gentlechyke:


Both are the problem since the child is not a rape accident.

The mother is keeping to her end of the bargain. She is providing for the child, however meagre. She is encouraging her son, she talks to him, makes sure he's fed. Its not compulsory for parents to be a couple before you can take responsibility towards your children.
The man is not doing any of these. He didn't even know how his son looked like when he saw the picture. He couldn't eve call to talk to the boy, how about sending 5k monthly for his upkeep. I know that's small, but it still shows you're aware of your responsibility, even though things are tough. How can any decent father eat, while your child is hungry? Sleep while your child may be roofless? How about the child's schooling?
Don't forget he never questioned the paternity of the child.

If he can't deal with the consequences of his actions, why not use protection. Now the lil boy is the one being affected.Silly excuse for a man..spiritual reasons my ass.

delishpot:



Yeah, she has sudenly become an Olosho because she got pregnant. Why are people this wicked? Do you know of she was disvirgined by that guy? You insult her because the man that got her pregnant and almost led her to her grave ran away. When a guy does such evil you call it recklessness but when a woman does it she becones evil, demonic and an olosho. Make una try dey fear God with the way una dey judge matter.
A father who has been contacted, was not denied access to his son, was invited to help care and be in his sons life but declined and ran away you did not call names but the woman who has been trying her best to make the most for her son you call Olosho. God dey sha, thank God that humans are not gods. Today she is your "Olosho" tomorrow she may be bigger than where men placed her. Na Godwin.

Maam. sorry you misunderstood my message...in paraphrase; He could have had such an affair with a prostitute than put the woman in such a condition or he could have bought a condom.

eyinjuege:


The mother is keeping to her end of the bargain. She is providing for the child, however meagre. She is encouraging her son, she talks to him, makes sure he's fed. Its not compulsory for parents to be a couple before you can take responsibility towards your children.
The man is not doing any of these. He didn't even know how his son looked like when he saw the picture. He couldn't eve call to talk to the boy, how about sending 5k monthly for his upkeep. I know that's small, but it still shows you're aware of your responsibility, even though things are tough. How can any decent father eat, while your child is hungry? Sleep while your child may be roofless? How about the child's schooling?
Don't forget he never questioned the paternity of the child.

Yeah. got your point. but in this story, the proposed Father never wanted the kid, he didn't want the child to behold breath of life before birth... can such a person be called a father? even his attitude after the child became human; his actions remained callous. Is that what a father should be. He was never one and will never be one unless his attitude changes. I'm not judging, but the heart of a man is wicked.

kudos to the teachers who were quick to notice the negative effect..

They should change school for him as a matter of urgency first.. and possibly environment

Lawrence Oghenekewve, I'm an urhobo boy, but from my personal experience, urhobo men can be irresponsible Like my ogogoro drinking and cigar smoking uncles.

Except those that purposefully decide to be otherwise and has the fear of God like me

Benjom:
Mark my word, "The boy shall be great!".

chk ur mail sir,

obontami:
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So who is the person talking care of the boy's mother sex wise? I mean you can't just leave a good pussy like her's unattended!

Just incase anyone knows the lady in question whereabouts. The person should please contact via obontami1@gmail.com.

I will reward the person handsomely. Thank you.

. iranu

Benjom:
Mark my word, "The boy shall be great!".

A Very Big Amen.

Nutase:
Why release sperm when you can't fund the consequences

Aunty, why open your legs when his not legally married to you?

KIKO720:
chk ur mail sir,

I've since replied you.

GasAndOilTheory:
Omolewa Ashiru

Lawrence Oghenekew

In another thread I saw earlier someone was seeking
An advice over his boyfriend's request to have a baby for him because other women are disturbing him.

DON'T FALL FOR IT

hmmmmm, you mean he post on this trend earlier on to seek for babies?

No matter what, that's son and Its duty to take care of him