In order to buttress what Ustadh sirnucy lafiagi said earlier today about how divorce is now rampant among the Muslim youths of Today especially the adherents to the sunnah upon the Manhaj of the pious predecessors.
I fear a time will come when guardians would reject marriage proposal from adherents of sunnah citing divorce as their major reasons.
It is now apparent that brothers who are going for nikkah today are not sincere, perhaps they went for marriage in order to satisfy their sexual desires and to leave the Apons (singles) Club.
Some weeks ago, I and a brother was discussing about a brother who did Aqdun nikkah without fulfilling some basic requirements which someone who is ready for marriage must had fulfilled.
He mentioned about the case of a sister who was divorced after having her first child, her mother was a kaffir, who keep mocking the sister after she was sent packing, words like; See your life, when we told you to marry better person you refused, you will now face the consequence. This kept on for long until a hizbee sister who heard of her case came to her rescue; she fed her, took care of her and even employed her as a teacher in one of her school. It got to a stage the sister said; "So, you hizbees are nice like this, and they've defamed you in our eyes...." And Śo on.
Several stories like this are being heard, Also, the case of brothers who are fond of divorcing their wives after one or two years of marriage in order to get married to another wife saying; they have a role model in our pious predecessors who married many wives.
Yes!, they married many wives but not as brothers are divorcing their wive(s) nowadays.
Brothers, are expected to have learned from the challenges they face (like the issue of prostration, bending, kneeling e t.c. )when they are about to get married, but Alas! They refused to learnt from this.
Do what you would like to be done to your daughter to another man's daughter.
I'm sure if you had told her or her family members yoo wanted to marry for some times, surely, they would not accept your proposal.
On a final note, Don't just go into marriage, attend sitting of knowledge, Read books on marriage from authors with good Aqeedah, And read and study the biographies of our pious predecessors.
Pls and pls Don't create problem for we the upcoming Husbands in sha Allaah.
May Allaah grant us all our heart desires and make our various homes a beautiful and peaceful one. Aameen
Amusa Sherifdeen Abu Ubayy

ummmm....I think the main issue among we Muslim brothers is self discipline, don't just get married for the enjoyment instead do it for your deen.