you get back right on it, the race continues....

daylyt:


Hmmm

Lmao!

dingbang:
what happened to sisioge

rennylaw:


Please forgive her and you guys should move on to the next level of the relationship

This thing called Love sef.

mztyqal:
Got to his house by 6.10am this morning. I knocked so hard, called his name, called his phone. He didn't answer. I called his friends, none of them picked up. He was inside cos his car was parked outside. I suffered yesterday and I suffered today as well just looking for him. how do you get angry with someone you haven't seen? At least hear me out.
I got tired of making a fool of myself and left. His ex was certainly at home with him. I'm not asking him not to move on, I'm just surprised that he can be like this. He was the sweetest man in my eyes.
When his family called and was insulting me, asking him why he wants to leave her for me, I cried so much that day and he came to my mum to beg her to beg me. How would he have felt if I and my mum shut him out of our house. My mum that was his best friend suddenly turned to who calls and texts him without response.
Guess this is the closure I need.
I wish him well.
Thanks everyone.