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Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jul 08, 2017
It's high time ladies had some self worth. You dated a guy. Fine, he slept with you, you spend emotional times with him and he just left. Don't forget he spent money on you too and gave you the good things of life. Just savour the moment and move on.

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by greatnaija01: 7:18pm On Jul 08, 2017
ladies are actually expressive and they NEED to use words to communicate how they feel most times... IF they wont say what you said they shouldn't THEN WHAT THA HELL WILL THEY SAY....


redbeans:
It's high time ladies had some self worth. You dated a guy. Fine, he slept with you, you spend emotional times with him and he just left. Don't forget he spent money on you too and gave you the good things of life. Just savour the moment and move on.

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by NairalandCS(m): 7:20pm On Jul 08, 2017
redbeans:
It's high time ladies had some self worth. You dated a guy. Fine, he slept with you, you spend emotional times with him and he just left. Don't forget he spent money on you too and gave you the good things of life. Just savour the moment and move on.

It is the ladies that felt they were doing the guy a favor by dating him that say something like that.

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by dingbang(m): 7:26pm On Jul 08, 2017
Word bro.. Nice one..


After i spent my cash on you, fed you day and night, its not like i even disturbed for sex, it was a mutual thing, and then she has d guts to tell me I used her when things went awry.


May Ogun fall on u .

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by VargasVee(m): 7:28pm On Jul 08, 2017
The bitter truth. Couldn't agree with you more


Women always love to play the victim, it's a relationship on mutual interests, not a job. It's crazy how you see them emphasize on being used and dumped

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 7:31pm On Jul 08, 2017
This could be intresting let me park here grin

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by ugofr(f): 7:32pm On Jul 08, 2017
redbeans:
It's high time ladies had some self worth. You dated a guy. Fine, he slept with you, you spend emotional times with him and he just left. Don't forget he spent money on you too and gave you the good things of life. Just savour the moment and move on.
like no hard feelings...

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by RichieDaVinci01(m): 7:36pm On Jul 08, 2017
Make I siddon look

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jul 08, 2017
ugofr:
like no hard feelings...
exactly. 60 percent of girls are scared of going into a relationship due to fear of heartbreak. There is nothing like that. It's better to love than not to love at all.

You enjoy the time you spend with the guy. You'll have enough to look back on and gain experience as well.

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Splinz(m): 7:45pm On Jul 08, 2017
It depends. This advice should be strictly for an undefined relationship. For instance, one can't get in a relationship on the premise of marriage, and then the next moment he/she wants out just like that. What happen to the initial understanding/agreement?

You know that's betrayal, and such is a wrong doing.

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by BiafraBushBoy(m): 7:47pm On Jul 08, 2017
mtcheeww!!!!!!!

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Kondomatic(m): 7:48pm On Jul 08, 2017
You are dating a guy.
He fvcks you good. You fvcks him good too. He spends on you more than you spend on him.
Then if eventually the relationship ends, you accuse him of using you
How exactly?

I am not understanding

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jul 08, 2017
Splinz:
It depends. This advice should be strictly for an undefined relationship. For instance, one can't get in a relationship on the premise of marriage, and then the next moment he/she wants out just like that. What happen to the initial understanding/agreement?

You know that's betrayal, and such is a wrong doing.
hmm.. Marriage is overhyped to me. It doesn't define someone.

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by malcom2x(m): 7:57pm On Jul 08, 2017
greatnaija01:
ladies are actually expressive and they NEED to use words to communicate how they feel most times... IF they wont say what you said they shouldn't THEN WHAT THA HELL WILL THEY SAY....



That's y we were meant to take literature classes even as science students.

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by mofeoluwadassah: 8:11pm On Jul 08, 2017
hmmm....na so wink

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nomfanelo99(f): 8:16pm On Jul 08, 2017
mmm lipsrsealed

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 8:24pm On Jul 08, 2017
A lady could actually be used and dumped in a relationship. Op, you made mention of only one case that both parties benefited from the relationship and one claimed used and dumped. How about when the lady was the one footing the guy's bills, he promised her marriage, bleeped her in all sex position, then dumps her to marry another lady. Won't she say she was "Used and dumped?", or will it be wrong to say "I was used and dumped?".

