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Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by davidif: 11:25pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
okenwaa: Gbam!!!! I can't understand all this "broke this, broke that" nonsense that some nigerians like saying. Its really amusing and absurd at the same time. Its as if so called "broke" people are a different species or something. Watching some Nigerians calling their fellow Nigerians broke is like a beggar looking down on another beggar because he got the biggest crumbs today. In case most Nigerians didn't know, Nigeria is ranked as one of the poorest nations in the world with over 60% of the population live on less than $ 2.00 dollars a day yet you would see Nigerians bragging and looking down on other Nigerians who are less fortunate than they are and call them "broke" when they themselves are either just as "broke" or just marginally well off. It's like someone making 4 dollars a day looking down on someone making 2 dollars a day. It's so ridiculous it's not even funny. Talk about ignorance, vanity, elitism and snobbery mixed up together. In developed countries like the US you hardly hear the white folks make fun of people because of their socio economic status but its amongst the blacks that the mentality is prevalent. Not to talk of Nigeria, one of the poorest nations in the world where the majority is wallowing in poverty another person would come and be looking down on his fellow man in the struggle and calling them broke just because he managed to get in line ahead of his colleagues this time to get crumbs that fall from the table. Animal kingdom mentality at its worst. Humble yourself before circumstances humble you. On another note, with all this fascination about "broke guys" why don't we hear topics about broke girls? Why must it be the guy that people refer to as broke? I hardly come on here and hear anything about broke females, it's always the guy. As if the economic situation in this country is different for men and women. Are they not all in the same boat? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by okenwaa(m): 11:33pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
davidif: My brother I wonder oooo |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by pocohantas(f): 11:00am On Jul 27, 2017 |
davidif:It's the same reason we hardly hear of promiscuous guys. It's always the girls... double standards. I agree with every other thing you said and I have said it severally that reality is different on NL. Just like you, I am very aware the poverty and dependency rate is very high in Nigeria. Yet, very guy on NL is rich and spending 'bastardly' on his gf. Gets me wondering why the obsession and anger over broke guys topic. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by mikolo80: 1:41pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
sekxy:good for her. was she blind when walking on the road or watching TV. she would've noticed that he liked light skin girls. but at least she a free woman. you, na slave you go be Shebi moni na your problem. longer throat don't worry mercy aigbe treatment fall on you |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by fumisko(f): 2:00pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
My first love Are there really good men in this world? Sure there are...men that are true, just, honest. Men who stick closer than even a brother and are just absolutely on point...lol. Abisha was one of this in so many ways. Abisha was tall, fair and handsome. He was also emotionally healthy and was way balanced on the inside and outside that I just couldn't resist him...well I have tried way over seven (7) months to resist him. I had friend zoned him and place him on a 9 on the dreaded friend-zone scale of 0 to 10. I just wasn't ready for relationships as I had wanted the first man I ever dated to be the one I ended up with. So Him talking love/ dating was something I wasn't ready to get myself entangled in. Besides, he was way way older than me and that was supposed to be my perfect excuse...lol. Anyways, the attraction between Abisha and I isn't really the main subject of this post but the man Abisha was in the healthy part of our relationship. Abisha was a man greatly invested in building up his little girl. He was a man that taught me so many principles on being a better me. He taught me to play, to talk and be in charge of myself and emotions (the list actually goes on). I remember this guy was there to check about 90% of every assignments I ever submitted in school, make necessary corrections and email it back to me before I submitted. Abisha also taught me how to control my emotions and maturely handle differences. I remember practical cases where Abisha taught me the act of "talking" out dislikes, offenses and not dramatizing or nagging the normal way most ladies do. It was literally a more stress-free, fun, unique and amazing way of handling differences to which I am grateful to God I learnt early enough. From Abisha I learnt how to care deeply for someone I love and also learnt the act of trust. ( yea...I was in a relationship but had 0.00% level of trust). Abisha also taught me "the act of compromise" and the "lets meet at the middle strategy" that makes all relationship work. True...I was tough, inflexible and practically suck with some of my own childish ways of doing things(let me spare you some of those funny details) but then I was also stuck with someone who did not give up on improving me in the best way he could and while he could. But then, what could have spoilt this true love story anyone would ever dream of having? Was it my fault or his fault? http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Ugosample(m): 2:44pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
davidif: You have a point tho |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Blecool(f): 2:44pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
Feel really sorry for her... Broke guys can be really loyal,and can make u love them ehn... Who they epp sef? Can never date a broke guy again in my life. If u dnt have 30billion in ur account,count me out.... Nobody shd quote me please,i'm nt feeling fine |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy Is Not A Guarantee He Will Marry You When He Becomes Rich by Thazard(m): 11:33pm On Aug 09, 2020 |
Kondomatic:Lol Naija guys always change the subject in favour of Guys. |
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