Cinderella5:
Something to massage men's ego, even the broke and ugly ones will be so happy reading this

AyilaraFingar:
so are you telling me a girl of 19 with Dunlop slippers breast,wide pussy and have never given birth before is as a result of weight loss,or can the vigina lose its ELASTICITY naturally?,...can you please enlighten me,.I'm very curious

menwongo:

Bro I personally encourage treating ladies fine, as they are God's creature too.
But a woman is structured to born and nurse her child, support her husband.
Who ever encourage her sister to climb palm trees with ropes or drive truck are just wicked. Men are structured to struggle to feed his wife and children not to be wanking everything on skirts

cococandy:
I really love my fellow women. Honest to God.
But I experience special heartbreaks when I encounter dumb ones.
It's defeating to me.
Like I should just give up.

Deeldorado:


It's not a debate of whether it will be possible or not but an advocacy to improve the prospects of women. The gender gap is too wide ... pay gap at work, the constraints they face in getting employment and growing on the job. The work women do at home are not calculated as part of GDP but if a nanny does it, it is calculated as part of GDP thereby underestimating women contributions to the national economy.

Why for example have we taken it for granted that it is the woman that has to give up her dreams for other siblings if something goes wrong in the family? Why for example, does a woman have to give up her aspirations or 'cut it down a bit' once she is married? Can't we find a balance that allows both a man and a woman to succeed with their aspirations? By doing this, we place a glass ceiling on women and decapitate their capacity to aspire and achieve their aspirations.

The idea is that making progress in achieving equity in economic participation and opportunity and political empowerment will not benefit women alone but will benefit families, communities and the whole country. Women empowerment, for example, is at the heart of the global fight against poverty and inequality.

It is unfair and runs against nature to deny women the opportunity to succeed as well as men just because they go on maternity leave or because of what your religion says or because you want to be 'the man' or just because of things they are not directly responsible for.

We know that we may not be able to achieve gender equality in a practical sense completely because of traditions, cultures and historical legacies, but we can unleash the power of women for development by doing as much as we can to close up the gap.

The argument of whether it's possible or not may not hold water because a lot of countries are already closing this gap - for example, Scandinavian countries and even South Africa, back home.

M3Guy:
This one na 70years old virgin..

M3Guy:
This one na 70years old virgin..

NairalandCS:
I still dey wonder wetin sexybbstar do some pipu for the NL.

Deeldorado:
Dear Sexybbstar and nairalanders, gender equality is not about 'equality' between men and women, it's an advocacy for equal opportunities for
both men and women.

sexybbstar:
I saw a thread earlier on (why do guy thinks girls are whores?) I think this is my own view.

You had better stop comparing, if God wants equal rights for us all, he would have created everyone with p.enis or va.gina. But the difference in our private organ and body build shows that what is good for one may not be good for the other.

If a male child should become wayward, believe me if he repents, not a sign of it will be on his body but if a female child becomes wayward, I won't lie to you, let her become a pastor. There will still be signs to show for it like sagged breasts, wide va.gina, etc.Tell me can a man have a deformed organ as a result of being promiscuous.? obviously no!

Don't compare the two together.A lady that compare herself with a man is playing a dangerous game. U sure know that when he have sex with u without protection, u would get pregnant and u will receive the blame. Yet u allowed him, don't blame anyone for your misfortune because u are aware that the lady takes the blame.

Man and woman are two different words with different attributes. A man who lives like a woman won't find it easy and vice versa. Even two ladies are not the same not to talk of a man and a woman.

You want gender equality, ladies. Can you impregnate a fellow lady? Even those of us who transgendered to become a man still have so many manly activities they can't do.

Learn to appreciate your gender and bring out the best from it.

gokuu:
What a dumb and uninformed post!

First, the writer totally fails to understand the Feminist argument. Women have never claimed to be exactly the same as men; they have simply asked to be treated with the same level of dignity and respect that men are generally treated with. They want to have an equal opportunity to reach their aspirations just as much as everyone.

I'm still trying to wrap my head around the "sagged breasts" argument.

Second, what does capacity to "impregnate" have to do with equal opportunity in the workplace, or wherever?

I am particularly shocked that this post is coming from someone with the "f" suffix behind their name, who is supposed to be able to relate more to the female experience in patriarchal Nigeria.

