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Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by Nairalandsss(m): 12:22am On Jul 28
Sometimes, in a relationship we often do not realise that we are being controlled by our partner for a long period of time. But as time passes by, we experience the negative effects of being in an abusive and controlled relationship. A guy who does not realise that his controlling nature is a problem will not be ready to accept the fact that he is controlling his partner. This can lead to misunderstandings and problems.

Being in a controlled relationship has adverse effects on the mental health of the person as the girl becomes unsure of what is happening around. They think they are over-reacting or over-imagining a problem or even being extra-sensitive. This kind of a relationship will be bad for anyone as living with abusive people isn’t pleasure.Here are some signs of men who controlling too much.


Signs of men who controls too much are:

1.You Are His Everything: When a guy wants you to be with him throughout the day, it is not good. Having your own personal space is very much important, and this applies to both the partners. When there is no privacy, it becomes an issue of control and the relationship gets sour. This is one of the biggest sign of being controlled.

2.Lesser Contact With Family And Friends:
He does not like it when you contact your family and friends more often. It makes him feel insecure and he asks you to cut down your contact with them as he thinks only he surrounds your world. He says he wants you to spend time with him and gives reasons like your family is over-controlling you. Make sure you do not give up on your family and friends for a man who does not understand your priorities.

3.Different Rules: You may be bound to share your passwords (of mails and social sites) with him but when you ask him the same, he retaliates. He gets to hang out with your male friends but does not like it when you ask him about his set of friends. Remember that you both stand an equal place in the relationship and you cannot be controlled by any.

4.His Interests Are Important: You slowly start realising that all the important priorities and interests of your personal life are being over-shadowed by his. He likes to take you to concerts and movies which might not interest you. When you ask him the same to join in an event of your choice, then he bluntly denies.

5.He Is Never At Fault:
He never agrees his mistakes. He suffers certain fears and phobias but never admits the same. The guy who controls too much, thinks that anything that goes wrong might be because of you. When you complain about anything then you realise that there is a sudden storm of blame game happening. This is one of the signs of men who control too much.

These are the signs of men who controls too much.




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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by Michelle55(f): 12:23am On Jul 28
hmmmm, quite true.

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by pocohantas(f): 12:30am On Jul 28
Endtime boyfriend. Don't dare break up with them, just relocate to another planet.

...they're the ones capable of revenge porn.
...na them fit burn babe.
...pour acid.
...stalk you.
...jump fence and enter your father's house to talk to you.
...come to your office or school to cry.

They are drama kings.

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by ibkayee(f): 12:33am On Jul 28
pocohantas:
Endtime boyfriend. Don't dare break up with them, just relocate to another planet.

...they're the ones capable of revenge porn.
...na them fit burn babe.
...pour acid.
...stalk you.
...jump fence and enter your father's house to talk to you.
...come to your office or school to cry.
Lmao poco poco

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by ceeejaytee(f): 12:45am On Jul 28
pocohantas:
Endtime boyfriend. Don't dare break up with them, just relocate to another planet.

...they're the ones capable of revenge porn.
...na them fit burn babe.
...pour acid.
...stalk you.
...jump fence and enter your father's house to talk to you.
...come to your office or school to cry.


Abi grin

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by sanchezJ(f): 12:52am On Jul 28
Characteristics of a small boy trying to act like a grownup.

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by sanchezJ(f): 12:54am On Jul 28
Characteristics of a small boy trying to act as a grownup

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by pocohantas(f): 1:11am On Jul 28
ibkayee:

Lmao poco poco

I'm serious. They don't take NO for an answer, how do you expect them to take "I am no longer interested" in good faith? After making you his everything...you must be interested cheesy cheesy

ceeejaytee:
Abi grin
God protect His children... embarassed

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by Nairalandsss(m): 1:12am On Jul 28
pocohantas:
Endtime boyfriend. Don't dare break up with them, just relocate to another planet.

...they're the ones capable of revenge porn.
...na them fit burn babe.
...pour acid.
...stalk you.
...jump fence and enter your father's house to talk to you.
...come to your office or school to cry.

They are drama kings.

grin
Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by Burgerlomo: 2:29am On Jul 28
That's true
Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by sekxy(f): 3:14am On Jul 28
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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by NgcoboP: 11:54am On Jul 28
shocked
Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by NgcoboP: 11:55am On Jul 28
angry
Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by modelmike7(m): 11:55am On Jul 28
Too much of everything is bad!

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by VirginDiva(f): 11:56am On Jul 28
So true. Morning guys
Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by sod09(m): 11:56am On Jul 28
pocohantas:
Endtime boyfriend. Don't dare break up with them, just relocate to another planet.

...they're the ones capable of revenge porn.
...na them fit burn babe.
...pour acid.
...stalk you.
...jump fence and enter your father's house to talk to you.
...come to your office or school to cry.

