Is it true? or does love eventually die after a breakup?

I'm curious.

Yes, it does eventually die with time. Haven't you ever experienced it before?

Nope, I don't know much about love  .
I think if it was truly love there would be lingering feelings. lol

The love can be bottled up and hidden, never revisited, etc. To unlove? I don't know.

@ poster

I am surprised a bit*ch like you could come up with a topic like this. Was your ugly arse dumped by a girl you loved so much?

If you were, whatever.

@bitchelin
your mother is the bi*tch for birthing a brainless dweeb of a bi*tch like your ugly cumswallowing a%s.

H2O2:

@bitchelin
your mother is the bi*tch for birthing a brainless dweeb of a bi*tch like your ugly cumswallowing a%s.

Shut the fu*ck up. I am not crying like a pus*sy like you on NL. You are a bi*tch

Guys, take it easy o. No fight.

H2O2:

Nope, I don't know much about love   .
I think if it was truly love there would be lingering feelings. lol

The love can be bottled up and hidden, never revisited, etc. To unlove? I don't know.

Well, for me, no lingering feelings of any kind. Infact it could even get to a stage where I'll be thanking God I'm no longer with the person because otherwise, I would never have discovered this new person who is making me go gaga.  

michelin89:

Shut the fu*ck up. I am not crying like a pus*sy like you on NL. You are a bi*tch

Your good for nothing daddy should have sucker-punched your mommy in the belly when he found out she was pregnant with your bast*ard as%.  Useless cretin.  Crying ko fretting ni.  Lame whorre.

H2O2:

Your good for nothing daddy should have sucker-punched your mommy in the belly when he found out she was pregnant with your naughty person as%.  Useless cretin.  Crying ko fretting ni. Lame whorre.

Whatever pu*ssy bi*tch.

yes I believe if you truly loved someone, you will always love that person. even if the person
do not exist anymore, there will always be in flame in your heart that burn for that person. am talking about
real real love here which is very rare but very possible.

lizzybabe1:

Guys, take it easy o. No fight.

Well, for me, no lingering feelings of any kind. Infact it could even get to a stage where I'll be thanking God I'm no longer with the person because otherwise, I would never have discovered this new person who is making me go gaga.  

Okay, so even with him gone there's no space reserved for him permanently in your heart?
I feel you.

michelin89:

Whatever pu*ssy bi*tch.

Lick my salty balls you grotesque b%tch

rokiatu:

yes I believe if you truly loved someone, you will always love that person. even if the person
do not exist anymore, there will always be in flame in your heart that burn for that person. am talking about
real real love here which is very rare but very possible.

I thought as much.  But lizzy disagrees with me. She believes the burning flame will be evicted and fumigated.

*peeps,sees curses flies away*

michelin89:

@ poster

I am surprised a bit*ch like you could come up with a topic like this. Was your ugly arse dumped by a girl you loved so much?

If you were, whatever.

Michelin!! Why are you getting personal on here?

Siena:

Michelin!! Why are you getting personal on here? 

It's tiit for taat.

Siena:

Michelin!! Why are you getting personal on here?

Because I'm her worst nightmare. I've been a ruffian and a bully to the bi%tch and she hates me for it. I hope her hatred intensifies, and she can kick rocks till she kicks the bucket.

H2O2:

Because I'm her worst nightmare. I've been a ruffian and a bully to the bi%tch and she hates me for it. I hope her hatred intensifies, and she can kick rocks till she kicks the bucket.

Yet he calls himself a human being. -.-"

H2O2:

I thought as much.  But lizzy disagrees with me. She believes the burning flame will be evicted and fumigated.

only when the love is not strong enough

@poster
i completely disagree!
there is a reason for being in love with someone. . . . . what you share with him, the relation you have, the physical/emotional connection, seeing him everyday etc. when you break up, you will still have the same feelings for that person but with time being away from each other not sharing anything, the love will slowly fades away (and thats if you have parted amicably).

also if your loved one had s e x  with your bestfriend, believe me, that love will quickly turn into hatred.

a person who broke up with you and still loves you 10yrs down the line has difficulties in letting go and is mentally unstable to say the least.

i think you should have said : "if you truly loved someone, you will always CARE for that person unless they slept with your bestfriend or worse"

that feeling is always gonna be there no matter what

Emhmm. . .wrong. . .You get over the love. . .I don't see why you should stay stuck in love with someone you can't be with.  . .that's like imprisoning oneself and limiting yourself from experiencing love with someone you can be with!

y me:

that feeling is always gonna be there no matter what

are you saying that you are still in love with ALL the guys you have ever loved?!

