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7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by DanceVille: 4:45pm On May 11, 2017
Everything has a rule, even a relationship. There are
certain things that a guy would say to a lady on a first
date which would determine whether there will be
another date.


Most Nigerian men are not perfect when it comes to
wooing a lady. Due to ego, some men assume that they
can convince any girl to date them, irrespective of what
they do or say.


This principle might work for only a few but a higher
percentage of ladies expect a prospective boyfriend to be
on point in his manner of approach as well as in his
intentions.


First impression matters a lot. If you get it right on a first
date, you are more likely to get a second date and more.
Ladies do not appreciate a braggadocio, so mentioning
your achievements to a lady you are getting to know will
only turn her off.


Unfortunately, most Nigerian guys think this is the best
way to get a girl since most ladies are materialistic.
Well, you’ll need to change your vocabulary. Here are
some silly things most Nigerian men say to ladies that
should be avoided on a first date.


1. I Love You


Okay Pause! How can you possibly love someone you
are still getting to know? That would be lust and a huge
lie for you to say. In as much as you feel something for
her, it is definitely not love, so saying ‘I love you’ either
makes you a liar or a confused fellow.


2. I Am the Son of . . ./ the CEO of . . .


Men, Ladies First
Date
Some men cannot camouflage on low key because they
think if she knows who’se son he is, or where he works,
it might boost his reputation. Well, here’s the shocker,
women do not like it when men strike them as being
proud.
Some ladies might be overwhelmed by your status, some
do not care and may look down on your proud tellings. If
you are not her type, being the son of Dangote will not
change that.


3. You Look Like My Ex


Really! Comparison to an ex; who may still be her
competition, is a ‘NO NO Liner.’ Tell her she looks pretty
and not liken her to someone you once had feelings for.
That will only make her a second option; because your
ex is no more available, you want to settle for her look-
alike.


4. What Are Your Statistics?


Now this would piss women off totally. It is irritating
when men walk up to ladies and within few minutes start
to ask them for their statistics when the guys do not
work for modelling agencies.
This is a lustful question and most ladies may frown at
it. Not only is it inappropriate, it could sound as a rude
shock to the lady.


5. I Can Buy You Anything You Want


Men, Ladies First
Date
Ladies do not like it when they meet men who see them
as cheap,with the assumption that they would fall once
they know their financial needs can be taken care of.
Some ladies would rather walk in rags with pride than
date men who would give them clothes and later make
them feel worthless. Some men even go as far as saying
‘I Can Take You Round the World.’ Not every woman
enjoys these exaggerated promises, especially if the man
is trying so hard to buy her love.


6. I Will Give You Satisfaction


This is really disgusting and most men say it even
though not in black and white. Not only is it
inappropriate to say this to a woman, it is embarrassing
for a lady to be addressed like that when she is not a
prostitute. Even though ladies worry about the sexual
performances of their partners, they do not appreciate it
when men propose this to them while asking them out. It
makes them feel like the men are after their bodies and
nothing else.


7. I Want to Marry You


This line might captivate the heart of teenagers who do
not know what life is talking about. However, saying it to
a lady in her late twenties and above, suggests that you
are either mocking her or plan to use the marriage liner
to get into her panties.
Having said all of these, courtesy demands that the next
time you are about to sweep a lady off her feet, you
should stay clear off the above phrases. Be yourself and
she will love you for who you are.


Compiled By: DanceVille

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by decatalyst(m): 5:01pm On May 11, 2017
Hey op, most Nigerian ladies want to hear "I can buy you anything you want" even on half date!


They will be looking at you like the pix below begging you to just say those words. grin

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by DanceVille: 5:07pm On May 11, 2017
decatalyst:
Hey op, most Nigerian girls what to hear "I can buy you anything you want" even on half date!


Hmmm....

Really

Ladies... where are you?

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by pocohantas(f): 5:20pm On May 11, 2017
They won't hear...
They will still come and tell us what most Nigerian girls like. grin

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by SweetyZinta(f): 5:29pm On May 11, 2017
Lolz









seriously? I will marry you on a first date? I better Runnn for my life

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by incredible70(m): 5:51pm On May 11, 2017
Op, is it your date ehn?

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by DanceVille: 6:40pm On May 11, 2017
incredible70:
Op, is it your date ehn?
huh?
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by DanceVille: 6:41pm On May 11, 2017
SweetyZinta:
Lolz










seriously? I will marry you on a first date? I better Runnn for my life
Lol......
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by DanceVille: 6:57pm On May 11, 2017
pocohantas:
They won't hear... They will still come and tell us what most Nigerian girls like. grin

lol
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by ThemiDhayor(f): 7:53pm On May 11, 2017
Nice one op.


If a Nigerian guy tells me all these stuffs, I will surely make sure I wet him wit d hot coffee on my hand..

Bro lalasticlala... If na u sef... Na kiss I go giv u.

Abeg shift this thread to fp.
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by DaZion(m): 7:58pm On May 11, 2017
Make i sit down first..

Op why nau..
Hw wil deborah accept my proposal nw?

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by Mediapace: 8:01pm On May 11, 2017
Danceville is back

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by Nickizoe(f): 8:03pm On May 11, 2017
The 7 mostly knocks us off
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by Nobody: 8:06pm On May 11, 2017
DanceVille:
Hmmm....

Really

Ladies... where are you?
He telling lies undecided
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by DanceVille: 8:28pm On May 11, 2017
Mediapace:
Danceville is back
Boss of Boss....
I hail you bro....
Hope you're doing good bro?
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by DanceVille: 8:29pm On May 11, 2017
Bumbae1:
He telling lies undecided
Thanks jare..

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by Mediapace: 8:35pm On May 11, 2017
DanceVille:


Boss of Boss....

I hail you bro....

Hope you're doing good bro?

Yea
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by auntysimbiat(f): 10:15pm On May 11, 2017
Nice op
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by PoisonedOne: 10:16pm On May 11, 2017
Una don start again abi?
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by Dottore: 10:16pm On May 11, 2017
Ok
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by 9jayes: 10:16pm On May 11, 2017
DON'T LET THIS OPPORTUNITY PASS YOU BY
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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by ped007(m): 10:19pm On May 11, 2017
I was hoping not to see "Let's get down"...
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by holatimmy(f): 10:20pm On May 11, 2017
This word too should be included...

"Please say Yes,I can't do without you"
That word alone contains 562000 lies in seconds.

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by Victornezzar: 10:20pm On May 11, 2017
SweetyZinta:
Lolz










seriously? I will marry you on a first date? I better Runnn for my life

I want to marry u tongue

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by Moving4: 10:20pm On May 11, 2017

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by enemyofprogress: 10:23pm On May 11, 2017
Op Na wetin concern you?some babes wan hear wetin you dey condemn
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by VIPERVENOM(m): 10:23pm On May 11, 2017
Wetin concern me

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by Bryan12(m): 10:24pm On May 11, 2017
First date or no first date
If a woman sees who she will date/fvck she knows at first sighting,other ones na shererere grin

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Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by Flexherbal(m): 10:24pm On May 11, 2017
Taken !
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by CharlieMaria(m): 10:24pm On May 11, 2017
Ok..Let me come and be going.
Re: 7 Inappropriate Things Guys Shouldn't Say To A Nigerian Lady On First Date by Nobody: 10:25pm On May 11, 2017
Úr waist 34, ur hips 44, u r 24, oh I love my baby!

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