My mother who is a devout believer died on monday after coming back from church,she dedicated the better part of her life to seving God and he couldn't even let her live to see her grandchildren as he promised let alone greatgrand children,he promised to satisfy his children with longlife,if there's anything am sure of it is that my mum loved God more than anything,for as long as i've known her she always wanted to please God,why will he allow her die now at 47?i can't help the way i feel i write this with tears in my eyes,most times i think he is not fair to his children,i know many wicked and evil people who are still living,why did he have to take my mum after all her works for him?u guys should help me beg him,if its my sins he should please forgive me and give me back my mum please.

Get hold of youself OK!!. God knows best, he even said that you should praise him in any situation
you should be happy that she was coming BC 4rm d church. It a sign that she could be heaven.
Please accept my condolence

sorry for your loss and may she RIP


the way people are just dying these days (especially at a young age), I really fear for the future.

Take it easy, that is the way i lost my brother back home, even up till now i cant belive that i will not see him again, God really know why.

freecocoa:

My mother who is a devout believer died on monday after coming back from church,she dedicated the better part of her life to seving God and he couldn't even let her live to see her grandchildren as he promised let alone greatgrand children,he promised to satisfy his children with longlife,if there's anything am sure of it is that my mum loved God more than anything,for as long as i've known her she always wanted to please God,why will he allow her die now at 47?i can't help the way i feel i write this with tears in my eyes,most times i think he is not fair to his children,i know many wicked and evil people who are still living,why did he have to take my mum after all her works for him?u guys should help me beg him,if its my sins he should please forgive me and give me back my mum please.

sweet heart, we all at some point go through unspeakable pain and disappointments, i am presently going through one. i got home and knelt down and to God that i am angry and disappointed but that dont change the fact that he is still God and for that i say thank u. some things are beyond any reasonable explanation, we just pray for healing in our hearts and move in the direction of God's guidance. if u wanna talk, hit me up

freecocoa:

My mother who is a devout believer died on monday after coming back from church,she dedicated the better part of her life to seving God and he couldn't even let her live to see her grandchildren as he promised let alone greatgrand children,he promised to satisfy his children with longlife,if there's anything am sure of it is that my mum loved God more than anything,for as long as i've known her she always wanted to please God,why will he allow her die now at 47?i can't help the way i feel i write this with tears in my eyes,most times i think he is not fair to his children,i know many wicked and evil people who are still living,why did he have to take my mum after all her works for him?u guys should help me beg him,if its my sins he should please forgive me and give me back my mum please.

Words right now cant console you, but my dear have it in mind that she is in a better place
and she wants u to be happy.
All the same may her soul rest in peace
it really is a great loss am so sorry.

Poster snap out of it okay. We live, we die. Its a fact of life.

This is just another clear as day evidence that God and religion are bullcrap. . . Both so-called believers and unbelievers die early, are afflicted by sicknesses and even equally affected when it comes to disasters and misfortune. So tell me, WHAT EXACTLY IS THE BENEFIT OF WORSHIPPING A DEAD GOD if he cant even protect his believers?

Tudor, here you go again, why for God sake must you use this kind of words? I have told you before that this is a christian forum you have no biz what so ever to be here, who the hell do you think you are? You really need to be prayed for.

nice-guy10:

Tudor, here you go again, why for God sake must you use this kind of words? I have told you before that this is a christian forum you have no biz what so ever to be here, who the hell do you think you are? You really need to be prayed for.

In your dreams right?

freecocoa:

My mother who is a devout believer died on monday after coming back from church,she dedicated the better part of her life to seving God and he couldn't even let her live to see her grandchildren as he promised let alone greatgrand children,he promised to satisfy his children with longlife,if there's anything am sure of it is that my mum loved God more than anything,for as long as i've known her she always wanted to please God,why will he allow her die now at 47?i can't help the way i feel i write this with tears in my eyes,most times i think he is not fair to his children,i know many wicked and evil people who are still living,why did he have to take my mum after all her works for him?u guys should help me beg him,if its my sins he should please forgive me and give me back my mum please.

"For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain."  May the Holy Spirit strengthen and comfort you and others she left behind and may the good Lord give you the grace to bear the loss until we meet again in the presence of the Lord where there will be no more crying or weeping.  For to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.

Tudór:

Poster snap out of it okay. We live, we die. Its a fact of life.

