Benita27:
I know there are situations where women earn more than their spouses but this beaded dude made it sound like men should start going for women who earn more that 200k. Hope he's also bringing something worthwhile to the table?.

He sounds like a leech to me.

Well, when it's a man, they don't call it 'leeching'.

Only women leech, men don't leech, men seek women that'll bring something to the table

lovelygurl:
I agree with him. The 200k thing might vary from guys to guys but women should stop thinking they are entitled to the money of their partners

I think it's what has been passed down from generation to generation. Even the guys are confused sef. One moment they don't want a rich woman, the next minute they want her.

I saw a thread where a guy said his gf doesn't beg for money. Guys were the ones insulting him and his gf. What exactly do they want?

Lalas247:

He will get tired he ain't the first to come out with such crap ...

It's a good idea that women should strive to earn more than that sef, but such ladies shouldn't end up with an idiot who feels entitled and would rather depend on his wife's income for sustenance, is that one a man?.

pocohantas:

Well, when it's a man, they don't call it 'leeching'.

Only women leech, men don't leech, men seek women that'll bring something to the table


I think it's what has been passed down from generation to generation. Even the guys are confused sef. One moment they don't want a rich woman, the next minute they want her.

I saw a thread where a guy said his gf doesn't beg for money. Guys were the ones insulting him and his gf. What exactly do they want?

Confused bunch I swear!, I could imagine their utterances on this thread if a lady were the op.

Benita27:
It's a good idea that women should strive to earn more than that sef, but such ladies shouldn't end up with an idiot who feels entitled and would rather depend on his wife's income for sustenance, is that one a man?.

My dear na houseboy be that no can't do ... it's different if he lost his job etc but to say you no go work na lie be that ...

pocohantas:

Well, when it's a man, they don't call it 'leeching'.

Only women leech, men don't leech, men seek women that'll bring something to the table


I think it's what has been passed down from generation to generation. Even the guys are confused sef. One moment they don't want a rich woman, the next minute they want her.

I saw a thread where a guy said his gf doesn't beg for money. Guys were the ones insulting him and his gf. What exactly do they want?

Those are men brought up with the mentality of which their amount of money is what makes them a man.

That's why you'll see them complaining about gold diggers (even those without a cent). Infact especially those without a cent

But then will be too insecure to ask a woman out who earns more than them, and will even advice their fellow insecure friends to never marry 1.

Their arguments are then based on absolutely ridiculous stuffs like

"She'll not respect you" blablabla, all just because of their fvcked up mentality

pocohantas:
That would be nice. Reversed traditional roles. Women work and earn, men stay home...cook, clean, wash clothes, bathe the kids...etc. That'll be wonderful...

NL guys are becoming mentally drained, they never have logical response to arguments. Only to call feminist. These feminist must be giving some people sleepless nights Na wa! Na real wa!!

The argument in this case being what exactly?

RaggedyAnn:




It hurts when people show this kind of commitment towards constructing a response to a post, only for it to completely miss the point. At least the other guy was brief. No offense but, ignorance is a lot more decent when it is expressed economically.

My comment acknowledged the bearded guy's advocacy for a man to be taken care of (financially)by a woman, in a bid to flip the tables on them. And I painted a picture of what that ultimately looks like (since men seem to think women have it easy), welcoming the idea of men turning themselves into 'wifey-men', if that's what they wanted. And now you're claiming that such men don't exist? Really? When this thread was started because of a comment that implies exactly that.

It's pointless, really..........

Thanks for your thoughtful response.

Benita27:
Confused bunch I swear!, I could imagine their utterances on this thread if a lady were the op.

Remember that thread a lady said financially independent women have taste. Guys were boiling on that thread, belittling achievements of women. I think as far as these insecure guys are concerned, a woman isn't entitled to a choice. She is just supposed to take any man how he is, before biological clock catches up with her

Women should work hard for their own good first. Every other would follow...

lovelygurl:


Those are men brought up with the mentality of which their amount of money is what makes them a man.

Dazzal!!!!!

pocohantas:

Well, when it's a man, they don't call it 'leeching'.

