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Black girls are usually indifferent when they see black guys with white girls, why then do black seem upset when a black girl's with a white guy?

@topic: From the lack of response so far, i think even u can agree that the philosophy is wrong. It is the girls that freak out when they see black brothers with white sisters.

But i wont try changing the topic for debate, i'll only give my candid opinion. . . Quite frankly (and i'm speaking for the brothers here oh) when we see a black sister with a white brother, we dont give a flying HOOT! Some of us will think, "Oh, its cos he's got money, or she can get some nationality documents from it or something else", but we're not at all bothered. There are many black, white, and mixed race sisters out there for the hunt so a few who fall into the above category shouldnt worry us.

It bothers a lot of people men and women.

if they are truly dating i.e in love . . . . no problem, but if the white guy is just using any black sister for fun just to Be Intimate and dump her later it is another insult to a series of insults which begun centuries ago and i wont take it lightly

just b/c white girls are loose and many brothers get some "benefit" from such looseness should not make any white guy attempt a "revenge" on a black sister. our sisters are known for decency compared to their white colleagues, so when a guy comes they take it serious. . . no stress, love can go anyway. . . but if the guy uses and dumps a sister. . . he must pay, that's where toshmann will vex

Bullshit.

gbade. x:

Bullshit.

times 2

i feel tempted to say a few things I know

why should a black guy be bothered? when there is an abundance of fishes every where even without ur throwing a net

most times it is the girls that get bothered even when u are dating a fellow black girl they still get bothered

sometimes women can be confusing u know

ha
i think is black women who get angered when they see
white women wit black men
i know da guys dnt care

okwanuzo3:

Black girls are usually indifferent when they see brovas with white girls

Says who ? A lot of black women despise seeing broodas with white girls. A whole lot.

The OP = PWNED

GNature:

Says who ? A lot of black women despise seeing broodas with white girls. A whole lot.

It depends on the frequency of interacial dating in your environment, in the UK you are more likely to see black guys dating white girls, we see it everyday and blacks sister couldn't care less.

All i can say is that blacks guys are in high demands, Gays, lesbians and even trans-genders want them, and they come highly recommended in the bedroom amongst other things

desiree:

It depends on the frequency of interacial dating in your environment, in the UK you are more likely to see and they come highly recommended in the bedroom amongst other things

una dey spoil me for my mama o. i go soon run from nairaland

well, i'm not generalising. However, i posted this thread cos when i'm out with my friend (we're not official yet), i've had black guys give us the look and some make nasty remarks. Also i've been asked a lot of times by african guys, why i'm with him and if we intend to get married and then they go on to advise of how it won't last etc etc. How that concerns them in anyway, beats me. And i let them know to keep their advise to themselves as won't advise them against dating a white girl.
It's called attraction.

If you want to date a white guy, carry go!!

_yawns


next!!

Not true - black girls go eye popping when they see4 a black guy with a white lady, this is more often the case than the other way round.

Free:

_yawns


next!!

Free is always yawning

funny pickin

I doubt it, it is mostly the other way round, that is, black women, feeling inadequate when they see a black man with a white woman. My advice: Grow up.

^^Grow up? ok. peep this. . .
[font= Arial Narrow]ABSOLUTELY! Black men (some) DO get pissed when they see a sister with a white man. Black man/ white woman is so prevalent where I live, that it is like the black women have become used to it and are now looking at other options. Some black men are SURPRISED when they see a sister who is NOT upset when they are with a white woman, infact I love it because they (blk man/ wht woman) almost seem upset that their mission to "piss off a sister" has failed. My exboyfriend, n Liberian, said he has dated white women in the past and one in particular stated "when we are in public, play with my hair. I love it when black chicks get mad!" it amazes me how black men are SO eager to oblige!