This is just another clear as day evidence that God and religion are bullcrap. . . Both so-called believers and unbelievers die early, are afflicted by sicknesses and even equally affected when it comes to disasters and misfortune. So tell me, WHAT EXACTLY IS THE BENEFIT OF WORSHIPPING A DEAD GOD if he cant even protect his believers?

u are an idiot in no small way!

@ Poster very sorry for your loss. . . .People live and die. . .That is the very harsh reality of life. . . . Do you believe in heaven, if yes then you should not be said because according to your belief system your mother should be there. . . .

@ Topic. . . .

I just can not understand why christians feel sad when their loved one dies. . . .Shebi you guys believe that we are living in a "sinful" and "evil" world that is of no good at all. . .Why do you guys cry and feel bad when you loss a loved one. . .I bet you guys should be happy that the person is in heaven no?. . . . .Abi is heaven no longer a better place than earth?. . . . .

na2day?:

u are an idiot in no small way! 

Excuse me?

Tudór:

Excuse me?

u want me to repeat that in spanish?

na2day?:

u want me to repeat that in spanish?

Is your brain sophisticated enough to support the multi-language option?

mazaje:

@ Poster very sorry for your loss. . . .People live and die. . .That is the very harsh reality of life. . . . Do you believe in heaven, if yes then you should not be said because according to your belief system your mother should be there. . . .

@ Topic. . . .

I just can not understand why christians feel sad when their loved one dies. . . .Shebi you guys believe that we are living in a "sinful" and "evil" world that is of no good at all. . .Why do you guys cry and feel bad when you loss a loved one. . .I bet you guys should be happy that the person is in heaven no?. . . . .Abi is heaven no longer a better place than earth?. . . . .

missing someone isnt dependent on a belief system. You can be happy someone is in heaven but still miss them nonetheless.

Eya babe pele.

Tudór:

Poster snap out of it okay. We live, we die. Its a fact of life.

This is just another clear as day evidence that God and religion are bullcrap. . . Both so-called believers and unbelievers die early, are afflicted by sicknesses and even equally affected when it comes to disasters and misfortune. So tell me, WHAT EXACTLY IS THE BENEFIT OF WORSHIPPING A DEAD GOD if he cant even protect his believers?

Are you really OK, or are you kidding. Why must you say a thing like that,
or are you writing under the iinfluence of hard drugs?

bubugul:

Are you really OK, or are you kidding. Why must you say a thing like that,
or are you writing under the iinfluence of hard drugs?

Bear in mind that the entire world are not subscribers to religion.

Hers was an insensitive comment nevertheless.
The bereaved woman needs consolation.

Tudór:

Is your brain sophisticated enough to support the multi-language option?

yup, urs?

na2day?:

yup, urs?

Saying it dozn't necessarily make it so, right?

If wishes were horses, beggars would also ride. . . . .

Mr nice, this is not a xtrian forum, it is a religion forum, sango and obatala worshippers re welcome

Tudór:

Saying it dozn't necessarily make it so, right?

If wishes were horses, beggars would also ride. . . . .

u wish u could ride but that is another topic

na2day?:

u wish u could ride but that is another topic 

*yawn* na2day?

Tudor and Abu what ever, you guys are not welcome here, you two are (anti-christ). People please be careful of this two guys.

It's one thing to have no regard for God, or belief in God. It's another thing to be entirely inhumane and insensitive to a fellow human being. . .

@freecocoa:   Cheer up, my darling sister. Trust me, I understand 'cos my own Mum went to heaven too some years back, and I was just 15! I want you to know that she's in a much better place, even as our faith makes us understand. She lived well. Please keep living in a way that will keep her proud of you. I will get in touch with you in a couple of days. Wipe your tears, lovey   and hang in there, your family needs you now more than ever!

Tudór:

*yawn* na2day?

why are u not replying to the YIMs?

na2day?:

why are u not replying to the YIMs?

Dude, I'm offline. . . Don't have YIM currently installed.

Abu Zola:

Mr nice, this is not a xtrian forum, it is a religion forum, sango and obatala worshippers re welcome

Thats exactly y we need many sub forum.Xtians& other religion will av theirs

Abu Zola:

it is a religion forum, we sango and obatala worshippers re welcome

Which do u belong to out of d 2 religions mentioned above?

Tudór:

Dude, I'm offline. . . Don't have YIM currently installed.

--sighs-- but u can log into ur yahoo mail right? use the web yim