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Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Emodeee: 7:54am On Jun 24
While on air (on radio) months back, a young lady sent in a text that reads; ‘Does it worth it to be sincere in relationship?’ She however, expantiated further when we had opportunity to speak saying; ‘’ I have observed that guys don’t like honest ladies. They seem to like ladies who lie…….’ ’ And as we discussed, I recalled the comment of a pretty former colleague of mine saying something similar in a different way when she said; “ I am going to be 35 and I am tired of being single. I go to church, I give offering, I don’t fornicate but all my wayward friends who have aborted, who date married men and do all sort of things have married. Many of them married rich men…….’’
Hey, do you fall into the category of ladies like the two above? Are you a good girl just tired of people taking advantage of your innocence and niceness? Some of you are virgins who have kept your purity so carefully but unfortunately, you have never been happy in your past or present relationship. My dear, I can feel you. I know how you feel. See the reasons below why some good girls stay long on the queue waiting to get hooked someday.


WHY GOOD GIRLS DON’T GET HOOKED ON TIME


1. Over selection of guys that are coming your way


2. Unrealistic expectations and desires from guys coming your way


3. When you don’t want to cross the ocean- You live with your parents (or on your own) on the Island but you don’t want to consider any guy on the mainland no matter his qualities


4. Insisting on marrying someone from a specific tribe or nationality


5. Insisting on marrying someone from your church denomination even when Christians from other folds come


6. Insisting on marrying someone in your profession


7. Poor, shabby and indecent dressing and dress sense


8. Dwelling in your shell- As a result of past hurtful experience you have decided to stay inside your shell like a snail. Ofcourse, your relationship will take on a snail speed when you embrace ‘snail-like lifestyle’!


9. Absence of divine favour as a result of your character and general lifestyle!


10. May be you are paying for your past deeds, especially when you have refused to repent, forsake your sinful ways or forgive those who hurt you.


11. Satanic mark on you


12. Pride and arrogance


13. Rude and uncouth in speaking and behaviour in general- Lack of manners!


14. Not yet your divine time to marry
For quite a number of single ladies out there, it may be a combination of these factors that is responsible for your being single whilst you ought to be married. And it could be because it is just not yet time as highlighted in point 14 above. So, how do I know my case is a case of it is not yet my divine time? Check all the points above and see from 1-13 if any of those listed are in your bag. Ask those around you, especially those who know you well, who can tell you the truth. If none of item 1-13 are in you, then I say to you HAPPY WAITING! Why? The Scripture says;
“ But those who wait on the Lord
shall renew their strength;
They shall mount up with wings like the eagles,
They shall run and not be weary,
They walk and not faint’



written by adegboyegailori

source: http://adegboyegailori.com/good-girls-stay-long-queue/


lalasticlala, let's go there.

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by smartty68(m): 8:01am On Jun 24
Even with some valid points made in your post, watch how slay mamas will begin to fault your write up. Lol grin

OP, but some good girls can tell lies for Africa walai

#ItPaysToBeAGoodGirl

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by ibkkk(f): 8:51am On Jun 24
No matter what, bn a GOOD GIRL is a good decision.

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by babyfaceafrica: 8:53am On Jun 24
Hmmm..I actually don't understand this world we are..even good guys get married to slay mamas and good gals to frausters and lady beaters.why?.....deceit is the answer!!!... A ex runs gal will will cajole one honest and gentle mumu guy to marriage and a player will also use sweet mouth to cajole a virgin,virtous and innocent gal...... People should be careful and prayerful..too many wolves in sheep clothing

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by jhudit(f): 9:32am On Jun 24
How can good girl have those qualities you listed...arrogance, pride, rude and uncouth mouth?

Some of you don't know the meaning of a good girl, same way you people don't know who is actually a bad boy.

The main reason is deceit and some people like to go for someone who is the opposite of them.

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by stuffs4me(m): 9:58am On Jun 24
Some so called good girls have this unrealistic self worth.

Some so called good girls think so highly of themselves and are anti-social

Some so called good girls get angry or violent when guys asks them out

Some so called good girls are mostly unreasonable even when in relationships

Some so called good girls contribute nothing in relationships and always have this sense of entitlement, after all they are "good girls"

Some good girls are not real good girls. That you think you are a good girl does not necessarily make you one. That you are not promiscuous does not mean you are a good girl. A lot of so called good girls have meanness and unforgiving spirits in their hearts.

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Benita27(f): 10:51am On Jun 24
Op, you're so wrong. Good girls don't possess those aforementioned points. The thing with good girls is that they tend to be overly docile in relationships which makes men walk all over them. I call them the doormats 'cause they know what to do but are mostly blinded by love that's one sided.