Every black man I have as friends, have dated, and my current boyfriend who have dated white women have the audacity to tell me that "black women were made for black men" - infact many of them were/are in relationships with white women when they have/say that to me. I have two VERY close white guy friends who are like my brothers. No man can disrespect me when they are around because the love for me is MAJOR with them. I remember we were all walking around and this black guy said "Quit walking with 'Snowflakes' and get with a real n*gga", so I don't buy that "black men don't care" bulljive. They do. esp. if the black woman is attractive with an nice body. Where I LIVE in the States it HURTS their feelings when the blk chick has a big behind and they say things like "White boys can't handle black women". Let me just say this: I HAVE NO DESIRE TO BE WITH A WHITE MAN! NONE! I LOVE BLACK MEN TOOO MUCH! BUT. . .just where do you all get the notion that black women should take a back seat and wait on you guys? Although I do not want a white man, I cannot be upset with another black woman who does because some of us are fed up and others do not feel they are obligated to date a black man, either way "YOU REAP WHAT YOU SEW" . [/font]

@topic

Yawnnn. Just leave the cute ghanaian ones for me

All i can say is that blacks guys are in high demands, Gays, lesbians and even trans-genders want them

chalk it down to the famous black mojo.

@ topic

btw, can someone explain why some black guys tend to "get in your face" when they're with a non-black woman and see a black woman nearby.

they seem to start preening and do everything except jump up and down to have the black woman notice them.

infantile, imo.

^ aaaaaaaamen! it is soooo comical. the white chick is soo proud to have her black man, who in turn is DYING to get the black woman's attention. LOL. sometimes i bust out laughing (not when they are looking ofcourse ) and pretend not to see them. They get PISSED! LOL.

MzDarkSkin:

^ aaaaaaaamen! it is soooo comical. the white chick is soo proud to have her black man, who in turn is DYING to get the black woman's attention. LOL. sometimes i bust out laughing (not when they are looking ofcourse  ) and pretend not to see them. They get PISSED! LOL.

Waka. U dey craze.I beg leave the nice white ladies alone. Of course the black man will like to show off the best of the best.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVDOr97dGmo

^ok. not all black men are hypocrites and desperate luckily for the black race

chyz:

Waka. U dey craze.I beg leave the nice white ladies alone. Of course the black man will like to show off the best of the best.

do black women show off the same way when they're with their non-black partners?

sounds like insecurity to me.

if you're happy with your partner then why do you still need to notice if there's an unaccompanied black woman in your vicinity or not.

talkless trying to get in her face and all.

tpia@:

do black women show off the same way when they're with their non-black partners?

sounds like insecurity to me.

if you're happy with your partner then why do you still need to notice if there's an unaccompanied black woman in your vicinity or not.

talkless trying to get in her face and all.

You talk as if they jump in ur face and say "this is my girl and yep she's white, hahaha".you no it aint like that sweetie.

Anyways when you where that nice hot outfit u just bought with ur assets lookin tasty do you not try to be seen? I think so Tpia.

It sounds more like it ticks a lot of you off to see a black man with a white woman if anything.

BTW, is that you in that link image?

^^reread my posts then get back to me.

i asked why is it that some black men when out with their non-black partners, still jump up whenever they catch sight of a black woman in their vicinity.

try to answer that question.

it sounds like blatant insecurity unless it also means roaming eyes.

so if somebody with gigantic behind or humongous front dances in their very before, wetin dem go do? With the way dem eyes dey go korokoro all over the place.

wish i could advise some "brothers" to wear blinkers abi is it blinders.

wasnt referring to my flat arsed and android looking self btw.

tpia@:

^^reread my posts then get back to me.

i asked why is it that some black men when out with their non-black partners, still jump up whenever they catch sight of a black woman in their vicinity.

try to answer that question.

it sounds like blatant insecurity unless it also means roaming eyes.

what makes you think that they are jumping up JUST when they see BLACK women? Sounds more like ur mind is playing tricks on you possibly because of your offence to him being with a white girl. And i wonder how u were able to "notice" such a thing unless u were all up in his grill anyways.