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My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Zico5(m): 5:56am On Jul 08, 2017
I need matured advice on this issue. Pls anyybody that's not married or under 30 should stay away. What is solution to a woman that has totally lost mood for sex? I don't want to cheat and my family is still young but this woman can go as long as she wish even to months without any affection or intimacy. I head a small organisation where I work and I do listen to the contributions of both single and married in the office whenever serious matter like relationship and sex come up but my own sex life is zero. She has even turned the children room to her permanent abode not caring at all. I'm thinking of having side chick but I don't want polygamy. Someone should pls help a brother cos I have decided not to involve friends or family on a matter as sensitive as this. I can't even sleep since 1 am. I think I'm running insane

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by HoleDriller(m): 5:57am On Jul 08, 2017
I once have a girl friend like dat...


It wasn't a funny one...

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by ubergold(m): 6:18am On Jul 08, 2017
Check if she is getting it from someone else.

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Adedaniel211(m): 6:18am On Jul 08, 2017
Mayb u shld talk to her or find Side chick because body no b fire wood.

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Nobody: 6:20am On Jul 08, 2017
Finding a side chick won't solve the problem, it's better you both sit and talk about it... Probably she's tired with the way you've been doing it and feels it's better not to initiate it with you again.

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by jhydebaba(m): 6:21am On Jul 08, 2017
Get a second wife, her brain will reset to factory setting tongue


Pls anyybody that's not married or under 30 should stay away.



So you mean anybody under 30 is not matured, SMH for you.

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by porchster: 6:26am On Jul 08, 2017
Take her on a trip away from your vicinity... Like going to the beach, cinema etc.. Try initiate romantic conversations, while playing and laughing touch her sensitive part... And mind you, don't think of going back to your house. Just lodge in an hotel for two to three days

The first day of ur lodging should be for cuddling (no sex) the second day should be for intense romance(still no sex) Am telling you the last day of your staying she will be the one to initiate the sex I BET YOU.

even before the last day, she would have grab your boluku sharply for a quickie.

Note: But make sure you sex her well to reach both orgasm and climax. This work like fire. You can thank me later.

This will actually linger on in her memory. And try to make it a surprise routine every 6 months.

I guess the problem is your manner of approach. Maybe you are showing Daddy and Mummy approach.

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Nobody: 6:29am On Jul 08, 2017
shocked

Woooah..

But why? U have to talk to her especially if you got children..Is she depressed? Is she mentally unstable?

U better check her well-being first before looking for another problem..

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by herlarho(m): 6:29am On Jul 08, 2017
talk to her first..............






if she doesn't change...............




talk to her again.................






if she doesn't change again.....................











just bring 1 side chick home and buy sex enhancing drug......................






now f**k the side chick like life no day tomorrow....................








when she hear the moans...........









her brain will reset.................







u will surly thank me later............






am just 15 u may think I can't advise u.........

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by OkoAnike(m): 6:41am On Jul 08, 2017
Op, I 've decide to be a ghost reader on NL thread for many reasons, but let me give this a shot...

I think u just need to calm down and ask so many questions in a joking and happy mood, I know bcoz of this u would have developed some attitude, hence making the matter worst.

I like sex as a young man growing and even after marriage sex is so sweet for me, but after my second son, I lost appetite for sex. My wife practically beg me for sex which never happened, then I knew something is wrong, but then things get worse bcoz my job move me out of the state then I was happy, to cut the story short.

When I travel to visit my family, I don't know where my wife got the idea from, she spent time to get my attention to watch series of some video on YouTube of what is happening in many homes "DIVORCE COURT" and from there I learned so many things, that even if not convenient sacrifice is /are made in marriage especially sensitive issues like SEX and from there my drive return.

But I think it a serious work that you must do to make her feel loved first, take away the attitude u already develop, act as if everything is perfect show her love, if can buy gift and after both of you are on the same page then, may be after close of work, let her know u on ur way home talking dirty content in btw ur messages, hence preparing her mind for ur coming, do some thing to put her in the mood, that will do a lot of help.

God help you and bless your young home

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Nobody: 6:50am On Jul 08, 2017
herlarho:
talk to her first.......

just bring 1 side chick home and buy sex enhancing drug......................

now f**k the side chick like life no day tomorrow....................

when she hear the moans...........
am just 15 u may think I can't advise u.........
... You sayin all these @ 15?! The end of the world is surely here!!!

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by herlarho(m): 6:59am On Jul 08, 2017
modelmike7:
... You sayin all these @ 15?! The end of the world is surely here!!!
Itz no big deal nah. abi
Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by NairalandCS(m): 7:09am On Jul 08, 2017
porchster:
Take her on a trip away from your vicinity... Like going to the beach, cinema etc.. Try initiate romantic conversations, while playing and laughing touch her sensitive part... And mind you, don't think of going back to your house. Just lodge in an hotel for two to three days

The first day of ur lodging should be for cuddling (no sex) the second day should be for intense romance(still no sex) Am telling you the last day of your staying she will be the one to initiate the sex I BE YOU.

even before the last day, she would have grab your boluku sharply for a quickie.

Note: But make sure you sex her well to reach both orgasm and climax. This work like fire. You can thank me later.

This will actually linger on in her memory. And try to make it a surprise routine every 6 months.

I guess the problem is your manner of approach. Maybe you are showing Daddy and Mummy approach.

