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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by preccy69(f): 11:32pm On Jun 26
Misterdhee1:
Exactly how u reacted in our last email convo. Remember? grin
Lols, u ehn
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by preccy69(f): 11:32pm On Jun 26
oshe11:




Yeah! I know, I sed "some" bt like the OP said oda personalities also mataz
good
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Tompeters(m): 11:57pm On Jun 26
Emodeee:
While on air (on radio) months back, a young lady sent in a text that reads; ‘Does it worth it to be sincere in relationship?’ She however, expantiated further when we had opportunity to speak saying; ‘’ I have observed that guys don’t like honest ladies. They seem to like ladies who lie…….’ ’ And as we discussed, I recalled the comment of a pretty former colleague of mine saying something similar in a different way when she said; “ I am going to be 35 and I am tired of being single. I go to church, I give offering, I don’t fornicate but all my wayward friends who have aborted, who date married men and do all sort of things have married. Many of them married rich men…….’’
Hey, do you fall into the category of ladies like the two above? Are you a good girl just tired of people taking advantage of your innocence and niceness? Some of you are virgins who have kept your purity so carefully but unfortunately, you have never been happy in your past or present relationship. My dear, I can feel you. I know how you feel. See the reasons below why some good girls stay long on the queue waiting to get hooked someday.


WHY GOOD GIRLS DON’T GET HOOKED ON TIME


1. Over selection of guys that are coming your way


2. Unrealistic expectations and desires from guys coming your way


3. When you don’t want to cross the ocean- You live with your parents (or on your own) on the Island but you don’t want to consider any guy on the mainland no matter his qualities


4. Insisting on marrying someone from a specific tribe or nationality


5. Insisting on marrying someone from your church denomination even when Christians from other folds come


6. Insisting on marrying someone in your profession


7. Poor, shabby and indecent dressing and dress sense


8. Dwelling in your shell- As a result of past hurtful experience you have decided to stay inside your shell like a snail. Ofcourse, your relationship will take on a snail speed when you embrace ‘snail-like lifestyle’!


9. Absence of divine favour as a result of your character and general lifestyle!


10. May be you are paying for your past deeds, especially when you have refused to repent, forsake your sinful ways or forgive those who hurt you.


11. Satanic mark on you


12. Pride and arrogance


13. Rude and uncouth in speaking and behaviour in general- Lack of manners!


14. Not yet your divine time to marry
For quite a number of single ladies out there, it may be a combination of these factors that is responsible for your being single whilst you ought to be married. And it could be because it is just not yet time as highlighted in point 14 above. So, how do I know my case is a case of it is not yet my divine time? Check all the points above and see from 1-13 if any of those listed are in your bag. Ask those around you, especially those who know you well, who can tell you the truth. If none of item 1-13 are in you, then I say to you HAPPY WAITING! Why? The Scripture says;
“ But those who wait on the Lord
shall renew their strength;
They shall mount up with wings like the eagles,
They shall run and not be weary,
They walk and not faint’



written by adegboyegailori

source: http://adegboyegailori.com/good-girls-stay-long-queue/


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lalasticlala, let's go there.
AS 4 ME, I THINK IT'S VICE VERSA COS SOMETIMES I JUST FEEL IT'S NOT WORTH IT BEING SINCERE... MOST PEOPLE WILL JUST TAKE YU 4 GRANTED...
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Tompeters(m): 11:59pm On Jun 26
preccy69:
good
PRECCY U'RE CUTE... KEEP IT UP
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Nobody: 12:46am On Jun 27
nobleone:
For every 'good girl' that fell for a 'bad' guy, there was one good guy she dropped in search of 'something better'. Be wise in making your decisions.

Wise words
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Misterdhee1(m): 1:40am On Jun 27
preccy69:
Lols, u ehn
First impression lasts na. But trust me, it's never too late to be a nice good girl nd send me what i requested grin
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Quinn22(f): 5:20am On Jun 27
I don't know but soon wink
Emodeee:





hmmmm. when you wanna get married? this year, next year?
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Quinn22(f): 5:21am On Jun 27
Don't worry I will continue to be wink
alexialin:





And the guys will just fucvk , Increase pucci mileage, deflat those boobbs and move to the next victim . cheesy