Anyways, as Madeleine Albright would say; "there's a special place in hell for women who do not support other women"

Ziinno:


The more I read it the more the stench of her slow thinking became repugnant, Lawd!!!

The wide vagina from promiscuity was the height of it, That child knows nothing. Saggy breast too!!? Na wa o.

Cinderella5:
Something to massage men's ego, even the broke and ugly ones will be so happy reading this

Dimples129:
1. Can a man impregnate another man?

2. Why should the lady take the "blame" (a child is a blessing and not blame) when it takes 2 to reproduce?
Should we not change this backward ideal rather than embracing it?

3. Gender equality isn't about trying to be a man but rather trying to protect women from the injustices that you as woman is supporting.

I hope all the praise you get from the men on this thread puts money in you're account because you just sold out on the female race including your daughters.

gokuu:

So only you can interpret things correctly? Classic mansplaining!
"his house", "his home"...have you considered that it is "their home"? A marriage is a consensus arrangement, not a superiority contest.

Deeldorado:


Talking about women's ability to be part of combat forces is a narrow way of discussing gender equality. There's a much bigger picture which I have tried to state already.

TheUmbra:



No one will deny you your right to education and the opportunity to succeed but maybe men will start taking you women seriously on gender equality thing when you start dominating fields like the army, fighting terror in the thick of sambisa forest, dominate the police force, heeding a distress call in the middle of the night with your bullet proof vest on because you're sure some daredevil criminals are Ak47-armed and are waiting to ambush you; dominating the fire service where you brave yourself up with your fake brazilian wig and embrace a burning building, or the construction industry that requires heavy manual lifting of tools and equipment.

But you all never complain when the female numbers are next to non-existent in these fields, but you raise dust on executive positions and start screening your gender equality trash.

Fact is you all are greedy vultures trying to reap where you didn't sow.

Even the boundary in your village was carved out by the blood of your forefathers. The identity you have was sustained and preserved by fearless men of old who hid your great grandmothers in a safe cave while they charged to war to preserve their seeds. And you're here hiding in your little hut typing gender equality.

gokuu:

So only you can interpret things correctly? Classic mansplaining!
"his house", "his home"...have you considered that it is "their home"? A marriage is a consensus arrangement, not a superiority contest.

Zane2point4:
Well if una like make una talk till kingdom come.

Here are my humble analysis and opinion. ...
1. our bodies are configured in different ways hence will determine the role and oppurtunities diff gender gets.

2.there are some oppurtunities that favours both male and female folks.

3.all the female folks will clamour for top position in nnpc or shell with the male counterpart but wont clamour to be in the warfront with them, e.g north east nigeria.
This ends my humble analysis, our body isnt structured to be the same, so gender equality isnt possible.

GogobiriLalas:
A very wise woman here

Giel:


Thank you for this. Honestly it's so shameful, Gender equality has been reduced to arguments about breast.

Giel:


Thank you for this. Honestly it's so shameful, Gender equality has been reduced to useless things like arguments about breast.

sexybbstar:
I saw a thread earlier on (why do guy thinks girls are whores?) I think this is my own view.

You had better stop comparing, if God wants equal rights for us all, he would have created everyone with p.enis or va.gina. But the difference in our private organ and body build shows that what is good for one may not be good for the other.

If a male child should become wayward, believe me if he repents, not a sign of it will be on his body but if a female child becomes wayward, I won't lie to you, let her become a pastor. There will still be signs to show for it like sagged breasts, wide va.gina, etc.Tell me can a man have a deformed organ as a result of being promiscuous.? obviously no!

Don't compare the two together.A lady that compare herself with a man is playing a dangerous game. U sure know that when he have sex with u without protection, u would get pregnant and u will receive the blame. Yet u allowed him, don't blame anyone for your misfortune because u are aware that the lady takes the blame.

Man and woman are two different words with different attributes. A man who lives like a woman won't find it easy and vice versa. Even two ladies are not the same not to talk of a man and a woman.

You want gender equality, ladies. Can you impregnate a fellow lady? Even those of us who transgendered to become a man still have so many manly activities they can't do.

Learn to appreciate your gender and bring out the best from it.

iamrealdeji:
a wayward lady that has developed saggy boobs and wide vagina spotted. why are you so pained? she's a lady like you and she can't say what she doesn't know and she can't knock herself or her sex down. she's a matured lady and knows the toll sex tells on a female's body. so I would advise you to reduce the rate at which you have sex,the best for you is to stop having sex till you get married before your boobs turn to fried egg and before your vagina turn to tunnel. pls have mercy on your future husband cos if he cheats on you,its not his fault

gokuu:


LOL.