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Bossontop(m): 8:59pm On Jul 08, 2017
grin grin

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jul 08, 2017
Splinz:
It depends. This advice should be strictly for an undefined relationship. For instance, one can't get in a relationship on the premise of marriage, and then the next moment he/she wants out just like that. What happen to the initial understanding/agreement?

You know that's betrayal, and such is a wrong doing.

Thank you very very much!! @Op..You think it's all girls that date guys for their money? Some guys chase girls and when they let down their guards, the guys change and act badly.. If the girl is hurting,please, let her be..
The fact that you are insensitive doesn't everyone is...

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jul 08, 2017
Kondomatic:
You are dating a guy.

He fvcks you good.
You fvcks him good too.
He spends on you more than you spend on him.

Then if eventually the relationship ends, you accuse him of using you

How exactly?

I am not understanding

It's very simple... they like to do the dumping and expect u to understand and move on...but they don't like being dumped...

The truth is women sometimes have a lot to loose...no matter how u look at it...
Yes! During sex..both parties contribute their bodies and fvck each other...
but men don't have sagging boobss,
men don't have holes that get wide..
men don't get pregnant hence they don't go tru risk of abortion
and near death experience...
And finally men easily walk up to women and start anoda relationships all over...but women have to wait to be approached, the bad part is..it could be another Yoruba demon all over again...

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jul 08, 2017
cc. Rocktation farano lalasticlala

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Mkbryants(m): 9:25pm On Jul 08, 2017
greyboy5000:
This could be intresting let me park here grin

Oshey!... Leggo. cool

Amorawa taba rira wacheesy

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jul 08, 2017
Benita27:
A lady could actually be used and dumped in a relationship. Op, you made mention of only one case that both parties benefited from the relationship and one claimed used and dumped. How about when the lady was the one footing the guy's bills, he promised her marriage, bleeped her in all sex position, then dumps her to marry another lady. Won't she say she was "Used and dumped?", or will it be wrong to say "I was used and dumped?".

You women are always to pathetic and dramatic about issues...
Sex is actually give and take, both parties are actually contributing their bodies to the pleasures....unless perhaps, women don't enjoy sex like I've been assuming....
Why are u making it sound like "fvcking her in all sex position" is like the guy slapped her and beat her in various way..?? I've heard lots of ladies say they like doggy style, and a couple of other styles so they actually want the position changing...
U ladies always make sex look like a great favour you are doing for guys...I'm not always understanding this part

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 9:52pm On Jul 08, 2017
1StopRudeness:


You women are always to pathetic and dramatic about issues...
Sex is actually give and take, both parties are actually contributing their bodies to the pleasures....unless perhaps, women don't enjoy sex like I've been assuming....
Why are u making it sound like "fvcking her in all sex position" is like the guy slapped her and beat her in various way..?? I've heard lots of ladies say they like doggy style, and a couple of other styles so they actually want the position changing...
U ladies always make sex look like a great favour you are doing for guys...I'm not always understanding this part
Sex! Sex!! Sex!!!. Sex wasn't the only thing I pointed out. No girl would feel used if all she did with you was sex. They feel used 'cause you lied to them, and they bought your lies.

If you don't want to marry a girl, define your relationship with her and no one would feel used. Some of you use marriage as an excuse to milk some ladies dry, then dump them for another. To some, you pretend like you'd never cheat while they try their best to please you, just to find out they're dating "Dogs", why won't they feel used?.

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 10:20pm On Jul 08, 2017
Benita27:
Sex! Sex!! Sex!!!. Sex wasn't the only thing I pointed out. No girl would feel used if all she did with you was sex. They feel used 'cause you lied to them, and they bought your lies.

If you don't want to marry a girl, define your relationship with her and no one would feel used. Some of you use marriage as an excuse to milk some ladies dry, then dump them for another. To some, you pretend like you'd never cheat while they try their best to please you, just to find out they're dating "Dogs", why won't they feel used?.

