Suspect33:
looking at the bolded, maybe am not an introvert after all, i dont give a sh1t about pple

Uniqueness01:
I don't keep friends, don't go to parties whether birthday or wedding even when I am among the bridal train or asoebi I don't attend receptions because I don't like staying out for long...my tailor will be vexing that all this your body and style I am making for you suppose bring more customers for me o I will belike I go try and people will think I am forming
And when I finally go out people will belike where this girl dey since.......

Now that I am working,after office my house straight

MobileGees:
On average, 75 year old has spent 25 years asleep, 5 years eating and 10 Years of doing other miscellaneous things that a total of 40 years wasted either you like it or not.

Most introverts lie to themselves that they find solace in their loneliness which I know it's a big lie which is why most introvert easily gets depressed and are not able to Overcome their emotions, like I said this life is too short to "come and go" and die heart attack due to depression

The funniest parts is when to introverts fall in love with each other, they will just be looking at each other like zombies waiting for who would make the first move. They hardly get a girlfriend even if they do it doesn't last which makes most of them find solace in masturbation, the worst of it all is that most of the female ones will
never reach orgasm, one of the best gift of life.

Even job self them no fit get because most employers will prefer to employ an extroverted person to an introvert which limit their chance of getting a good job.

In a short note, an introverted attitude is a curse which only the brave are able to break free except for deliverance from a pastor

Cc: Cleopatra4
lamarrj
SPEEDEPITOME

hinky:

Same with the guys... And also there is a difference between a timid person and an introvert

wins18:
Being an introvert comes with some down sides, as an introvert I have my own challenges or should I call it excesses lol.
I miss my chances on getting that pretty crush of mine, I fear rejection and I am yet to device a means of handling such when it occurs, even though when the green light is at its peak.
Another one is that I find it hard to maintain closer relationship with people, they complain I don't call them, truth is I prefer texting instead.
Share yours too lets know ourselves better.

chalantmike:


lol, yhur clueless ain't yhu?,lemma enlighten yhu.

social events are generally draining to an introvert who is conscious of every little tiny data, which naturally the extroverted mind would naturally filter just don't give a Bleep about to actually notice .

from everyones fake body language, to the mood of the gathering, to who is who, analysis of the topic been discuss etc, an introverted mind is aware on a level, the extroverted mind can not access.

introverts ain't shy, or lack confidence, they require permission, they're modest,considerate, to sum it all self conscious. normally I could rather not talk to any chick, Buh if am truly interested the conversationalist comes out, an introvert is intelligent enough to figure out a conversation blind spot n strongest spot.
I naturally get people addicted to me, I have friends that have said told me

"guy when yhu turn yhur light on, nothing can stand you,yhur just irresistible".

here is the thing, its draining not because we introvert ain happy or something but because, our energy comes from internal stimulate not external, introvert literally live on the inside than outside.

so after shining my light, I need to go some where quite to recharge my battery.

depression is a thing of every being on earth as long as yhur human, every emotional uprise like excitement, joy ,happiness etc has a down swing bias depression. depression in itself is not bad, its how its handled.

the one thing a rich introverted mind knows how to how to handle effectively and is depression.

lemma paint yhu a scenario.
an introverted mind is intelligent enough to know there is no smoke without fire, so if they are depressed they go in to handle that depression, they face it head on, they are comfortable enought to indulge their down swing, till it passes.

an extroverted mind is like a bird, the smoke irrigates him/her, so instead of looking for the fire they fly away in pursue of excitement or a place without smoke, an extroverted mind is hardly capable of realizing the quote not to talk of bracing up to it, its a denial mechanism, its a short time psychological cure.

the joy and happiness of an extrovert depends on everything around him, the joy of an introvert depends on the stability of everything inside him, so introvert would generally spend more time inside, tidying and feeding their mind than out.

and extrovert would generally spend more time playing PS, tidying up his room to impress ,cause once yhu are impressed by an extrovert and extrovert is impressed of himself bias versal, feeling dope,going to parties, talking to people or girl that they probably ain't interested in, just to be the bubbly one and scared of seeing self "meaning everybody else seeing him/her as dull" that's an extroverted thing.

extrovert get a bad rap in this world cause, the population is predominantly dominated by extrovert 8-2,sometimes 9-1.

as a law, an introvert most come out into the external world for fresh air. research yhur marine biology "practically every aquatic animal comes to the surface for fresh air, at alternating periods" so also an introvert they most come out for air, when an introvert comes out only to find self out numbered and clearly different with the finger pointing and weird look humans naturally give, they begin to think something is wrong with them or their way of life is wrong, cause let's face everybody else is thinking it.

it takes a mentally rich introvert to see self as original and in real light.

and nigga by the way the human brain is constantly active, there is literally no such thing as loneliness on the inside.

iPurge:

ok. so Wich one are u? do u prefer to be in d midst of pple or u get ur energy while alone

Uniqueness01:
I don't keep friends, don't go to parties whether birthday or wedding even when I am among the bridal train or asoebi I don't attend receptions because I don't like staying out for long...my tailor will be vexing that all this your body and style I am making for you suppose bring more customers for me o I will belike I go try and people will think I am forming
And when I finally go out people will belike where this girl dey since.......