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by 7footre(m): 7:14am On Jul 08, 2017
I'm neither married nor up to 30 and since these are the prerequisites for commenting, i'll wait for the elders

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Nobody: 7:18am On Jul 08, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
shocked

Woooah..

But why? U have to talk to her especially if you got children..Is she depressed? Is she mentally unstable?

U better check her well-being first before looking for another problem..
u are an enemy of state, pray for buhari, stop talking about sex
Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Feranchek(m): 8:08am On Jul 08, 2017
OkoAnike:
Op, I 've decide to be a ghost reader on NL thread for many reasons, but let me give this a shot...

I think u just need to calm down and ask so many questions in a joking and happy mood, I know bcoz of this u would have developed some attitude, hence making the matter worst.

I like sex as a young man growing and even after marriage sex is so sweet for me, but after my second son, I lost appetite for sex. My wife practically beg me for sex which never happened, then I knew something is wrong, but then things get worse bcoz my job move me out of the state then I was happy, to cut the story short.

When I travel to visit my family, I don't know where my wife got the idea from, she spent time to get my attention to watch series of some video on YouTube of what is happening in many homes "DIVORCE COURT" and from there I learned so many things, that even if not convenient sacrifice is /are made in marriage especially sensitive issues like SEX and from there my drive return.

But I think it a serious work that you must do to make her feel loved first, take away the attitude u already develop, act as if everything is perfect show her love, if can buy gift and after both of you are on the same page then, may be after close of work, let her know u on ur way home talking dirty content in btw ur messages, hence preparing her mind for ur coming, do some thing to put her in the mood, that will do a lot of help.

God help you and bless your young home

Bro you have spoken well as an elder.

And like the elders will always say . . . . "

Oopss! I'm just 29 o and I'm yet to be married! I'm not supposed to advice the OP. OP, don't worry, secundum gratiam Dei, next year I'll be 30 and married. So just hold the konji for JUST one year and I'll tell you what the elders said, what they are now saying, and what they will later say.

Kachifuo

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by cherr(f): 8:09am On Jul 08, 2017
You're selfish in bed



Give her head and you'd see she's a freak

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Nobody: 9:14am On Jul 08, 2017
Lots of questions to be asked. What is your family's daily routine like? Is she nursing a baby presently?
What is her daily routine like? Is she working?
Does she come home stress. When she used to have sex with you were you satisfying her or just yourself?
How do you even initiate sex with her?
Are you the type that will leave her to do all the house chores, cook, take care of the kids clean up alone and when she's trying to sleep after a very day you just place ur hand on her?

When was the last time you take her out and gave her a nice treat like you used to do when you guys were dating?
Provide honest answers to these questions. Then we take it from there.
Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by timawoku(m): 9:17am On Jul 08, 2017
She needs your attention and love. .. you have probably abandoned her especially emotionally and romantically. Trace your way back to her heart and sex would come naturally

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by fatymore(f): 10:53am On Jul 08, 2017
Get another wife and let her face her children.. SEx is not for everyone
Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Nobody: 11:02am On Jul 08, 2017
wow!!! shocked shocked

never knew there were lots of 30 year olds and above here on nl romance section o shocked shocked

anyways lemme relax here and read the comments of them elders

hopefully i'll join the elders in four years time when i'm 30

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by kolajoo(m): 11:19am On Jul 08, 2017
She is your wife and you have to force her to bed and make sex her daily food.

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by feelgoodInc: 12:29pm On Jul 08, 2017
OP if you have the patience read this and solve your problems?

and I'm not even up to 30
Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Kennyprince: 12:33pm On Jul 08, 2017
Your wife obviously needs to be stimulated so as to regain her sex urge.

Pls visit www.zeevirtualmedia.com

You can get very good stuffs to help her once and for all
Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Afonjanightmare(m): 2:32pm On Jul 08, 2017
No offense bro, I'm 25 and I'm married but saying 30+ advise only sounds silly, that aside, you have to start seducing her all over again, you have to buy some new clothes, spray perfume, wear sexy briefs while in your room, jog in the morning and work on your diet, have an interesting life and forget about a woman that doesn't care.

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by maisauki: 2:34pm On Jul 08, 2017
THEN YOU WON'T WASTE MONEY ON VIAGRA
Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by FromZeroToHero(m): 3:20pm On Jul 08, 2017
Nawa for this life o. While i'm here complaining of too much sex from my wife. She likes it everyday. Bros pls lets switch.

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Oyindidi(f): 3:40pm On Jul 08, 2017
I'm here to learn. Having similar problem. Not even the least urge. I'm more like a guy lipsrsealed
Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by luminouz(m): 3:46pm On Jul 08, 2017
Oyindidi:
I'm here to learn. Having similar problem. Not even the least urge. I'm more like a guy lipsrsealed
Just visit me for a week n a miracle will occur in ya life o!! tongue
Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by tosyne2much(m): 3:47pm On Jul 08, 2017
Eeeehyah!

I'm not experienced in this aspect and I hope you find a solution to your problem cool
Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by Oyindidi(f): 3:48pm On Jul 08, 2017
luminouz:

Just visit me for a week n a miracle will occur in ya life o!! tongue
Face front

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Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by luminouz(m): 3:50pm On Jul 08, 2017
Oyindidi:
Face front
But ur d one in front naw!!!
Me is tryn to helep u with a solution ooo..... tongue tongue grin

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