folakemigeh:
I dont know if it's a general thing with we Africans, but majority of us lie a lot, from our pastors to our Imams, from our teachers to our lecturers,

to our Boss at work, from our parents to our siblings, even from the presidency to the common masses..

I even still told a lie today, i over exaggerated a story by adding my own edited part..

Now to the topic, when one is a chronic liar then that person is suffering from inferiority complex and needs to see a psychologist

Homeboiy:


see babe u fine oo
I don't lie, I be pastor son

make I pm u

banjicom:


this is so sad!

how do you end up married to dat kind of person in the first place.

farous:
Your partner (Husband/wife) of more than 8years of marriage is a chronic/serial liar that refused to change right from the year of the marriage till date, a lie that hurts deeply and difficult to forget even if you have forgiven, even when you have full evidence that he/she did it,he/she will keep telling the lie and can never accept unless you have shown him/her full evidence before he/she will accept.

Next time, he/she will still lie to you, and this has been the trend for the past 8 years. There is no steps that have not been taken for him/her to stop telling lies and amend his/her ways, all to no avail. It is now obvious that its is very hard if not total impossible for him/her to change.

Undoubtedly, the EFFECT is the opposite partner is being engulfed by lack of trust from the partner and has been bearing it in order not to break the marriage and hoping that changes will come for years,but none and now fed up with the marriage of distrust/lack of happiness that defy change of character and is now considering divorce.

Those that understand the meaning of lack of trust in a marriage know how deeply hurt it is. What do you think?

NtoAkwaIbom:
lols
I dream of having a smart wife..
having a too honest wife will be boring, I live figuring things out... it's challenging and exciting, Naturally I am very honest... so while she should enjoy my honesty, I want to enjoy her cunningness...

Knowing that lying entails u, Putin urself in the others brain and mind. to know what will make him believe u, n hw to manipulate it to be surreal...
I feel people who know how to lie convincingly are the smartest folks out there... I want to hv super kids.. so I am for the best.
#DeceptionIsAnArt.

NwaAmaikpe:



I really don't see why you feel bad about being lied to.
You've lived with this person for 8years and this person lies habitually to you.

Your partner is lying to you out of love.
Any person who lies to you cares about you so much to the extent they'd rather lie than hurt you with the truth.

I honestly think the problem is with you...
Your partner believes you don't deserve being told the truth.
You probably have difficulties handling the truth yet you always demand for it thereby putting your partner in a tight corner.
You have to prove that you can take the truth then you will start getting it.


You could also learn how to lie as well,
Sometimes it's good to give people a taste of their own medicine.
When you've beat your partner to the lying game; he/she would give up and a resolution on truth will be reached.



Lying has it's merits and demerits.
Trust me, in a country like Nigeria where honesty is extinct; a good liar is an asset.

S/he can become a spokesperson in any of the nations political party or an aide to a politician.
Better still; like my guy Lugbe has rightly adviced...ask your partner to partner with Lai Mohammed

That way, the lying will be very productive for your family.

LordKO:


Your submission caught my attention. Kindly be mindful of what you wish. There's nothing good about lie and deceit (perfidiousness). Perfidiousness is never the same thing as dishonesty, neither is it a sign of cleverness. . . Every act of perfidy is detrimental to the receiver but acts of dishonesty are not detrimental to the receiver. I wonder why you would wish for a perfidious partner/offspring when you can have a smart ones. Honesty remains the best policy in business/life. Smartness is a product of intelligence and honesty.

Tell me that you'd be bored having a truthful wife and I will agree with you. But sure, what you need is a honest wife not a perfidious wife. Note the differences among these words:

Perfidious person; someone that's intentionally deceitful and lie. Eg You are away from home, and your healthy wife, whom you left with enough money, out of greedy called you, darling, I am seriously sick and need urgent medical attention, send me money urgently because I may die before the next few hours if I don't receive treatment immediately - urgently, you send her money and she sit on it and laugh while you're drained both financially and emotionally.

Truthful person: someone that tells you exact situation of things even when such exactness can put either of you in danger. Eg while your wife who's at home is being held captive by assassins, who have come purposely to kill you once they see you but will leave without harming anyone if they didn't see you after some hours, but luckily you weren't at home at that point in time. Then you called your wife and tell her that you are about coming home and asked if she's home, and your wife says, yes I am at home at the moment but I am being held captive by assassins who are after you, if you come now they will kill you. . . I hope you can see that even though she was truthful to you, yet she has put herself in danger. This is a clear example of having a bored person as a partner.

Honest person; someone that tells you things that are beneficial to you at any given time, and intentionally conceal facts that are detrimental to you. Eg while your wife who's at home is being held captive by assassins, who have come purposely to kill you, but luckily you weren't at home at that point in time, then you called your wife that you are about coming home and asked if she's there and your wife says, no I am not at home at the moment so stay put where you're, when I get home I will inform you so that you will start coming back. . . . I hope you can see that even though she was dishonest to you about her location, yet she meant well for you. This is what is called cleverness. And this is why I said above that "Every act of perfidy is detrimental to the receiver but not all acts of dishonesty are detrimental to the receiver."

In summary, wish yourself a wife who's honest - can be dishonest when time permits - but one who's neither truthful nor perfidious.

NwaAmaikpe:



I really don't see why you feel bad about being lied to.
You've lived with this person for 8years and this person lies habitually to you.

Your partner is lying to you out of love.
Any person who lies to you cares about you so much to the extent they'd rather lie than hurt you with the truth.

I honestly think the problem is with you...
Your partner believes you don't deserve being told the truth.
You probably have difficulties handling the truth yet you always demand for it thereby putting your partner in a tight corner.
You have to prove that you can take the truth then you will start getting it.


You could also learn how to lie as well,
Sometimes it's good to give people a taste of their own medicine.
When you've beat your partner to the lying game; he/she would give up and a resolution on truth will be reached.



Lying has it's merits and demerits.
Trust me, in a country like Nigeria where honesty is extinct; a good liar is an asset.

S/he can become a spokesperson in any of the nations political party or an aide to a politician.
Better still; like my guy Lugbe has rightly adviced...ask your partner to partner with Lai Mohammed

That way, the lying will be very productive for your family.

tessyk87:
lol..I no go Ans you

LUGBE:
Refer the partner to Liar Mohammed for certification

UnknownT:
Whoever endured a lying partner for 8years, can endure for 100 years. Yes, that's my own opinion

Psoul:
I have a girlfriend like that, but as a smart guy, i tapped her Whatsapp, Facebook and Calls. So all her moves are at my fingertips. I decided not to bother about whatever she does. I loved her so much but she kept breaking my heart until dat day i decided that it is now game that we are into.

I kept tormenting her on all her secret moves. As she is chatting, I am reading her chats even if she is in Abuja and i am in Lagos. If she goes into Facebook or Facebook messenger, I see all she does. If she makes call, i get the detail discussion. So if she books appointment wt a guy, let's say Friday by 4pm. It's that same time that i will ask her to come and see me. If she went ahead to honour the other guy, I will disturb her phone that she won't concentrate on the date (Mischievous me).

If she comes back, I will tell her where she went to and the guy she f**ked. I am just enjoying the game. It makes her so uncomfortable. The problem is that she doesn't want to lose me. So I have the 4 Ace of the game.