You don't have to be condescending...I know sex isn't all u pointed out...I got the other parts..like I said, It's the sex part I ddnt get...

okay once a relationship isn't working for the guy and he wants to break up...does it automatically translate to him beign a lair, a dog,etc ....the reason why am saying this is because..
I've seen a whole lot of relationships start and end...some the lady end it...the guy takes heart walks away...but once the guy is the one initiating the breakup it bcomes of problem...a case of beign used to dumped now come up
I'm of the school of thought that life is a risk even relationships, a guy dating a lady should be able to walk away for wateva reasons best known to him without beign seen as a user/dumper...
People walk away from marriages that has gone cold and devoid of the love spark and affection ow much more a dating parole...

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by hkidola00(m): 10:24pm On Jul 08, 2017
Benita27:
Sex! Sex!! Sex!!!. Sex wasn't the only thing I pointed out. No girl would feel used if all she did with you was sex. They feel used 'cause you lied to them, and they bought your lies.

If you don't want to marry a girl, define your relationship with her and no one would feel used. Some of you use marriage as an excuse to milk some ladies dry, then dump them for another. To some, you pretend like you'd never cheat while they try their best to please you, just to find out they're dating "Dogs", why won't they feel used?.
please about the dating dog side...ok a girl dat we both plan to marry....our parent know us togeda,but she many times deny me sex except she feels like once in a while,and as a man,i cant hold dis tin......will it be a dog behaviour if have it wit oda girls...but i still plan on marrying d girl wit me

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by kozmicity: 10:42pm On Jul 08, 2017
1StopRudeness:


It's very simple... they like to do the dumping and expect u to understand and move on...but they don't like being dumped...

The truth is women sometimes have a lot to loose...no matter how u look at it...
Yes! During sex..both parties contribute their bodies and fvck each other...
but men don't have sagging boobss,
men don't have holes that get wide..
men don't get pregnant hence they don't go tru risk of abortion
and near death experience...
And finally men easily walk up to women and start anoda relationships all over...but women have to wait to be approached, the bad part is..it could be another Yoruba demon all over again...

You got issues with us Yoruba demons?? angry

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jul 08, 2017
kozmicity:

You got issues with us Yoruba demons?? angry

A self acclaimed demon!!!....not bad!!not bad at all!!!

so what do u have to show in ur demonic resumé??

Mind you....
if uve not broken the heart of at least 18 babes,
have ur named stained with at least 5abortions,
At least 15 slay queens must be cursing u every morning as they wake up....please go and drop that title....u are not yet a Yoruba demon...

Go and pick up the demonic application form....

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by kazyhm(m): 11:11pm On Jul 08, 2017
1StopRudeness:


It's very simple... they like to do the dumping and expect u to understand and move on...but they don't like being dumped...

The truth is women sometimes have a lot to loose...no matter how u look at it...
Yes! During sex..both parties contribute their bodies and fvck each other...
but men don't have sagging boobss,
men don't have holes that get wide..
men don't get pregnant hence they don't go tru risk of abortion
and near death experience...
And finally men easily walk up to women and start anoda relationships all over...but women have to wait to be approached, the bad part is..it could be another Yoruba demon all over again...


lol
Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by kozmicity: 11:12pm On Jul 08, 2017
1StopRudeness:


A self acclaimed demon!!!....not bad!!not bad at all!!!

so what do u have to show in ur demonic resumé??

Mind you....
if uve not broken the heart of at least 18 babes,
have ur named stained with at least 5abortions,
At least 15 slay queens must be cursing u every morning as they wake up....please go and drop that title....u are not yet a Yoruba demon...

Go and pick up the demonic application form....
*puts tail in between my legs...runs from thread*
Curse ye mortal...I'll Be back
!!!

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by Nobody: 10:01am On Jul 09, 2017
greatnaija01:
ladies are actually expressive and they NEED to use words to communicate how they feel most times... IF they wont say what you said they shouldn't THEN WHAT THA HELL WILL THEY SAY....


how about they discuss how sweet their EX was at certain moments.

Like me, most memories I have of my EX are good ones. That's rationality and maturity.

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Re: Ladies: Stop Saying You Were Used And Dumped by lalasticlala(m): 1:22pm On Jul 09, 2017
redbeans:
cc. Rocktation farano lalasticlala

I once raised such issue here https://www.nairaland.com/2001877/why-women-always-claim-been

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