Men note this:


1) If she does not and can not spend on/for you, She is not worth it.

2) If she can't contribute intellectually to your life, she is not worth it.

3) If all she can offer is sex, she is not worth it.

4) If she can't take you out for a date atleast twice or thrice and take care of the bills, she is not worth it.

5) If you caught her with EVIDENCE over a cheat allegation and she still denies it with lies, she is not worth it.

6) If she only flashes you EVERYTIME and expects you to call her, she is not worth it.

7) If she asks for airtime and flashes, texts or only calls just to say thank you and cuts without saying few words, she is not worth it.

If she says you are stingy but she has never given you a dime, she is not worth it.

9) If she begs you to trust her, she is not worth it. Trust is earned and won not given.

10) If she does not pray with/for you, she is not worth it.

11) If she does not appreciate the little you give her but rather complains on what she cant acquire herself, she is not worth it.

12) If she does not exhibit or have a hustling spirit to make money legitimately but solemnly depend on a man's pocket to attain a rich level, she is not worth it.

13) If you can't see 6/7 qualities from all I mentioned above in her, She is not SERIOUS with you.

Most ladies of our time have lost what it takes to be THAT WOMAN. That's why most men, especially the rich takes us for granted because there feel they are doing us a favour by spending their money on us. Imagine how much respect we can earn and command from these men if we don't depend on them to live a quality life Independently without hoping on thier pockets or considering how fat his bank account is for our financial break through. We need to step up our game. We are helpers not PARASITES. Helpers are well appreciated, recognized, never forgotten and hard to let go but parasites are gotten rid off. This is the 21th century. Let's earn that respect and LEAD a perfect example to our daughters.

Note this: Relationship/marriage is not about how compatible you both are but how you deal with your incompatibility.
Like the wise once said...

"A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing; A man's loyalty to his woman is tested when he has everything" Contribute positively into his life and see if he will not RESPECT YOU.

She ain't worth your time/money/attention.

Well.... Keep the "If" rolling

respect

I think dis should be ur 2nd thread on dis

All I can say is that there is no manual on how to live life.

NairalandCS:
All I can say is that there is no manual on how to live life.

Read your bible...It will teach and guide you on how to live life RIGHT. It is (Bible) indeed a manual.

Ifyone123:
Read your bible...It will teach and guide you on how to live life RIGHT. It is (Bible) indeed a manual.

Atheist right here sis.