MRbrownJAY:

are you saying that you are still in love with ALL the guys you have ever loved?!

nope i am not in love with them but the fact is there is still a little part of me that gets that butterfly feeling
btw i dont fall in love it just doesnt work for me

ThoniaSlim:

Emhmm. . .wrong. . .You get over the love. . .I don't see why you should stay stuck in love with someone you can't be with.  . .that's like imprisoning oneself and limiting yourself from experiencing love with someone you can be with!

imposicant i never stay stuck up in love
you are still gonna get attracted no matter what except you develop hatred for him some how

H2O2:

Your good for nothing daddy should have sucker-punched your mommy in the belly when he found out she was pregnant with your bast*ard as%.  Useless cretin.  Crying ko fretting ni.  Lame whorre.

Murder was the case here.This guy dey yab o! LMAO.

y me:

nope i am not in love with them but the fact is there is still a little part of me that gets that butterfly feeling
btw i dont fall in love it just doesnt work for me

you are confusing me, first you say that "there is still a little part of me that gets that butterfly feeling" and thereafter you say "i dont fall in love it just doesnt work for me"

if you've never fell in love then how do you get these butterfly feelings, if i may ask?!

MRbrownJAY:


you are confusing me, first you say that "there is still a little part of me that gets that butterfly feeling" and thereafter you say "i dont fall in love it just doesnt work for me"

if you've never fell in love then how do you get these butterfly feelings, if i may ask?!

vamos a ver, let me see if i can expalain this
i go into a relationship not because am in love but because i love
and yes i get butterfly feelings when am really really attracted to that special guy
the fact is i get over a guy within a short period of time no matter how much i care about him
but there is always a part of me that is always gonna treasure him no matter what (in as much as i dont hate him which has never happened)

finally we are getting somewhere. . . . . . . . . ok:

i go into a relationship not because am in love but because i love.

so if i understand you correctly, you first have to love (that person) before you get into a relationship with them?! interesting. . . .

and yes i get butterfly feelings when am really really attracted to that special guy

if these butterfly feelings aint love then why are you talking about that? dont confuse/mistake butterfly feelings with the feeling of love.  the poster is talking about love, anything else a different subject. . . . . . . .unless you are afraid to say something as simple as "yes i loved these guys".

the fact is i get over a guy within a short period of time no matter how much i care about him.

again if you"get over a guy" that easily then maybe what you had could have just been caring(like you wrote) a crush/infatuation and definitely not love. dont mistake the two, many people do.

but there is always a part of me that is always gonna treasure him no matter what (in as much as i dont hate him which has never happened)

what you described here is called CARING which is completely normal in couple that stayed close/friends.

unless a person was wrong for you or not compatible, no sane adult would turn away from true love for absolutely no reason because this love would bring such a fantastic feeling to your life (to your being) that it would be almost impossible to just walk away from it.

But don't you think the reason you care is because it is somebody you loved that has hurt you?

If you've got a feeling for someone and it fades with time then that feeling is not love!

You can ask those who have lost a beloved one



btw
love is like a mirage or an hallucination
it exists only when u think it does!

Wow . That's a deep question and one I've asked myself many times.

Whitney Houston sang  " If somebody loves you. . .  won't they always love you . . . "
But that was before she met Bobby Brown.
Wasn't it?

I think if you really loved someone, no matter how much pain the person caused you, you'd always be grateful that they came into your life, and you'd never really regret meeting them.   You might regret the circumstances that took place, and the things that happened that drove you two apart, but you know that if you had to do the same thing over again, you'd still want to meet that person cos he/ she made your life a little better just for the fact that they were there.

Or maybe I'm just being sentimental.  

With the space of distance and time, the fire of  being in love will cool to a deeper, steadier emotion which lasts for a longer time, and it comes with accepting that person, loving them for their flaws and appreciating their virtues. And that steadier emotion is what is actually love.

This is a complex question because it actually brings a lot of others with it, such as knowing what types of people you can love,  knowing when to make it work and when to let go , and figuring out whether you will choose between love and respect.

I hope I helped anyway.

Did you really expect me to read that long story?
Lol