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Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by SmartyPants(m): 11:23pm On May 25, 2017 |
Bro i really feel your pain, especially having had a caring dad, i can imagine what my life might be like without his influence. Having said that, this is the situation you are faced with and you have to man up. You can learn a trade to put yourself through school as so many others are doing. Turn to God and be serious with your relationship with Him as if your life depends on it, becaue it does. You can make it with or without your father. P.s You don't need to hate or resent your father since he has obviously done what he can up until this moment. Always remember him for the good he has done. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by lollarj(f): 11:34pm On May 25, 2017 |
chibuzorAbia: im not your daughter....i can do whatever i please...dead beat dad. Pity your kids...OLOSHI. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by proficienc(m): 12:02am On May 26, 2017 |
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Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Sprumbaba: 12:14am On May 26, 2017 |
agog: It could be a challenge. At 21, I was driving Benz in Lagos with money made with my own sweat. Never collected school fees. The generation we have now want their parent to spoon feed them. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by stagger: 1:44am On May 26, 2017 |
thingsyoudo123: Yes I bought that car under my father's roof, and his demeanour after that told me clearly that my days in his house were numbered. So I arranged myself and the next year, out I went from his house till date. A boat can never have two captains, so I had to get my own boat. Get my drift? 1 Like |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by stagger: 1:53am On May 26, 2017 |
chalantmike: this is the mentality that is responsible for our high unemployment rate in Nigeria. Bill Gates was 19 when he started Microsoft with Tim Allen. I hope you know this. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by repogirl(f): 2:12am On May 26, 2017 |
With all due respect your father is a nonentity. If he has the means to take care of you and refuses to, he is a useless father. Did you write application to be born before? It is his responsibility to care his children. Your mother will definitely support her husband but as a good mother, since her husband has failed as a father it should become her responsibility to help you. If you and your brothers become thieves and low lives, the shame will be upon your parents, and I'm quite sure your dad will not enjoy the rest of his life if this happens. 1 Like |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by oaroloye(m): 2:20am On May 26, 2017 |
Legalbeing: I had to reach 56, and come down with my first serious illness in 37 years to get to that point. Nonetheless, a disciplined mind USES that Fear CONSTRUCTIVELY. Just like a utility maximisation, we tend to reach to a point and depreciate. That is obvious. My father abandoned me and my siblings This may have happened, but it didn't happen to YOU. I believe this story to be FICTITIOUS. I thought the joke was a plank.. You professional TROLL SHILLS use misspellings and malapropisms to try to appear local and illiterate. Not until when my two elder brother left the home to no destination.. I sat to share issues with my mum who pointed out vividly that my Daddy made the right decision. This never happened to you, nor to anyone you know. So i wonder if that is right.. Is it only my father that has that mentality or is it a general undertaken. Someone needs a help. This is a SURVEY to gather information about our country, in my opinion. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nobody: 2:26am On May 26, 2017 |
Legalbeing: Honestly, I am not sure I can do same to my child. I just keep feeling that mum being in on it might make it tough love. He really should help out with major stuffs though. I think it's for the best to start the hustling spirit at an early age. Bad things may happen but sometimes the fever that you have to make something worthwhile in life pushes us to do great things. In reality sha, e no easy. I know. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by davidif: 2:49am On May 26, 2017 |
agog: Even Donald Trump after he has accomplished a lot decided to run for the Presidency before he turned 70. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Efewestern: 3:55am On May 26, 2017 |
nkemdi89: one even said he started hustling at 15, so you expect a 15yrs old kid to leave his / her education and start looking for money?, the way they sound makes it looks as if life is that easy,. 21 I bought a car, 24 I built a house, 30 I have 3 cars, shuo.. na wa.. for this naija we they. 2 Likes |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by johhnnie(m): 5:01am On May 26, 2017 |
KELVIN086: Best opinion so far. Believe me, your dad wants the best for u. He wants the real man in u to come out. I believe he has explained his motive to your mum. If u act positvely, you would have a new outlook towarda life. At 21, you are already a man! |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by donsheddy1(m): 7:25am On May 26, 2017 |
kimbra:Bae you nor get chill o But you just gave me brains too cos my Father even abandoned me a long time ago and now we're together, we keep fighting all the time all because he wouldn't take care of and hasn't been taking care of his family all this while and I keep asking what has he been doing with all those money. Even for a year now we don't talk to each other. So to break the silence I will just love to tell him to keep money for his burial else his corpse belongs to the canal behind his apartment case closed. 1 Like |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by nkemdi89(f): 7:32am On May 26, 2017 |
Efewestern:Lol shit reloaded. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by rxgodwin(m): 7:32am On May 26, 2017 |
This is funny, but i think your father made the right decision. He just wants to see you strong nd fishing fr ur self no matter how little |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nina4u(f): 7:38am On May 26, 2017 |
