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|Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Hyerin(f): 12:27am On May 19|
I'm just curious but I watched a movie were a guy broke up with his girlfriend after he found out she wasn't a virgin (cos initially she lied she was but later told him the truth). Not only in movies do these things happen, but also in reality. Why?
Men want virgins but they themselves aren't virgins. Going to mess up and shxt like that but when females do it. Oh no. She is a slut/LovePeddler etc. Gender inequality much? Not to be a "third wave feminist" or "neo-radical feminist" but this is how I feel. So much is expected of a lady but little is expected of a man. I mean, why?
The world is changing everyday. Stereotypes are being broken. If you expect women to be pure & chaste before marriage then why can't you? (referring to men)
P.S. if you can't be civil or polite. Get off this thread. Don't be a nuisance.
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by pocohantas(f): 12:31am On May 19|
She lied, why did she lie?
Was she planning to download hymen from Playstore?
Next time, she should say the truth.
For a change, let's forget what men think or say. You as a babe, are you satisfied with having several sexual partners? If you're satisfied, then fu<ck what they think and keep fu<king. The thing no get meter sef, na you go use your hand set the mileage
....but if you're overly bothered about what they think,then the answer you seek lies within you.
Not every man likes virgins though.
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by sonofspada(m): 12:31am On May 19|
Excuse Me .!
I don't like Virgins
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Arsenalholic1: 12:35am On May 19|
Why do people like fresh bread, even though they've eaten lots of bread before?
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Hyerin(f): 12:36am On May 19|
She lied because she was scared. She still told him the truth at the end but despite that, he left her and the main reason was because she wasn't a virgin. Not because she lied. Like y'all lie all the time but make a mountain out of a molehill when a woman does. I think that was very insensitive of him & all he was after was that clean cut.
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Hyerin(f): 12:41am On May 19|
She lied because she was scared. She still told him the truth at the end but despite that, he left her and the main reason was because she wasn't a virgin. Not because she lied. Like men lie all the time but make a mountain out of a molehill when a woman does. I think that was very insensitive of him & all he was after was that clean cut. Because if he truly loved her instead of trying to hit that, he wouldn't have left. Just like that.
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by pocohantas(f): 12:41am On May 19|
Hyerin:Hmm...I still think she should have said the truth. Personally, I won't be with a man who sticks with me just because of hymen.
So, if were her, I would have cut off that guy the moment he became overly interested in my 'virginity'. The only exception is if he is one.
What exactly was she scared of?
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Pointblank09(m): 12:44am On May 19|
Men like being truthful in such cases.
Say it as it is. If he would stay, he would stay.
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:45am On May 19|
The lady was primarily dumped because of DECEIT, not the inexistent hymen... But the truth is African men have unusually enlarged ego, therefore rather marry a tear rubber wife than an heavy duty tokunbo one.
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Huee(f): 12:58am On May 19|
Arsenalholic1:Damn!! .. that's so deep
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by IdeyFindWife: 1:35am On May 19|
She shoulda told him the truth and let him deal with it: accept her for who she is or take a hike!
It's much better to lay it out like that and secure future peace of mind and happiness rather than constantly looking behind her back in fear and throes of deceit!
Leaving the guy to later find out gives him to doubt what ever stories she would've said now and making wild conjectures all over the place.
She flunked, big time! Buurrr wait, I thot ladies know and have all the usual "packages" dem dey take carry give guys when they wanna explain away the loss of their V-Compliance nah? Selling him an embellished story like everybody does sef for don beta.!
You hear about "Ehnnn, how her drink was drugged!"
OR how "the guy did it only once to test her status!!
OR How it was "she & one of her over-adventurous cousins when they were playing mommie&Daddy games at age 5&7 etc; you know how we roll nah ? Anything but a lame, un-creative, blatant lie!
Anyway, thank goodness, it was a movie sha...i believe no Lagos girl presently living is dat daft!
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Nobody: 1:55am On May 19|
She lied ...that was the issue.
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by junnyjake(m): 1:57am On May 19|
Ehen! Is there a way to verify the virginity of a man
Did we have a hand in our biological make up to this effect?
That's the point where you begin make nonsense out of your argument.
Are the men having sex with themselves?
Isn't it with the ladies?
This lady, you talking about lied to her boyfriend about her virginity, and there's no justification for her action. Something attracted this guy to her, right? Would you tell me she had virginity written over her when he first approached her?
The guy is possibly be thinking " if she lied to me about this, then she's probably lying to me about other things, it'd be best if I break off this dishonest relationship "
So what I'm saying is that he broke up with her not because of the nonexistent hymen but her lie about it. #simple
Cc hyerin, there are lots of dimwits on here that can't make their points without insults, I want to believe you are more enlightened than those group of people.
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by junnyjake(m): 1:59am On May 19|
I should definitely have more to say by tomorrow.