Only women leech, men don't leech, men seek women that'll bring something to the table


I think it's what has been passed down from generation to generation. Even the guys are confused sef. One moment they don't want a rich woman, the next minute they want her.

I saw a thread where a guy said his gf doesn't beg for money. Guys were the ones insulting him and his gf. What exactly do they want?

I want a woman to carry her own weight. The differences between men and women is what drives them when it comes to work. When a man gets married and have kids - he works harder and longer (that's how we are wired), by this, I am talking about healthy rational men.

When women get married and have kids, they rather spend more time with the kids and with family (It's how women are wired). This trend is mainly with people in relationships and not the same with single people. A single woman who has no kids and educated in a demanding work domain most likely will earn more than a single man in a field that is not paying the same.

To my sisters that make more money - I salute you. I don't envy or disrespect a woman because she is smart, intelligent and a hustler. If a man can't handle that, then he is most likely immature and his ego is in the way.

However, both women and men should realize that they are DIFFERENT in so many ways

pocohantas:

Remember that thread a lady said financially independent women have taste. Guys were boiling on that thread, belittling achievements of women. I think as far as these insecure guys are concerned, a woman isn't entitled to a choice. She is just supposed to take any man how he is, before biological clock catches up with her

Women should work hard for their own good first. Every other would follow...


Dazzal!!!!!

Absolutely @embolden.

Benita27:
We agree he's right. But hope he earns more than that? Else no woman who earns more than 200k will be nice with a dude who's either jobless or earning 100k.

He has to earn more than her.

not every woman is like you Benita...

dingbang:
not every woman is like you Benita...

I still agree with you on this one. All women can't be like me. Don't be a leech!.

He's advertising himself for a sugar mum..

No worry, she will soon contact u.

Be patient. You hear?

MUMU is the only word that comes to my mind for this

Yes

I agree with him!

It is not easy to maintain a FINEBOY look. You don't expect guys to keep working under the scorching sun and under the rain and still maintain a fineboy look. Lol...

Benita27:
I still agree with you on this one. All women can't be like me. Don't be a leech!.

dont be a leech.. Take your words

vivypretty:
Nigerian Twitter user, identified as
(@ani_Nomso), has sensationally gone viral after
saying men should not marry any girl who earns
less than 200k monthly.
According to him, she won’t be able to take care
of the man and their children with earnings lesser
200k. He is also of the opinion that no man is
born to suffer.
what do u think nairalanders

Do you earn up to 200K monthly ?

Agree times are tough
Who has the energy and resources to be carrying dead weight?

The guy is perfectly right, I can't even accept 200k monthly, it should be from 350k above.
I can't never go for a liability as a wife.

Fadiga24:
He has hit them below the belt and feminists are scampering, giving lousy alterations.

The truth is nobody wants to marry a liability anymore, If you want a rich and hardworking husband, you have to be rich and hardworking yourself.

you just said it.
Just keep reading their write-up, "she won't tell her husband what she earns but you want him to tell you his ( is she not a fool).
I wish men think and act the way I do, all this girls brain Will reset.
Bunch of idiots claiming to be smart not knowing they are empty.

ayokellany:

Do you earn up to 200K monthly ?

no.do u v one for me?especially one that is morally good.

ayokellany:

Do you earn up to 200K monthly ?

no.do u v one for me?especially one that is morally good.

vivypretty:

no.do u v one for me?especially one that is morally good.

I have some close to the range but you'd have to move to Lagos. I have none in Akwa but I know you do not want a job. I have a want I need from you though.

ayokellany:
I have some close to the range but you'd have to move to Lagos. I have none in Akwa but I know you do not want a job. I have a want I need from you though.

who said I don't want a job.....n what do u want?

I for like chuk my mouth inside dis mata,buh d guy in question is cute tho... so lemme come nd be going sha

Abeg leave that thing.How many women earn 200k and she spends 100k for her husband and kids ? Them nor dey o..Even if you see, it will be 0.0000001% of the population. So what is need of her earning the 2hk when she cannot support you ?

Na him be say many of us no go marry

Lol. What a generation. Na woman men want dey depend on top now..

IfeomaRash:
Na him be say many of us no go marry

Ask how many men dey earn 80k No mind dem