sisisioge:
Hmmmm...we are the architects of our fortunes and misfortunes. How could a man want a woman to treat him like a god and her baby simultaneously? You want a woman that speaks to you without saying a word, yet, you prefer she observe all protocols while interacting with you. How does that even work? Whew! OYO is your case! Go on, marry your village princess and cheat with Adadinma next door Na you go tire lastlast!

This reminds me of what a pastor said while preaching on marriage. He said men want their wives to exhibit the the love and care of their mother but not the authority of their mother.

You know what baffles me? Many ladies who married late and had to do marathon fasting and prayers to get married, will still get married and forget how they visited church to church to get this spouse and start holding ground with him and forming feminism. Next thing they will see themselves back in those churches praying for their marriage not to scatter.

Funny enough some "I must preserve my marriage" women are doing it.
As for me and my household, we shall serve the Lord and worship Him alone

DatesAndMeals:

This reminds me of what a pastor said while preaching on marriage. He said men want their wives to exhibit the the love and care of their mother but not the authority of their mother.

Abi o. Choose one, a friend or a subject? Both can't operate on same frequency. Anyways, na smallsmall boys with esteem issues dey need that kind validation from their women. A man worth is onions doesn't need to ask for it, it is handed to him without questions. He walks into the room and gets her attention without unnecessary yessir. She knows you are around, her man, her lord, her baby, her sweetheart..fork the mediocre walls you wanna raise cos bullsheet!

I think 99% of men in present day will prefer hugs and kisses to kneeling

Ezionye:
I think 99% of men in present day will prefer hugs and kisses to kneeling

Hmmmm. We need more guys to tell us themselves

DatesAndMeals:
You know what baffles me? Many ladies who married late and had to do marathon fasting and prayers to get married, will still get married and forget how they visited church to church to get this spouse and start holding ground with him and forming feminism. Next thing they will see themselves back in those churches praying for their marriage not to scatter.

Yep,when they realise there is nothing special and should have spent that time developing themselves.
A man is just another human being just like her .

For some strange reasons, having thought about it, I think I would be turned off if my wife kneels down to greet me especially in a servile manner.

But waking up and the first thing she wants to do is kiss me, that sure would mean alot to me.....

Jahblessme:


Yep,when they realise there is nothing special and should have spent that time developing themselves.
A man is just another human being just like her .

Sometimes is he(another human being.) I agree.

kneel and greet him everyday as per God? nah nah i can't deal only an egotistical, conceited bigot will demand for such or pick offense when their spouse doesn't do it.

She is happy doing it. So who am I to contest? Wish I could ask d man his own side of the story.

makydebbie:
So I should be kneeling to greet my husband everyday? No thank you. It sounds really abnormal to me.

It is nonnegotiable.

Sylvyangel:
kneel and greet him everyday as per God? nah nah i can't deal only an egotistical, conceited bigot will demand for such or pick offense when their spouse doesn't do it.

My friend...on your freaky knees asap.

Ezionye:
I think 99% of men in present day will prefer hugs and kisses to kneeling

Not at all. Bible says submit to your husband....not love... Surrender.... Reason why most marriages crash....it is based on love... Nah it should not be.... Rather on submission of the woman to the man. Kpem.

Pidgin2:
Funny enough some "I must preserve my marriage" women are doing it.

As for me and my household, we shall serve the Lord and worship Him alone

Your husband is your "lord" .... He is not your God...but your lord.

lovelygurl:
Loooooooooooooooool, I can't even be FRIENDS with a guy who portrays such a low self esteem

On your knees bae

Jazzlite:

Your husband is your "lord" .... He is not your God...but your lord.

Am I his goddess, if so will he worship me?

Jazzlite:

Not at all. Bible says submit to your husband....not love... Surrender.... Reason why most marriages crash....it is based on love... Nah it should not be.... Rather on submission of the woman to the man. Kpem.

The bible says submit to each other

Jazzlite:

Not at all. Bible says submit to your husband....not love... Surrender.... Reason why most marriages crash....it is based on love... Nah it should not be.... Rather on submission of the woman to the man. Kpem.

Think submission and and love can not be in one woman?

Jazzlite:

Your husband is your "lord" .... He is not your God...but your lord.

I like your line of thought if you were female but I suspect you are male

Pidgin2:


Am I his goddess, if so will he worship me?

Does Christ worship the church? Nah!... He loves, protects and nurtures the church... When they are COMPLETELY submissive. So woman submit to your husband entirely....

DatesAndMeals:

Think submission and and love can not be in one woman?

Yes... possible.

Jazzlite:

Does Christ worship the church? Nah!... He loves, protects and nurtures the church... When they are COMPLETELY submissive. So woman submit to your husband entirely....

I hope you know that some women are married to mad men and some have mental health /behavioral problems, so a woman should submit completely?

Pidgin2:


I hope you know that some women are married to mad men and some have mental health /behavioral problems, so a woman should submit completely?

I think Paul who wrote that book of the Bible made a mistake. Maybe he should have said submit to your husbands when they are good men.....
Just thinking......

Pidgin2:


I hope you know that some women are married to mad men and some have mental health /behavioral problems, so a woman should submit completely?

Mad? I am speaking ceteris paribus... Don't cloak your husband mad so you can misbehave...

Jazzlite:
My friend...on your freaky knees asap.

go away please

Jazzlite:

Not at all. Bible says submit to your husband....not love... Surrender.... Reason why most marriages crash....it is based on love... Nah it should not be.... Rather on submission of the woman to the man. Kpem.

Lol.. so submission is kneeling to greet your husband? funny you. .

if I kneel to greet my husband, he'll be wonder if I'm out of my mind
how many times do we even say "good morning"..like good morning? there are other ways to 'greet' your spouse abeg..

whatever rocks your boat shaa...

Sylvyangel:

go away please

On your knees bae

PresVA:
Lol.. so submission is kneeling to greet your husband? funny you. .

if I kneel to greet my husband, he'll be wonder if I'm out of my mind
how many times do we even say "good morning"..like good morning? there are other ways to 'greet' your spouse abeg..

whatever rocks your boat shaa...

Try it out and put his food on your head...

All I can tell from the story is that the man is a big ass.
Hugs and kisses after prayers wasn't enough for him to feel loved. He needed his fat ego stroked before he could be happy.
Asiwine

cococandy:
All I can tell from the story is that the man is a big ass.
Hugs and kisses after prayers wasn't enough for him to feel loved. He needed his fat ego stroked before he could be happy.
Asiwine

He didn't say being loved was what he wasn't feeling but being respected. Apart from kneeling, respect is usually shown in how women nag or argue with their husbands.

DatesAndMeals:

He didn't say being loved was what he wasn't feeling but being respected. Apart from kneeling, respect is usually shown in how women nag or argue with their husbands.

If you are talking rubbish, does she have to agree in order not to hurt your pride. Someone who can't be disagreed with is a hallmark of deeper mental issues just so you know