Angel196:


Really? Is religion all you people can think of? Well to address that issue, I don't dress the way I dress just because my religion forbids indecent dressing but because I respect my body.

Being modest is not equivalent to being religious but having self respect.

Lionessza:










Are you South African?

lashorrt:

No.

lashorrt:


No.

Maxi112:
who are you to dictate choice of dressing to them?

you're obviously jealous of what you don't have, I'd keep reminding you that.

same way they don't interfere in your choice of dressing you should also learn to respect theirs.


I'm not trying to promote indecency, but the rational behind this thread is what I don't understand. haven't you had or seen where a modest dresser was being raped or harassed?

lefulefu:

biko is it ur body ?
let we guys be the judge
no spoil market for us .wana keep on viewing dem ukwus .

Dimples182:
This is some country mindset

No, you should not judge people by what they wear, that's shallow. Because a woman wears a short dress or skirt does not mean she is less of a woman or human being.

The fact that this is coming from another woman is just sad.

Lionessza:


Learnt it from a song.











Where did you learn what you wrote?

Nma27:
Are u for real? The way we dress? Anyway you are entitled to your opinion.

lashorrt:


Learnt it from a song. Popular song back in the old days

Angel196:


Lol. Sorry for that but don't worry, I'm certain most won't heed to it share.

The funny things about you guys is that you compliment in their presence but abuse them behind their backs. I've witnessed lots of things like that cause I grew up with lots of guys around me.

Angel196:


Hahaha, something I don't have? Lol, that's pretty funny. But hey, you can't judge what you've never seen right? On second thoughts, you are free to.

Sorry to say this but how can I respect people that don't respect their selves? And yes, people like that do judge people who dress decently calling them uncivilized. I'm surprised you don't know.

About your last statement, go back to my post and underline the word some women. I never said all those being harassed or disrespected are the cause.

Angel196:
The way some women dress these days I don't really blame guys for disrespecting or treating them as cheap, after all, the way you dress is the way you'll be addressed.

They dress themselves in rags, walking around half naked all in the name of civilization yet they keep complaining guys disrespect and treat them like a hooker. How do you expect to get a responsible guy when you yourself don't dress responsibly?

Stop blaming and criticizing guys for thinking you are cheap if you are one of those who walk around in rags cause they are only following the signal you are sending out to them.

Maxi112:
emboldened... I don't understand, so dressing as you want, feel, like amount to be disrespected by you? your opinion though.

they might be calling them names like you termed it, but what's the diff btw you and them with this thread?

if we have freedom of expression, association, worship. why can't we have freedom of dressing? don't make it look as if ladies are the cause of their misery, certainly not.

lefulefu:
lol i get ur point sha.i wouldn't support a lady dressing up like a street hooker with all her tits and tinzs showing.but hey i don't find anything wrong in a lady wearing jeans .so the way i view indecent dress might be different from the way u view it.having said dat i won't insult my babe if she prefers wearing dem bum shorts or dose sexy nighties at home wen wit me.in short i had encourage dat cos babes on wrapper 24/7 dey tire me.

Dimples182:
This is some country mindset

No, you should not judge people by what they wear, that's shallow. Because a woman wears a short dress or skirt does not mean she is less of a woman or human being.

The fact that this is coming from another woman is just sad.

Angel196:


There should be freedom of dressing as long as the mode of dressing is decent. We can't respect and encourage indecency for many reasons because it ends up spreading and corrupting the youth.

The difference between me and them is that I'm being judged for dressing decently which is absurd and they are being judged because they dress indecently which if you're being honest isn't right.

Everyone is free to choose but no one is free from the consequences of their choices.

Peacefullove:


Try and understand Her (op) , that a woman wears short dress or skirt doesn't mean she is less human, her point is , What would be the mindset of a guy approaching such a girl ? probably the short dress expose some part of her body that draws the man's attention since men are moved by what they see , the OP now said can we blame the guy if he only use and dump such a girl since what attract him in the first place is that body she exposed with her short skirt

Oyindidi:
Don't mind the girl. Very disrespectful

Angel196:


Call it what you want, its your own opinion. Yes, I am indeed a woman so that's why I don't understand why some of my fellow sex would love exposing something that should be preserved and respected.