So please continue bn the bad girl. It epps a lot of guys cheesy
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Nobody: 6:24am On Jun 27
sekxy:
being a good girl...the whole world owe you NOTHING. ....the thing about being a good girl is that you expect so much from people not knowing that most people don't give a fvck about your goodness......you should not always expect to meet good people, you can start with someone that you think is bad for you but at the long run,,you may find out that they are the best for you...
shocked
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by sekxy(f): 6:37am On Jun 27
redbeans:
shocked
lol...my dear goodmorning
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by preccy69(f): 7:23am On Jun 27
Tompeters:
PRECCY U'RE CUTE... KEEP IT UP
thanks
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by preccy69(f): 7:23am On Jun 27
Misterdhee1:

First impression lasts na. But trust me, it's never too late to be a nice good girl nd send me what i requested grin
sorry,no
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Nobody: 7:47am On Jun 27
sekxy:

lol...my dear goodmorning
morning bae.. don't let all the good girls go to the bad guys o sad
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Emodeee: 7:50am On Jun 27
Quinn22:
I don't know but soon wink



buh you dey flex now before then. your own feminist wan marry? your type is rare. feminist nor dey like dick, talkless of getting married.



make we flex together na before you get married.
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by sekxy(f): 7:59am On Jun 27
redbeans:
morning bae.. don't let all the good girls go to the bad guys o sad
lol
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Quinn22(f): 8:00am On Jun 27
You are on a long tin cheesy smiley
Emodeee:




buh you dey flex now before then. your own feminist wan marry? your type is rare. feminist nor dey like dick, talkless of getting married.



make we flex together na before you get married.
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Emodeee: 8:03am On Jun 27
Quinn22:
You are on a long tin cheesy smiley


you know say e done tey wey i done like youcheesy. buh you dey do shakaracheesy.

i know say you be bigz girl, i wanna roll with the aristocrat queen(you)cheesy.
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Nobody: 8:27am On Jun 27
Anfieldboss:

Are u doing advert ? wink
what does that mean?
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Rukkydelta(f): 10:05am On Jun 27
Misterdhee1:

First impression lasts na. But trust me, it's never too late to be a nice good girl nd send me what i requested grin
Good luck in your wooing
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Quinn22(f): 10:11am On Jun 27
Lmao....I'm flattered. Thank you smiley
Emodeee:




you know say e done tey wey i done like youcheesy. buh you dey do shakaracheesy.


i know say you be bigz girl, i wanna roll with the aristocrat queen(you)cheesy.
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by ideologies(m): 10:15am On Jun 27
ibkkk:
No matter what, bn a GOOD GIRL is a good decision.
being a good girl means so many things to different people

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by DeeTus: 10:16am On Jun 27
OP, no good girls in Nigeria anymore. Most girls are either pretending to be good to hook up with you or she just wants to use you as a backup.

Girls who act good have guys they sleep with. "Virginity" is an old school now to so many girls.
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by obadizena: 10:18am On Jun 27
Emodeee:





you are a feminist? declare it now. feminist don't care about marriage.

That's a misconception!
Some are more particular about being in charge & control of the marriage. In the absence of that, they'ld rather not get married. So many males wrongly assume that they don't care about marriage
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by obadizena: 10:18am On Jun 27
Quinn22:
I'm a feminist but I care about marriage smiley

U care, partly b'cos ur version of feminist movement is not about equal rights. (got to know this from ur de-activated account).

Many males do not seem to realize that the movement is divided into two camps : 1) those who are struggling for equal rights, & their supporters; & 2) those who believe that majority of modern females are more matured & competent enough to lead modern males, & their supporters. In other words, their struggles are for Female-led Relationships.

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Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by chenzen(m): 10:19am On Jun 27
Good girls are secretive and boring! simple !!! any good girl here? l don't think so... all l see in pretence and hypocricy...
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by DeeTus: 10:21am On Jun 27
chenzen:
Good girls are secretive and boring! simple !!! any good girl here? l don't think so... all l see in pretence and hypocricy...
Exactly. No good girls in Nigeria and that's the fact. The best is to manage them because every woman has flaws.
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by Nobody: 10:26am On Jun 27
Good girls are boring
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by chenzen(m): 10:32am On Jun 27
DeeTus:
Exactly. No good girls in Nigeria and that's the fact. The best is to manage them because every woman has flaws.
true... let's manage them
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by DeeTus: 10:36am On Jun 27
chenzen:
true... let's manage them
Exactly. Women have flaws. If any woman tells you that she is a good girl, you better run fast.
Re: Why Good Girls Don't Get Hooked On Time by ArcToyin(m): 7:25pm On Jul 19
Many are too selective and careful not trying to take risky. The improvement of a bad or ill mannered guy might have been put as a responsibility of a good girl but because he didnt match her criteria, she tend to ignore him not knowing she ought to work on him.

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