Dyt:
Wow
So much so good stories
Now I wonder where the bad spouses come from

God bless una marriage over and over


Sisisioge
I hope you are asking questions already

KanwuliaExtra:
His family's mental history.

KanwuliaExtra:
His family's mental history.

solid3:

What is the one thing you regret having not asked your spouse before marriage?

We have all heard and seen how marriages which is meant to be enjoyed being endured by many women and men too.

Sometimes the marriages end within few months.

Most of these marriages could have been salvaged and prevented from ending abruptly if necessary questions were asked before the wedding.

This brings me to asked the married people (and matured peopel as well), what is that question or discussion you wish you have asked or had before you married your spouse?

Matured comments please.

Papasmal:



Hmmm,
for you to eulogies ur man dis way I can see he is every every,
3 ghosa!!! for d man harvesting ur potato.

KanwuliaExtra:
His family's mental history.

StephDamielola:

I AM NOT MARRIED

kuchikau1:
soon u will.

PaperLace:
I can't think of anything. We talked about everything: job, kids, extended family, finance, sex, projects,etc.

Maybe we should have talked a little more about his attitude to work. He works too hard, always cancelling vacations and postponing leaves(I used to think his work is more important, but now I am used to it. Had to learn his work, that way I can help out). Aside that, he's almost perfect, a wonderful husband and father to us. In another life, it has to be him, if not _ I rather be a fish or lion.

PaperLace:
I can't think of anything. We talked about everything: job, kids, extended family, finance, sex, projects,etc.

Maybe we should have talked a little more about his attitude to work. He works too hard, always cancelling vacations and postponing leaves(I used to think his work is more important, but now I am used to it. Had to learn his work, that way I can help out). Aside that, he's almost perfect, a wonderful husband and father to us. In another life, it has to be him, if not _ I rather be a fish or lion.

PaperLace:
I can't think of anything. We talked about everything: job, kids, extended family, finance, sex, projects,etc.

Maybe we should have talked a little more about his attitude to work. He works too hard, always cancelling vacations and postponing leaves(I used to think his work is more important, but now I am used to it. Had to learn his work, that way I can help out). Aside that, he's almost perfect, a wonderful husband and father to us. In another life, it has to be him, if not _ I rather be a fish or lion.

Toks2008:


If you like ask a million questions you are sure to get a favorable answer cos that stage is still the initial gragra stage where the craziest habit of a partner is just OK by you

Your question should be what is that one thing you regret to observe ....

Mine was her affinity for money.

solid3:

What is the one thing you regret having not asked your spouse before marriage?

We have all heard and seen how marriages which is meant to be enjoyed being endured by many women and men too.

Sometimes the marriages end within few months.

Most of these marriages could have been salvaged and prevented from ending abruptly if necessary questions were asked before the wedding.

This brings me to asked the married people (and matured peopel as well), what is that question or discussion you wish you have asked or had before you married your spouse?

Matured comments please.

Purelady:
While dating we discussed everything about family and our various expectations in marriage, from then till now, everything has been splendid, seems as if we are still honeymooning, I bless God daily for making us found each other. 10+ years and still counting, every day na romance. Baba God should pick our calls and bless our union with children that's all, even with this, I dey gbadun the marriage, I return back all the glory to God alone who makes all things beautiful.

PaperLace:
I can't think of anything. We talked about everything: job, kids, extended family, finance, sex, projects,etc.

Maybe we should have talked a little more about his attitude to work. He works too hard, always cancelling vacations and postponing leaves(I used to think his work is more important, but now I am used to it. Had to learn his work, that way I can help out). Aside that, he's almost perfect, a wonderful husband and father to us. In another life, it has to be him, if not _ I rather be a fish or lion.

thorpido:
Amen to your desire.

StephDamielola:


I AM NOT MARRIED

In4matic:
Hmmm. People can lie sha.
A question is asked about any marutal regrets so the unmarried will learn from it and some folks come here to praise sing the picture-perfect husbands.
I dont know why this habbit is common among women.
Maybe so as to rub it into the faces of their unmarried peers, i dont know.
I love the realistic answer of Cara mmel And the blunt response of Toks 2008.

Fact; THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE OR PERFECT HUMAN!

Observation would tell you what you have to know. Even that + 1,000,000 questions wont be enough!

foyeks2001:
Hmmmmmm...Olowo Ori Mi, nothing to ask again during our courtship because we were casual friends... He knew abt my craziness before he asked me out...Lol
We are 5yrs together and still counting... I can boldly say that, my hubby is the only man that has not seen any other unclothedness except his wife in 5good yrs...and the best dad in the entire universe.
When you have a good man, u will be called many names...I have even been labelled as 'Ruth' in my family(all said I have changed )... even my mom calls me that. He is the only man that has ever loved me and still loves me in my entire life, not even my father.
Whenever I tell him that, even if I'm gone today, that I know my children are in safer hands...his response has always been, I shud tell my members that I will not die young...Lol

LifeIsGuhd:


Do you consider it a good or bad attribute?
how are you coping?

Papasmal:



Hmmm,
for you to eulogies ur man dis way I can see he is every every,
3 ghosa!!! for d man harvesting ur potato.