They are drama kings.
haba...... grin grin grin
Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by Raiyell: 11:57am On Jul 28
This is not true control. A true control man will not bother with all of these

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by GeneralOjukwu: 11:58am On Jul 28
Never generalize...

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by yvesboss(m): 11:58am On Jul 28
angry
Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by Sleyanya1(m): 11:58am On Jul 28
OK, Some guys could exhibit some or all these features without fully knowing of any adverse effect on their bae.. infact without even knowing that they're 'Controlling' the babe.

To the Ladies: You shouldn't really leave your guy as long as he's teachable and you're sure He loves you. All you have to do is subtly educate him.

E.g by mentioning him on posts like this, sharing stuff and finally discussing it over with him.

Trust me, He'll trust and love you more.

Nice post @ Op.
From the list I have just one I need to reduce. smiley

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by seunny4lif(m): 11:59am On Jul 28
grin
One don do you grin grin
pocohantas:
Endtime boyfriend. Don't dare break up with them, just relocate to another planet.

...they're the ones capable of revenge porn.
...na them fit burn babe.
...pour acid.
...stalk you.
...jump fence and enter your father's house to talk to you.
...come to your office or school to cry.

They are drama kings.

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by constance500: 12:00pm On Jul 28
Beans frying is allowed
Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by DONADAMS(m): 12:00pm On Jul 28
I'm coming,,wait for me
Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by Pdazzle01(m): 12:00pm On Jul 28
grin
Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by LaCremy: 12:01pm On Jul 28
This is so true.
May God save us all!!

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by Sterix10(m): 12:01pm On Jul 28
Op I rather control my girl dan let her loose
There is nothing like being overprotective
If I was why did she fall 4 me






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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by mustmust(m): 12:04pm On Jul 28
See as them babes the comment like fire.......

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by LOVEGINO(m): 12:09pm On Jul 28
Nairalandsss:

Sometimes, in a relationship we often do not realise that we are being controlled by our partner for a long period of time. But as time passes by, we experience the negative effects of being in an abusive and controlled relationship. A guy who does not realise that his controlling nature is a problem will not be ready to accept the fact that he is controlling his partner. This can lead to misunderstandings and problems.

Being in a controlled relationship has adverse effects on the mental health of the person as the girl becomes unsure of what is happening around. They think they are over-reacting or over-imagining a problem or even being extra-sensitive. This kind of a relationship will be bad for anyone as living with abusive people isn’t pleasure.Here are some signs of men who controlling too much.


Signs of men who controls too much are:

1.You Are His Everything: When a guy wants you to be with him throughout the day, it is not good. Having your own personal space is very much important, and this applies to both the partners. When there is no privacy, it becomes an issue of control and the relationship gets sour. This is one of the biggest sign of being controlled.

2.Lesser Contact With Family And Friends:
He does not like it when you contact your family and friends more often. It makes him feel insecure and he asks you to cut down your contact with them as he thinks only he surrounds your world. He says he wants you to spend time with him and gives reasons like your family is over-controlling you. Make sure you do not give up on your family and friends for a man who does not understand your priorities.

3.Different Rules: You may be bound to share your passwords (of mails and social sites) with him but when you ask him the same, he retaliates. He gets to hang out with your male friends but does not like it when you ask him about his set of friends. Remember that you both stand an equal place in the relationship and you cannot be controlled by any.

4.His Interests Are Important: You slowly start realising that all the important priorities and interests of your personal life are being over-shadowed by his. He likes to take you to concerts and movies which might not interest you. When you ask him the same to join in an event of your choice, then he bluntly denies.

5.He Is Never At Fault:
He never agrees his mistakes. He suffers certain fears and phobias but never admits the same. The guy who controls too much, thinks that anything that goes wrong might be because of you. When you complain about anything then you realise that there is a sudden storm of blame game happening. This is one of the signs of men who control too much.

These are the signs of men who controls too much.




http://www.naijabroad.com/know-signs-men-controlling-much/
complain complain. Oya keep complaining when ur mates re making a happy home.

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by NwaAmaikpe: 12:11pm On Jul 28
shocked

Women are to be controlled.

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by Desric(m): 12:16pm On Jul 28
pocohantas:
Endtime boyfriend. Don't dare break up with them, just relocate to another planet.

...they're the ones capable of revenge porn.
...na them fit burn babe.
...pour acid.
...stalk you.
...jump fence and enter your father's house to talk to you.
...come to your office or school to cry.

They are drama kings.
In Tiwa Savage's voice "This lovey lovey no be chop and go". Why will just abandon a relationship that you've made somebody commit so much just like that? It's extremely unfair and factually, nobody smiles at a breakup that is not initiated by him/her. If the guy tells you that he's no longer interested in a relationship just like that when the girl is not prepared for it, the same scenario will also play out.

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Re: Signs Of Men Who Control women Too Much by mykh01(m): 12:28pm On Jul 28
this thread is gender bias, am expecting a counter thread on fp.

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