Dear future husband, hope you get to read this....I don't wanna have to talk too much.
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engrgerald:
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Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

If you have a superb husband I swear, u won't do one line of thinking without running it by him, around him and through him ...... Thus, there won't be any need to have ur own space because him around is the privacy and not being around is the vacum!!


@Op,

U put up rubbish, it is easier to convert an introvert into extrovert than otherwise.... .....U just have to come into their level , their world and bring them out of their shell ..... it requires patience and confidence boasting which many guys of nowadays lack!!

Introvert are also interesting peeps but everything happens in their head unless there is such person that interest their psyche n are confident with , they reclined to themselves alone!!!

What Op painted will lead to broken home!!!

Yeah very true of this article. I'm an introverted person, when I'm in the mood i talk like craze esp. when the topic interests me but most times i prefer to be alone.
I love what the article said about letting her be for when she wanna talk or spend time with u she will in a unique way. that's what we are.

When i wanna be on my own my family calls me a psycho but when i start a conversation they call me crazy. So u can't please anyone just be who u are! Not that we don't spend time with people, but we do on our time mood. If I'm so not in the mood to start a conversation, meeeeh that scene will be so urrrrrrrrrrrgh!!!!

Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

ogbanje for nairaland?

mylifeisagift:

You are beginning to sound pained too..The guy passed the message in a harsh tone but it is actually true.

Lol, so I heard.

HouseOfWine:


Am not but i just noticed smth

One user on another thread said this forum is mostly dominated by intros and currently its looking most likely

I have no ill will agst intros but i just dont get how they think doing what they do is the ultimate pathway to life neither is the Extros, hey but then again its just my opinion, no offense!

I'm curious as to what it is you think they do.

Introverted chicks are my favourites. One cannot help but love them, especially when one gets closer to these chicks and they have fully cottoned to you–the kind of conversations one would have with them are usually so deep, so memorable.
They may be reserved and not given to too much yapping, but if only one could glimpse the kind of thoughts they're having, to say one would be left dazed would be a gross understatement. You know what they say, quiet people have the loudest minds.

Kentrasso:


As a matter of fact, introverts are the most loyal people on the planet. Once you gain their trust, that's all. They'll never go away.

As for op, all I see are the negative sides of an introvert. If you bring out the traits of marrying an extrovert its probably worse than this. You forgot to add that introverts are deep thinkers. They don't cause unnecessary trouble.They connect on a deeper level and can be very passionate. They are tolerant and easy to please. They are great supporters and don't care to be in the limelight which means as a man your ego of superiority is saved. Introverts are very creative too and if you give them that space they will do brilliantly. However, if you know you can't cope with them, leave them for people who are more reasonable.

Me personally I've dated a few extroverts, they're very unserious and too playful. Extroverts want to wear the crown without doing any work. Very show-offy and braggadocious. Its better to have a quiet house and a profitable life than a noisy arena with little to show for it

extraterrestrial stories....kwantinu, more flesh to your cheek

I watched this Susan Cain's TED talk a while ago. I think it does justice to the topic in its own unique way.

Enjoy.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0KYU2j0TM4

Kentrasso:


As a matter of fact, introverts are the most loyal people on the planet. Once you gain their trust, that's all. They'll never go away.

As for op, all I see are the negative sides of an introvert. If you bring out the traits of marrying an extrovert its probably worse than this. You forgot to add that introverts are deep thinkers. They don't cause unnecessary trouble.They connect on a deeper level and can be very passionate. They are tolerant and easy to please. They are great supporters and don't care to be in the limelight which means as a man your ego of superiority is saved. Introverts are very creative too and if you give them that space they will do brilliantly. However, if you know you can't cope with them, leave them for people who are more reasonable.

Me personally I've dated a few extroverts, they're very unserious and too playful. Extroverts want to wear the crown without doing any work. Very show-offy and braggadocious. Its better to have a quiet house and a profitable life than a noisy arena with little to show for it

Touchè!

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Great one

Am an introvert as well,but i dnt realy like it,i cant remember the last time i went out with my bf,though we flow well,bt going out to face all those people,i cant,,,d worst is when we go out with his friends and their gfs,they discusses,laughs,gists and so on but for me,i can never open my mouth to make any suggestion...honestly i feel so embarrassed,,,,but if its on social media,i can type nd type because no1 is staring at me!

I am an introvet. Op almost described me although am nt a woman but it's so true of an introvet. Omo I like my privacy ooh

YOUNGSTUNNA:
I'm not a woman, but everything written up there is so me... especially no. 3.

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I can go a whole day, the only words I said to anyone are *greetings*

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but when I'm back to normal... I'm a Lotta fun to hang around...


hate crowds and gathering with passion

Lol true. Me I hate parties, loud people, talkative ppl and unannounced visitors

Fabulocity:
The last point is so correct. I MUST have my own personal bedroom when I get married. I need MY space and privacy. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm not entitled to those. I love you future husband, but you can't be all up in my business 24/7 just because we're married.


But introverts are not as reclusive as you're portraying them to be. The woman you described in your article is just a very SAD case, definitely has issues.

story for the gods...

As married couples, we share one big and well furnished room. You think i'll leave you all alone in another room making look as if we are just neighbors living under the same room? You need to have a rethink.

Nevertheless, i'll always respect your privacy.

Statsocial:

Lol true. Me I hate parties, loud people, talkative ppl and unannounced visitors

you not alone brother...

Softhands:
Introvert for this naija?... If a tear u slap once... She go turn parrot...









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Yes... Emini mo so be.!

How softhands go take tear person slap?

YOUNGSTUNNA:
so a lot of my missing brothers are here? lol... hop up on this introvertic train let's ride brother

I am female...

Effiezynews:

I am female...

Sorry, my bad. no (m) or (f) and no dp... I thought you'll be a brother. Welcome onboard sister... we could be friends you know....

YOUNGSTUNNA:
Sorry, my bad. no (m) or (f) and no dp... I thought you'll be a brother. Welcome onboard sister... we could be friends you know....

Sure... Drop your number please..

Effiezynews:


Sure... Drop your number please..

........thanks...
please let me know when you get it, I want to take off the net.

hmmm op you just described me I rarely go out i can stay indoor from morning till morning maybe when I go out is to buy something to eat I don't talk much but when I do you must learn one or two things from it there's a time while being alone the ringing of my phone will be a disturbance for me I like my privacy

YOUNGSTUNNA:
I'm not a woman, but everything written up there is so me... especially no. 3.

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I can go a whole day, the only words I said to anyone are *greetings*

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but when I'm back to normal... I'm a Lotta fun to hang around...


hate crowds and gathering with passion

You have mood swings Sir.

segunotiti:

You have mood swings Sir.

Where did I swing my mood to bayi? lol... my village people at work, they are just swinging my mood like lilo

YOUNGSTUNNA:
Sorry, my bad. no (m) or (f) and no dp... I thought you'll be a brother. Welcome onboard sister... we could be friends you know....

Gotten

Effiezynews:

Gotten

alright, I really appreciate. you can whatsapp me

Effiezynews:

Gotten

alright, I really appreciate. you can whatsapp me

Lol

gentlegenius:

How softhands go take tear person slap?

Effiezynews:


Gotten

hey, what's up? was expecting your whatsapp message...
can I have your own no.?