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by 2dice01: 12:40pm On Jun 24
diss relationship + recession don tire person sef

Abeg who get arch angel Gabriel mtn number make i holla boss make e blow the Presidential Trump-et grin

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by chivic: 12:53pm On Jun 24
Being a good girl is not without fault.Sometimes the magnify their fault to cover their goodness..But don't get it twisted and make no mistake about it,most good girls are married.There are more unmarried bad girls than good one.
I'm not talking about bad girl that turned good when age and beauty started taking its toll on them

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Emodeee: 10:31am On Jun 26
lalasticlala. let's go there.

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by chigoizie7(m): 11:22am On Jun 26
Ok, continue
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by sneak3(m): 12:10pm On Jun 26
jhudit:
How can good girl have those qualities you listed...arrogance, pride, rude and uncouth mouth?

Some of you don't know the meaning of a good girl, same way you people don't know who is actually a bad boy.

The main reason is deceit and some people like to go for someone who is the opposite of them.

The 'Good girl' in the OP's context was streamlined to not endulging or having multiple sex partners......but in actual sense it takes more than just that. Good girl with pride, arrogance and uncultured tongue will remain on the queue until she realizes she has problems in the listed areas, make conscious efforts to stop

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by nobleone: 1:51pm On Jun 26
For every 'good girl' that fell for a 'bad' guy, there was one good guy she dropped in search of 'something better'. Be wise in making your decisions.

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Countrygirl(f): 5:47pm On Jun 26
Benita27:
Op, you're so wrong. Good girls don't possess those aforementioned points. The thing with good girls is that they tend to be overly docile in relationships which makes men walk all over them. I call them the doormats 'cause they know what to do but are mostly blinded by love that's one sided.
"why men love bitches"

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by gentlechyke(m): 5:54pm On Jun 26
Some Girls Will Be Feeling To Big To Reply A Guy's Chat
Don't Worry One Day You Will Be Desperate For Marriage And A Guy Would Ask You *How You Doing* And You Will Reply *Yes I Do*...

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Benita27(f): 5:54pm On Jun 26
Countrygirl:
"why men love bitches"
Exactly.
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by DIKEnaWAR: 5:55pm On Jun 26
Stupid. Applying one thing to everyone.

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Jeezuzpick(m): 5:56pm On Jun 26
Story.

I know a pastor whose 2 daughters got married before even finishing school.

Don't generalize.
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by preccy69(f): 5:57pm On Jun 26
kk
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by ednut1(m): 5:57pm On Jun 26
because most guys are fuk boys grin

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by teehamzat(m): 5:58pm On Jun 26
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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Pavore9: 5:59pm On Jun 26
Any marriage built on deceit has its bus stop ahead!

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by ITANAMI(m): 6:00pm On Jun 26
ibkkk:
No matter what, bn a GOOD GIRL is a good decision.
Yes, cos no two wrongs can make a right

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by magicminister: 6:00pm On Jun 26
I don't totally agree with the OP but I've noticed that lots of good girls remain single for a very long time because they do not explore. They are waiting for their knight in shiny amour to rescue them in their bedroom.

One thing I know for sure is that there is a man for every woman and a woman for every man.

Even prostitutes are getting snatched by men who want them.

my sincere advise:

stop trying to be good in order to find a man and start trying to live your life on your own terms. Forget men and focus on yourself. Go to clubs, churches and social gatherings, have protected sex with anybody you want to have sexxx with and smoke some marijuana occasionally.

Basically, I'm just saying that you should do you and stop trying to shape your entire existence into finding a man.

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Ekeeyhandsome(m): 6:00pm On Jun 26
Define a good girl op shocked
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by pesinfada(m): 6:02pm On Jun 26
Som are gud in one way and bad d oda way.
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by mumjoshluv: 6:03pm On Jun 26
[quote author=Benita27 post=57803024]Op, you're so wrong. Good girls don't possess those aforementioned points. The thing with good girls is that they tend to be overly docile in relationships which makes men walk all over them. I call them the doormats 'cause they know what to do but are mostly blinded by love that's one sided. [/quoty
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by valboy20(m): 6:04pm On Jun 26
What do you mean by good girls?

I'm sure you'll say a gurl that goes to church daily. But for me, that's a big turnoff. You put on frumpy wears that make you look like village masquerade then sweeps the church daily wasting your time on inane deities and expect men to swoon over you. Nonsense!

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by bsideboii(m): 6:04pm On Jun 26
I have seen good girls likewise bad girls get married .....work on your personality and love yourself!! nature will take its course.

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by noxcuse4failure: 6:04pm On Jun 26
Good girls get hook on time. Only those who pretend to be good don't.

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Benekruku(m): 6:04pm On Jun 26
Good girls re mostly weakling in major aspects cos of there inability to explore

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by ITANAMI(m): 6:05pm On Jun 26
preccy69:
kk
Esskiss ma,you are pretty,hope you are a good girl sha,never mind,being a good girl won't delay you getting married when you want to,keep it up

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