I think you are just scared and want to maintain your "dominance" at all cost, even if it means holding others back.

The more shameful part is that it is even a debate in the first place.

In this day and age, if a person above the age of 15 and has passed Junior High (JSS) is arguing against gender equality (usually because they have unashamedly failed to grasp the faintest idea of what it is about), it paints a rather grim picture of how far off the mark we are as a nation.

It's not like it was ever that encouraging, but at least girl child education isn't a taboo topic anymore, and one would reasonably expect that normal, functioning adults know a teeny-weeny bit about gender equality, it's relationship with girl child education, and why the world's future rests on progressive stances like gender equality and equity, resource sustainability, increased tolerance et cetera.

Many of the comments I see here are statements I'd expect from ret*rded folks, unambitious dropouts, religious f*cktards, men who have failed in ife (and need to mudsling others to feel better about themselves), or privileged egoists. But you'd be surprised about the standings of many of the commenters on here and how they are a bitter reflection of the society.

Just walk into any random eatery and bring this issue up, you'd be surprised about the similarity between the contributions you receive and the comments you read here.

And it is particularly nauseating that a forum run by a self-acclaimed progressive atheist would actually promote a non-religious position that would never stand in any rigorous academic debate in any of the world's top 10,000 institutions for discussion, never mind the ridiculous balderdash that made up the OP.

Am I disappointed by the comments I read on here, absolutely not, many Nigerians redefine stupidity with their opinions that are about as factual as the Santa Claus myth. But then, did I expect to see the kind of promotion this thread gets, not likely. I read through this thread in one of my recent forays in the Romance section, and decided against commenting because I deemed it a perfect avenue for misfits to throw a pity party about how the world is conspiring against them. And some d*rtbag mod decided it was a party deserving of prime-time.

Unbelievable

RadicallyBlunt:
Do you know that God is d most heartbroken being in the world? Look at what i mean... Just like God finds it hard to find an absolutely devoted Christian who dares to be different from the bandwagon around him, so do men find it difficult to find a devoted woman who dares to stay away from the general belief and influence of other women.

Some women will claim to love their husband but the bible never commanded them to love their man. I dont know what makes them think that its love he needs. Their command is to submit to and respect their man yet its the inverse that's happening in the world today..the man respects and almost submit to show his love for her which is fair and ok. But while he does that, she claims to love him. The question is did God ask you to love him? Submit he says. When a woman says she loves her man, sincerely it means nothing to d man, he just accepts it as his wife's manner of expression. But when she respects him, then he knows she loves him.

Op you're thinking properly and it will favour you greatly forever if you keep to it. Weldone! Women like you are scarce.

cococandy:
I really love my fellow women. Honest to God.
But I experience special heartbreaks when I encounter dumb ones.
It's defeating to me.
Like I should just give up.

Adeboyefa:

2. While a man is allowed to marry several women and polyandry is a taboo in most parts of the world, a woman would always know her own child apart from a stepchild . How can a child I didn't carry in my womb be mine ? This fact compensates a woman for the labour pains and the pains of male infidelity and explains why society is stricter on unfaithful wives than unfaithful husbands. Also, it explains why children bear their fathers' surnames . The mother is sure of the maternity of the child so let us use the surname to reassure the father.

Giel:




@the bolded is just the problem, the op doesn't even know the meaning nor purpose of gender equality as evidenced by the write up, the op just decided to write whatever she wanted and passed it off as gender equality, very grim


It really doesn't seem like most people here really know what gender equality is all about, honestly I'm tired.




@the bolded, they still are,

Just walk into any random eatery and bring this issue up, you'd be surprised about the similarity between the contributions you receive and the comments you read here.
I wouldn't even do it, LOL. one just called me a senseless slay queen now because I didn't agree with the rubbish posted by the op. Imagine how it would be offline.




It's really getting tiring, it's now to the point of dragging gender equality down to this level.



It's just plain sad

-Lord

AyilaraFingar:
so are you telling me a girl of 19 with Dunlop slippers breast,wide pussy and have never given birth before is as a result of weight loss,or can the vigina lose its ELASTICITY naturally?,...can you please enlighten me,.I'm very curious