Hi my sweet and caring family!!!!! I mean nairalanders.... though we may be far, having different upbringing and culture but special thanks for the people who created this avenue to unite us. my name is Jacob from makurdi Benue state.. pls with no offensive or bad motives I was dating my best friend's younger sister though I was dating her for marriage but things later went sour. At the course of the dating we discovered we aren't compatible and I believe I better have a broken relationship than a broken marriage so I decided or better still we decided to call it a quite. my major problem now is will my best friend think that I took advantage of our friendships to date n ditch out his sister or was it wrong even in the 1st place to even date her? But to be frank I had all the good intentions at the very 1st instance n how will I be welcome now at the house? will I get all the respect I had before there or better still I shd just let the friendship wt my friend go pls help a fellow nairalander help advice me on what to do. much love.
cc: lalaaticlala

THOU SHALL NOT DATE YOUR BEST FRIEND'S EX (or siblings)

Here is a clue: you must have seen that gal grow up, she was like your own kid sista.you were suppose to be just like a brotha to her and protect her BY ANY MEANS. And now you wanna crawl like a snake and date her?! You deserve some intense flogging.

Give him ur younger sister to balance the equation

When you dey yansh her u no see compactment abi na compactable dem dey call am....if I be that your friend na to yansh your Elder Sister simple.

step 1. call him.
2 ask him for a guys night out
buy him beer and pepper soup.
give him a nice olosho
then lastly, tell him "guy me and your sis don break up o"

take the beating in good faith.

when dey discharge you from hospital come to this post and remove her pictures because it's gross misconduct.

then buy me 3 bottles of Goldberg.

now..... this is really funny.....WTF where you thinking y will u date ur Best frd's kid sis??

if it were me be sure bro....i will find u and i will kill u

MrBrownJay1:
THOU SHALL NOT DATE YOUR BEST FRIEND'S EX (or siblings)

Here is a clue: you must have seen that gal grow up, she was like your own kid sista.you were suppose to be just like a brotha to her and protect her BY ANY MEANS. And now you wanna crawl like a snake and date her?! You deserve some intense flogging.

what are u saying

HannahHitler:
step 1. call him.
2 ask him for a guys night out
buy him beer and pepper soup.
give him a nice olosho
then lastly, tell him "guy me and your sis don break up o"

take the beating in good faith.

when dey discharge you from hospital come to this post and remove her pictures because it's gross misconduct.

then buy me 3 bottles of Goldberg.

..... if you're a teacher....all ur students will take 1st .... I cannor lie ..........u have Sense.......marry me lah

Homeboiy:
Give him ur younger sister to balance the equation

sense fall on u cos am inlove wit u

phintohlar:
what are u saying

he knows what he's saying

IamKashyBaby:
NOT all relationships are not really meant for happy ending...

U juz did the right thing for both of you & u have nothing to explain to ur bestie if s(he) think the other way..his/her mentality is different from yours..

If i were u, give ur bestie and ur ex a break..let the time heal y'all..

na so oh my sister

Jephz:
he knows what he's saying

are u sure?

agbonkamen:
When you dey yansh her u no see compactment abi na compactable dem dey call am....if I be that your friend na to yansh your Elder Sister simple.

Hian we av lost it
wat makes u tinl every guy go into a relationship bicos of sex

your best friend let you date his sister what sane person does that?


you have nothing to worry about, bet he had it coming

phintohlar:
what are u saying

It means it is a cardinal sin to date your best friend's sista, people should NEVER do that and instead you should be there to protect her (not get her into your own bed).

Whatever punishment he receives, he deserves it and MUCH more..

Chun Kwon Da Ne,, (dats Chinese 4 I Dnt Care)

phintohlar:
sense fall on u cos am inlove wit u

Ur in love with me?


I don't need a gf

Victornezzar:

Hian we av lost it
wat makes u tinl every guy go into a relationship bicos of sex

did I mention your name? Beside are you a virgin if you are not did you lost yours to transgendered

Homeboiy:


Ur in love with me?

I don't need a gf

i don't need a bf either

phintohlar:
i don't need a bf either

but we can be friends

tnenge

first rule of true friendship, stay away from your friends sisters. you broke that rule. no Matter what you should have killed your feelings.

To guys, keeping you as a friend means you are my brother and my sister, your sister... you just lost a friend for life bro, no matter your intentions, it will be hard to convince him, especially when his parents may have known about the relationship and he must have vouched for you on many occasions.

What's the need for the pictures?
And I'm the only one that thinks this op is a liar?

Homeboiy:

but we can be friends

yes we can

phintohlar:
i don't need a bf either

Fehintola, rewrite that moniker joor. Don't mind him o. Who no know say female declaring love on nairaland na joke? He dey tease u ni.

how do you guys date your best friends sister please let me know because I can't imagine myself doing this, my best friend's sister acts just like my best friend and having sex with her will be eeeeeeuuuww!
I can't even think of it, I had a girlfriend whose sister was dying for me she came to the house then when we were talking she looked exactly like my girl and I couldn't do anything.
or am I screwed, how do you guys do it.

agbonkamen:
did I mention your name? Beside are you a virgin if you are not did you lost yours to transgendered

Am a full blooded virgin

feelgoodInc:
how do you guys date your best friends sister please let me know because I can't imagine myself doing this, my best friend's sister acts just like my best friend and having sex with her will be eeeeeeuuuww!
I can't even think of it, I had a girlfriend whose sister was dying for me she came to the house then when we were talking she looked exactly like my girl and I couldn't do anything.
or am I screwed, how do you guys do it.

Read the thread again. This is a case of dating sister of your male friend not the other way around.

CrescentMoon:


Read the thread again. This is a case of dating sister of your male friend not the other way around.

STFU

phintohlar:
yes we can

can I send a pm