Now that I am working,after office my house straight

Jigba:
I see most of you writing that being an introvert makes it hard for you to speak in public. Well I don't really agree, cause I know extroverts who also find it hard speak in public. Personally, I'm an introvert who doesn't have a problem with speaking in public. It all boils down to self-confidence

Nofuckgiven:
A baby daddy? Congrats.

walexzee11:
Not so good, break out of your shell bro. For how long would you be timid and can't approach a lady @ 27yo!

JhyMedex:

Tanx so. much 4 pointing dt out ...
Am President of 3 different organizations.. n an official in like 2 odas..

Bt once am done wit dese tins.. I luv me ma alone time..
Use em to think, read n wat not....
BTW if u seee outside U'll Neva knw am an introvert except I tell u....

lelvin:
You guys got me smiling at my phone like a mumu. It's not easy being an introvert, some times I wake up and I don't want to talk to anyone. And they will be like, 'what's wrong with you'.
You all know how it is in our head! We can love ehn! But when we hate, even the devil sits to learn. #1L

Heterodox:
On the contrary, the contrary is the case. People find it hard to keep you as friends. You know what, no matter how one day, someone will appreciate you for being you. If Introverts are complaining, what do schizoid like us do?

jojothaiv:

Nah, It's Personal Though...


Thanks...

Nofuckgiven:

You have a disorder. I advise you seek help while you can.

wins18:

I was looking for your like in this post bro, lol, its a long story sha. you are not alone, we have countless number of people going through that in Nigeria, its another hell on earth, I am a survivor and it has opened my eyes physically and spiritually about the world we live in. That shi is not for the faint hearted, if you are not mentally strong, you endup killing yourself to ease the pain,lol.
Wish more victims will openup,so that other will know they are not alone, and perhaps find solace, but they fear for the unknown, all I know is that it doesn't hit ordinary individuals like that, it goes for the geniuses only, some special kind of breed.

pinkpant:
Quick question... can an introvert decide not to marry or the ones already married thinking of leaving their spouses to be alone? Anyone here?

sunshineG:
bro why my number now?
I think you should get a chicks number jare
Only a chick can tell you how to get a chick

Don't you think

pterson:
We're on the same wavelength bro. Someone noticed and confronted me sef so I had so spill the beans as to why I didn't come. The told me I missed so much but it can't beat the peace I would get being alone...

tobbie247:


well...If we have something in common. say, she's reading a book I like or I had seen her somewhere before.

but on a random, I don't think I'd do that.

oluwalewis:


Are we really that worse,
at my working place, they say i look gentle judging by my face and my attitude but i am far from it once with my clique.
My project administrator recently said someone that sees me would think I am shy but i am far from it and the truth is I am a complete introvert but falls under the second category of introverts, to round things up< i am adventurous and never scared of anythn thanks to been an arien so people call me a green snake under a green grass, some even say I am too extravertish but the truth is though I am not an outdoor type, I am not scared of attending parties and events as i blend easily into them

MobileGees:
On average, 75 year old has spent 25 years asleep, 5 years eating and 10 Years of doing other miscellaneous things that a total of 40 years wasted either you like it or not.

Most introverts lie to themselves that they find solace in their loneliness which I know it's a big lie which is why most introvert easily gets depressed and are not able to Overcome their emotions, like I said this life is too short to "come and go" and die heart attack due to depression

The funniest parts is when to introverts fall in love with each other, they will just be looking at each other like zombies waiting for who would make the first move. They hardly get a girlfriend even if they do it doesn't last which makes most of them find solace in masturbation, the worst of it all is that most of the female ones will
never reach orgasm, one of the best gift of life.

Even job self them no fit get because most employers will prefer to employ an extroverted person to an introvert which limit their chance of getting a good job.

In a short note, an introverted attitude is a curse which only the brave are able to break free except for deliverance from a pastor

Cc: Cleopatra4
lamarrj
SPEEDEPITOME

tobbie247:


so Java is double dating?

so Java is double dating? I can't believe she's cheating on me. after so many hours of intimacy.

pterson:
lol, Mr snake. It only gets better I think

oluwalewis:


I think a lot even when I am communicating with someone but that doesnt mean you shouldnt have fun, you just need to outgrow it

Celsony:


No wonder we all wanted a quite wedding.