pocohantas:


Heya, same way you think you know so much about women:







You see, most times I don't bother reading your epistle or replying them, because you only cry when it involves your gender. Don't bother typing another epistle till you change your own circle and start meeting responsible adults. Just an advice too.

Kondomatic:
I cry(if you prefer to put it that way l) irrespective of the gender involved, I hit on you most times because you're always bias.

pocohantas:

Of course I am a lady, it has to be bias. You're a guy, you speak the fact...

Kondomatic:
Benita...27 isn't a guy yet she speaks facts most times.

pocohantas:
Nigerian guy?
Okay...

That'll be 3 out of 10. So many of them think with their prick, that's why some girls use sex to control and even extort them. It takes a lot of maturity and self control to turn down sex, something that's lacking in lots of guys these days.

When you see the few that have achieved that level of maturity, you can't just help but respect them. Their coordination generally and in a relationship is wonderful!

Shey on the single ladies above 28 thread, one was saying he'll keep fuckeen girls as perks, till he finds the right one. Typical naija guy

lenghtinny:

Chaii!!!
Why you cast naija guys like this

vanida6:
funny question

man reject sex.......op u dey lie

Vado:
Hell yeah i refused such sometimes ago but shorty adopted reverse psych saying the boy was impotent. So the necessary had to be done to clear her doubts once & for all.

pocohantas:
Nigerian guy?
Okay...

That'll be 3 out of 10. So many of them think with their prick, that's why some girls use sex to control and even extort them. It takes a lot of maturity and self control to turn down sex, something that's lacking in lots of guys these days.

When you see the few that have achieved that level of maturity, you can't just help but respect them. Their coordination generally and in a relationship is wonderful!

Shey on the single ladies above 28 thread, one was saying he'll keep fuckeen girls as perks, till he finds the right one. Typical naija guy

pocohantas:

I am not casting them. Let's use NL for this survey, a guy will create thread saying a babe likes him, or cheated on him...lots of guys will just start telling him, fukc am! Sex! Sex! Sex!

There are some self controlled ones though, I think I stated that.

Folabimi:
To the guys, have you ever refuse a sex invitation from a lady? If yes, why?

My first experience was with my younger sister friend, I really dont like the girl cos she's wayward so turning her down wasnt difficult but this recent one is my neighbour whom I also admired but can't date due to religious differences, yesterday we were talking abt our feelings (she expressed her love 4me few days ago) and she just asked if I will have sex with her. Took a lot of self control 4me to politely say no to her.
Now the problem is we see each other evryday and its going to be awkward trying to remain as friends after this

Kondomatic:
The mistake you make sometimes is thinking that you know a lot about guys when it's obvious that you don't.

Now listen, no matter how beautiful or hot a woman is, there's a guy that will never Bleep her and there's likely to be another guy that is tired of fvcking her.


No matter what she does, this guy that will never fvck her will never fvck her.

Please note that a guy who's even considering asking you out can still turn you down if you give him yourself just like that.

It is just the way we are wired and you're not expected to understand it.

This here tells me that you mix more with college kids. Those guys are always Hot and you can't blame them. That's just natural.

Start meeting and mixing up with responsible adults(its actually an advice)


I find it funny when I read or hear that girls use sex to extort guy.

I am not saying that it does not happen at all, it does because fools exist but what females don't know is that most guys love to pay for sex.

The woman may think she's extorting him but that's not how we see it. For us, the money we pay for sex is an atonement for our future sins. We use it to wash our emotions and conscience clean when it's time to dump her.

Nothing will change our mind because she was duly paid for her services.

It is also takes maturity and self control to subdue the urge to offer yourself to a guy so even if he falls, it means they lack the same maturity and self control.
You're right but they're not few.


Change your circle.

ibkayee:
Same people that resort to mounting goats turn down sex ke


Lol I'm joking sha

I888:


Madam, I dated 3 girls without sex but when discovered I had been the foolish one, I stopped.

I can repeat it again on the condition that has got to have so much value to bring to the table cos sex have never been anything to me. You give sex o, you don't give sex o... if you do not have any value, I won't stay.

What most of you don't know is that the way you handle a relationship is how a guy will respect you. A girl who makes so much demands like a parasite and offer NOTHING but sex can NEVER be respected by a guy.

But the one who does the opposite of what majority of Nigerian girls do will surely wear the crown. Guys ain't stupid.


Sex is overrated abeg.

Folabimi:
To the guys, have you ever refuse a sex invitation from a lady? If yes, why?

My first experience was with my younger sister friend, I really dont like the girl cos she's wayward so turning her down wasnt difficult but this recent one is my neighbour whom I also admired but can't date due to religious differences, yesterday we were talking abt our feelings (she expressed her love 4me few days ago) and she just asked if I will have sex with her. Took a lot of self control 4me to politely say no to her.
Now the problem is we see each other evryday and its going to be awkward trying to remain as friends after this

pocohantas:
Nigerian guy?
Okay...

That'll be 3 out of 10. So many of them think with their prick, that's why some girls use sex to control and even extort them. It takes a lot of maturity and self control to turn down sex, something that's lacking in lots of guys these days.

When you see the few that have achieved that level of maturity, you can't just help but respect them. Their coordination generally and in a relationship is wonderful!

teehamzat:

So turning down sex is maturity?...okay

24s qm:
A man will get to a stage in life where he will have to turn down so many offers.
Matured men will understand this.

Kondo matic:

It is also takes maturity and self control to subdue the urge to offer yourself to a guy so even if he falls, it means they lack the same maturity and self control.

pocohantas:







These are posts by your fellow men, confirming it takes maturity to do that, you refused to question them and quickly jumped on mine like a rhesus monkey. Is what I wrote a lie, abi na as woman talk am e take dey pain una, to the extent one typed epistle and still said same thing.

What kind of hypocrisy is this?

teehamzat:

Rhesus monkey? ...okay...make sure you remember this moniker

Its teehamzat