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Burna88(f): 2:04am On May 19|
This is no issue
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Fourwinds: 3:16am On May 19|
Hyerin:look here young lady.. y tell lies in d first place.? lies can never help in relationship..dey day d truth comes knocking everything will fall apart. I always see foolishness in people who think telling lies make them smart...dat is one of d highest stupidity..
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by swagguElite(m): 3:33am On May 19|
I guess yu guys don't understand the meaning of it is a man's world! ....we didn't make us! ...we were made to be like this!
...what is the point actually? ... Men don't have holes with hymen guarding its womb with a blood shield!...So ao we can actually remain virgins if ...there is no going to be difference between a man hu is a Virgin n not a virgin!
unlike a woman on the other hand ...whom can be easily identified as a non virgin since after her first sex her Punana gradually loses the radiantAirTight walls based on the number of times she undergoes such!
A man who is not a virgin gains more experience n gains more satisfactory ways of engaging in his wife in better lovemaking process! ... Learning n improving on his very KamasutraMoves
since the first sex experience is not often the best sex experience ....that's the stage we know our weakness Nd work on it to be a better husband to which a wife would boast of his enduringPowerOnBed!
Even when a guy sleeps with thousands of ladies before eventually becoming faithful to one woman ...there is no freaking way yu can ever know he has slept around!
...but trust me a lady hu tries such would hv her PunanaLips has wide as the spot at which the atomic bomb was dropped on Hiroshima in 1945! ...TragicallyWideEnoughForATrucktoPerformAScreenSaver360 Spin!
Trust me! ... As a lady! ...yu should try to keep your otherLips wall As tight as a miser's fist for your husband ... Coz there is no way he won't know he wasn't the first!
But if yuar that lady out there hu does not care what he thinks
...c'mon feel free to tell your usual lies! ... I was sexually assaulted
... I was using cucumber so that I won't cheat on you with other men ... I was sick n my body shape changed!
... I have dysentery;anytime I have dysentery I feel loose down there n I promise you next week when it is gone ...it would be tight (my aunty will be on TeamAlumMakeMyLipsDownDerTightAppointment thruout that nextweek)
...Nd other forms of lies! ... There is no one hv not heard? ... Chai Women!!!
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Fadman4real(m): 5:59am On May 19|
It is only unserious men that see virginity as an important decision to make when choosing a life partner. There is no where in d bible that says a man must marry a virgin.
For the lady to lie is enuf for d guy to dump her but for d guy dumping her cause she is not a virgin means the dude is not matured enough for marriage. To me I believe virginity is between you and God has nothing to do with your husband. It is your body you are keeping yourself for God not for any man.
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Fadman4real(m): 6:06am On May 19|
I hope you know that you would reap what you sow. When you sleep with 1000 women and you are looking for someone who is tight hope you know that one way or the other you would pay for your crimes. Do unto others what you wish to be done unto you.
I have taken a critical look at guys who sleep around and I av noticed something about most of them they end up failing to live up to expectation. To get sex mates requires lots of attention and there is a lot of fun in it to derail you from the right path.
In conclusion I believe both men and women pay at the end of the day for being loose in different ways.
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by amuokuko: 6:07am On May 19|
A "used" woman loses alignment.
A "Used" man gains experience..
So if after being a master in the field of fuckery why would I buy a fan belt the diameter is more than its pulley...
In essence, no man likes depleted ware...
Lastly, not all men like Virgins...
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Anfieldboss: 6:22am On May 19|
I'm a 26 year male virgin and I crave marrying a virgin too. Though I'm not particular my wife must be a virgin , but I do not want to marry a girl who has had too many sexual partners.
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by oseka101(m): 6:41am On May 19|
Any guy who is obsessed about virgins is sick
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Draei: 6:44am On May 19|
#Idd. kinda true tho @underlined.
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by BabaRamota1980: 6:58am On May 19|
Tight pussy, grips well, the elasticity is superb
her pelvic is inexperienced and can be trained and conditioned to my liking....when i need her throw it, buck it, angle it, gyrate it, yield to me, stick me, when to slow, when to quicken the pace....in short, i can train her inexperienced pussy to worship me, period!
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by BabaRamota1980: 7:04am On May 19|
Where u get person picture you put for ya profile?
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Grabbeast: 7:13am On May 19|
That is true if the guy himself is not a virgin.
Not true if the guy is a virgin.
As a virgin guy I have one word for girls who aren't virgins:
'go look for one of the guys you slept with to marry you'.
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|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by jashar(f): 7:14am On May 19|
It's a Conquest Mentality.
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by oseka101(m): 7:15am On May 19|
Not necessary they can find other non virgins to marry.
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by wittyt98(m): 7:54am On May 19|
pls stop generalizing
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by escapefromusa(m): 8:13am On May 19|
Hollup...wait @fadman4real alum dey make puss|y tight ?
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by omaigala12(m): 8:27am On May 19|
pocohantas:No man be Virgin
|Re: Why Do Men Like Virgins? by Huee(f): 9:09am On May 19|
Don't stress it... that's the real me
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