Sure it doesn't mean she's less human but seriously, is she actually showing her body the respect it deserves?

Dimples182:


Yes. We blame the guy for using and dumping a human being! Wtf! So we should protect someone who has hurt another and blame the victim? Why can't men in 9ja be civilised enough to get past a short skirt?

Also, am I to believe that girl's who don't wear short skirts are not dumped?

Like I said COUNTRY MENTALITY. This is where the rape culture comes from. Blame the victim and protect the perpetrators. It's your way so I can't blame ya

lefulefu:
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Peacefullove:


Next time be calm before you give replies, You went overboard . my last sentence says " , the OP now said can we blame the guy if he only use and dump such a girl since what attract him in the first place is that body she exposed with her short skirt "

its more of a question, which I expect you to state your views on . I never said I support men using and dumping women neither do I support ladies seducing men with their clothes . For every action, there is a corresponding consequence
... this explains why Using and dumping is often common in relation to ladies who always expose their flesh for predators .

Dimples182:
LalaLushness.... abeg come chat to your home based cousin I joke

Dimples182:


If you don't agree with op then what's your point? Because I can read and understand the op I don't need you to explain it to me.... Next time quote with a purpose.

Dimples182:


Her body is none of your damn business! You can not say that she deserves to be hurt and cheated because she dressed differently. Get off your high horse and STFU. Men are attacking us and you jump on board and condone women being mistreated because of what they wear. You self righteous bigot! You promote the rape culture. What you are saying is if women dont do as they are told or expected to do then they deserve to be mistreated. You think women who don't wear mini skirts and dresses don't get dumped and hurt broken? I won't reply you again because I can't reason with morons!

Peacefullove:


Next time be calm before you give replies, You went overboard . my last sentence says " , the OP now said can we blame the guy if he only use and dump such a girl since what attract him in the first place is that body she exposed with her short skirt "

its more of a question, which I expect you to state your views on . I never said I support men using and dumping women neither do I support ladies seducing men with their clothes . For every action, there is a corresponding consequence
... this explains why Using and dumping is often common in relation to ladies who always expose their flesh for predators .

the point is , Some women are the reasons guys disrespect them . Which is mostly related with the way they dress portraying themselves as sex objects

Angel196:


I see I've hit a sore spot.

Who said anything about deserving? I said they are the reason not whether they deserve it or not.

The truth might be bitter but it remains the truth, call me what you like. I don't promote rape culture neither did I talk about rape. There are different ways to be disrespected and I wasn't referring to rape.

I am a woman and I'd never encourage or excuse rape. When you dress indecently and a guys picks you up asking you your price per day, what's that called? Disrespect right? Did he actually meant it as disrespect or was it responding to the message he thought you were sending by going around half naked.

People believe only prostitutes and people without shame or self respect walk around half naked and are proud of it and the truth is they have a point.

Peacefullove:


the point is , Some women are the reasons guys disrespect them . Which is mostly related with the way they dress portraying themselves as sex objects

LalaLushness:

Lol who
U know I'm a spoilt child .. all I saw was blurred lines yanno . Marriage these days nah certificate

Dimples182:


Come out your village every now and again and expose yourself to the world. I am sorry you live in a society that thinks so low of women. Men and women wear shorts, swimwear, short dresses etc and nobody judges them. You do not become a prostitute by what you wear rather what you do. If a man approaches a woman wearing short clothes and he propositions her then he is the dirty fvcker and he should be taken off the streets. I won't entertain your ignorance anymore.

Peacefullove:


Next time be calm before you give replies, You went overboard . my last sentence says " , the OP now said can we blame the guy if he only use and dump such a girl since what attract him in the first place is that body she exposed with her short skirt "

its more of a question, which I expect you to state your views on . I never said I support men using and dumping women neither do I support ladies seducing men with their clothes . For every action, there is a corresponding consequence
... this explains why Using and dumping is often common in relation to ladies who always expose their flesh for predators .

the point is , Some women are the reasons guys disrespect them . Which is mostly related with the way they dress portraying themselves as sex objects

Maxi112:
op go get a life... jealousy will do you no good. it's their life not yours.


mind your business please.

you can't buy expensive cloth is not their fault.

you can't dress like them isn't their fault.


your thread reeks of jealousy