I 'm handsome, a graduate, intelligent and down-to-earth. Any woman's dream if you may ask me but I still cry over a older lady every night.She was 30, I am 28. We started well in the beginning and she became my dream lady but things started changing when she finally found out that I'm really crazy about her. She is killing me now and I can't think straight. I'm on the verge of losing my job now for incompetency.
Kindly assitsts me on way out.

We need more information, can you tell me the reason why she wants to "dump" you? I bet she didn't say "I know you're crazy about me, so I'm going to dump you now". Or did she?

ohh nooo she want 2 dump u?? why should she/shall she do dat?

first things first, u might want to hold on to your job cos when u eventually get her back(which i hope u will be able to do) n u ain't go no job, that won't be funny.

Am sorry life suks, well better to keep your job, if she is meant to be she will stay, but if she is not your well you know the answer

For a 30 year old woman to want to break up a relationship with a 28 year old man who has not wronged her, then it's either:
1) She has found someone else to cling to, or
2) She thinks you won't marry her and wants to quickly become available to other men.

u have to choose between her and your job.but if u really love her then is likely u will choose her and to hell with the d**n job.u can get a better one somewhere else.that will even prove your love to her more

Sorry dearie! Is she dumping you cos you are younger or because you are tripping hard for her. Was she aware of your age before you guys started dating? Cos it will surely be funny if she is dumping u cos u have fallen for her or does she consider u as a passing thing with no strong emotions intended.

if you lost your job coz of emotions, then you must be a real ass. may be that is why she wants to leave u in the first instance...

Life is not always everything u expect it to be sometimes. U just gotta live it. Accept whtever life throws at u. Don't let anything get into you. But u might wanna be think about not giving up on her because you might never find any1 like her. U could, but, there always be a very deep hole in ur heart. A hole that can never be sealed.

boy u got to go for a medical check up. Lose your job and see if that lady will still be in your life.

How do you fall in love to the point that it messes up your mind, i dunno why guys pull stunts like that you fall and you can't think straight at work to the point that you might lose you job, that is just really messed up. i guess you should quit your job and stalking her, which is stupid, or you could get your mind or brain back and get back in the game,

anyway she can't just dump you for no reason, except if you became clingy, women hate that stuff you know.

make it all ur pleasure to be dumped by her

30yr old dumping 28yr old--------------------i expected a shout of HALLELUYAH

30yr old dumping 28yr old-------------------guy about to lose his mind and job

@ poster,

it's a pity cos i expected you to think higher and see it as a way out cos from her actions,she thought she love you.

anyways sha

^{i dey feel your pain,but i aint the hurting party}

NA WOW OOOH SO U HAVE A JOB AD UR TINKING OF losing IT WELL DON, NA U LOVE PASS

She wants to dump you, you want to lose your job.
God forbid, but assuming she dies nko? What will you do? Hang yourself?

Get real and hold on to your job. use your brain!

The story is incomplete anyway so there is no wisdom in adjudicating.

One, why is she trying to dump you? A lady of 30 year old cannot just wake up and ask you to go without reason. Two, what kind of job are you doing? There are many questions begging for answer. Contributors had posted some. Until then, I reserve my comment.

The story is incomplete anyway so there is no wisdom in adjudicating.

One, why is she trying to dump you? A lady of 30 year old cannot just wake up and ask you to go without reason. Two, what kind of job are you doing? There are many questions begging for answer. Contributors had posted some. Until then, I reserve my comment.

dont worry about it, wait till she dump u first.
If you are all you said you are, then you will have no problem.

wake up from your slumber, as one girl told her boyfriend once " there could be an x-boyfriend, but x-job? no way! not when i am no sure of a nxt one" and she countinued, " i can be almost sure of another boyfriend but the tot of another good job makes me restless"


food for tot

If you love something let it go if it comes back to you then its yours, if it dosent, dont sweat it. It was neva yours. Lyf sucks sometimes bro, but u outta not lose your job or more importantly your head over anybody(no matter how much u love em).

PS: why did she dump, (she probably thinks u were just screwing her for fun when she found out she was older). Beta luck next time.

@ poster,

dont kill yourself if she dumps you.haven't you heard the song 'sengemende'?

if you dont have a job you'll not be able to sengemende with the new girl ooooooooo

take my advise and keep your job

^{na true sean tero sing for him song
you don kolo,na becus of her you dey smoke igbo}

@poster

get a life!

I'll wait till you give reasons for her dumping you/ or wanting ot dump you. _{if she has not done that already!}

Try not to mix your personal life with official matters. You have a job yet someone is dumping you, what if you dont?

i agree with Seun
Its either
1. She has found somone else
2. Scare the gy might not marry her, so she makes herself avalable for other guys.

I hope its not too late for her sha

Well said Seun.

if it's about d fear of u dumping her afterwards, then try 2 make her understand dat u're here 2 stay and dat u're for real.

but if otherwise,Get a life and move on.Gdluck

At 30, the chic probably feels that time is not on her side and that you are not ready to pop the question. Sit her down and thrash it out in a no-hold barred conversation. Wish you luck.

i dont kno what to say,

the babe still never dump you, wetin she dey wait for now?