bencarson007:26? When I was 26 I already lived in 3 countries by my self.. I was 16 when I left due to a no good family and I worked hard my whole life and went to school.. My first job was packing combs in plastic bags to be shipped to the store.. Then I was an art teacher for copple of years.. Moved to the us and now I'm a GM Manager at a retail store.. Life is hard but with God.. You can make it.. God has always guided my steps.. 1 Like |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by maasoap(m): 7:41am On May 26, 2017 |
SalamRushdie:It depends on who took you away from home at 11. I'm sure that your parents wouldn't put you on the street at 11 and you would come back home at 25 to gift them car. Telling half truth here to justify the OP's dad's action doesn't do this thread any justice. I'm not a fool. 2 Likes |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by maasoap(m): 7:46am On May 26, 2017 |
KELVIN086:By abandoning his responsibilities? By abandoning them when they needed him most? They could be easily influenced and mislead outside. They could easily go into crimes. You're not thinking straight. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by marylandcakes: 7:47am On May 26, 2017 |
I think your dad is going through mid life crisis. Also at 21 you are an adult and should start to find your own way in life. I also don't see anything wrong with your dad's decisions too many Nigerian youths are too dependent on parents and refuse to be independent. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by maasoap(m): 7:49am On May 26, 2017 |
rxgodwin:If every parents decide to make this kind of "right decision", don't you think Nigeria will become worse than this? Did your own parents also make this type of "right decision" in your own and siblings' case too? |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by maasoap(m): 7:56am On May 26, 2017 |
johhnnie:I can't believe this. Having no parents, I get it. Having poor parents, I get it. But parents pushing their kids on the streets when they are at the age that requires supports from the parents is what I don't get. Are you also going to abandon your responsibilities to your kids once they hit 20 even if they are still in school? |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by mecussey(m): 7:58am On May 26, 2017 |
Legalbeing: My dear, he discovered that you guys have become so confortable in his house. So, he indirectly want you guys to hit the street. Though his presentation was not wise, he has automatically installed a bad OS in you guys. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by jaxxy(m): 8:00am On May 26, 2017 |
Legalbeing: Ure dad is definitely try to avoid responsibility or has an 18 century mentality were at 18 u leave ur dads house marry and go farming lol. He doesn't want to face the competitiveness of the age we are in and support u guys to atleast finish ur education which is d least he can do. Hes mindset of enjoying himself at 60 is also highly irresponsible and ur mum doesn't hv a mind of her own bt that said he hv to think ahead for urself and grow up fast to start doing things for urself cos at d end of the day U are responsible for UR life and shud take Responsibility since ur dad chooses to be irresponsible. I can recommend a book for u to read that may push u in the right direction here. Cheers |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Olufemiolaolu(m): 8:09am On May 26, 2017 |
Howmon:Best advice. sooner or later he wud realize his folly. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by monerozi5590: 8:22am On May 26, 2017 |
stagger: I am inspired. Here am i still living under the same roof with my parents. |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by SalamRushdie: 8:23am On May 26, 2017 |
maasoap: Of course I wasn't thrown in the streets . |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by 1EmmyKay: 8:23am On May 26, 2017 |
Legalbeing:OP u got to man up..im 20 nd mah fada died wen i was just 12yr old den he was 45yr, nd am the only son..but i gotta hustle out for my self...now am averagely ok..hoping to complete the house am building for my mum soonest..so its no excuse..just think of somthing that will work for you... |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by bencarson007(m): 8:38am On May 26, 2017 |
Nina4u:. I am impressed Nina... That's a good one... I left home when I was 17, went to school and never came back home...8 years in banking and a couple of years in other firms and here I am standing today...not doing bad... But Nigeria today and past are two different things... Now,jobs are scarce...your so called salary or take home pay can't take you home, exploitation in places of work... My point is my kids must have finished schooling at 25 max depending on how early you start having them...the next four years here after school, is hell for them...I choose to be there for them...my dad in particular was NEVER there for me so I refuse to be that kind of dad...my kids,my life...BTW, I am really impressed with you Nina... Sorry about yesterday...I thought you were some online riff raff that wanted to spoil my day after a hard days job...trust me they do that a lot on NL...and I get touchy when it comes to topics involving family and kids... I had it very rough at childhood...so my apologies again |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nina4u(f): 8:44am On May 26, 2017 |
bencarson007:its ok.. Life has been very hard on me as well but I'm living proof you can make it if u have to.. God lissen to your prayers and will guide you to safty.. I never had nobody.. No mom no dad and if I hadn't left they'd probably would have killed me I dunno.. My brother he killed himself a year ago.. I ended up in a coma he was the only one I was close to.. We skyped and IMO every day.. But life goes on.. God give me strenght and guide me every day of my life |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by bencarson007(m): 8:50am On May 26, 2017 |
Nina4u:. Sorry I forgot my manners... I failed to say good morning Nina... For this last comment, I am almost in tears... We share similarities but I am sensing that you had it a bit more rough... Sorry about mom and dad...wish I could know you better so we share experiences... I guess it won't hurt cos we are far away from each other... Life was tough for me but your reply now really hurt...on a lighter note, can I be your dad now... I will be there all the way... |
Re: My Daddy Abandoned Responsibility All Because He Is 50year Waiting To Die.. by Nina4u(f): 8:57am On May 26, 2017 |
bencarson007:check ur mail.. I'm going to bed.. Got to work 8 am to 11 pm tomorrow and time is already 1 am.. Gnight |
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