Hello house,

I'm presently planning on starting a business as I wouldn't want to depend solely on my current paid employment in a financial institution .
This evening, my mum called for finance but the amount she requested for is such that would make me not start the business.
I felt bad turning her down even though she said she would pay back by September.(if she no pay, I no fit force am)
If I give money to family, I give what I can forfeit. But this one, my people, no go let me forfeit ooo.
Please did I do anything wrong as I feel bad already.

if you feel bad than ur conscience is directly telling that what you did is wrong but if you think that you did the right thing by declining not to give the money, then it is fine




I didn't come here to condemn your action

Rapoo:
if you feel bad than ur conscience is directly telling that what you did is wrong but if you think that you did the right thing by declining not to give the money, then it is fine




I didn't come here to condemn your action

my brother clap for yasef...well said! well said!

You did nothing wrong, stand first ,then lend her later.

Rapoo:
if you feel bad than ur conscience is directly telling that what you did is wrong but if you think that you did the right thing by declining not to give the money, then it is fine




I didn't come here to condemn your action

Excatly my thought money is of no use if it cannot your help your family.
Atlast when you will be buried it will be ur family money wont be with u.
Any kind of business can wait is us mother requirement that ahould be your priority
Maybe is gods way of saying you that its not time for you to start your business

Bro please go and send her the money first before coming here to rant, do you know what mothers have to put up with to make us who we are today. A simple prayer from her is all you need for your business success, and not whether you start the business in September or not. Send her the money, let her know what you wanted to use it for.

If what she needs the money for is not a life threatening emergency, hold off and start your business, create multiple sources of income that way, you'll be better off in a while. You did nothing bad you worked for the money so it's up to you to use it the way you want

pat1612:

Excatly my thought money is of no use if it cannot your help your family.
Atlast when you will be buried it will be ur family money wont be with u.
Any kind of business can wait is us mother requirement that ahould be your priority
Maybe is gods way of saying you that its not time for you to start your business

First, my mum will not bury me (God forbid )

Any kind of business can wait

Thank you for your comment.

7footre:
If what she needs the money for is not a life threatening emergency, hold off and start your business, create multiple sources of income that way, you'll be better off in a while. You did nothing bad you worked for the money so it's up to you to use it the way you want

No it's not health issues, just wanted it for business purpose too.

tuscani:
Bro please go and send her the money first before coming here to rant, do you know what mothers have to put up with to make us who we are today. A simple prayer from her is all you need for your business success, and not whether you start the business in September or not. Send her the money, let her know what you wanted to use it for.

Thank you

buchhogonzalez:


No it's not health issues, just wanted it for business purpose too.

Tell her to hold on then... afterall, she doesn't have that much mouth to feed again and you have your whole life ahead of you to plan for. Start off yours and in a little time, you can aid her with something

buchhogonzalez:



Thank you

I am serious. The prayersvof a mother worketh wonders

tuscani:
I am serious. The prayersvof a mother worketh wonders

Yeah, I agree with you on that.

Davidgrey:
That's because what you did was wrong!

Next time when a "close" relative needs help, [b]give them as little as you can spare "common sense" [/b]

That's the point. This request is not "little", it's my capital. Anyways, I appreciate your comment.

buchhogonzalez:


That's the point. This request is not "little", it's my capital. Anyways, I appreciate your comment.

It seems you are feeling guilty, is she a widow?

Pidgin2:


It seems you are feeling guilty, is she a widow?

No.