Bamidele539:
what if the guy is yet to get a profitable job @ age 30...dnt you think nervousness will surely increase?

What do you mean by profitable?

If he is on a month pay of 50k and has been saving for 2 years, then he is good to go

kennygee:


I don't believe you. A Christian has an impeccable character. Gal 5:22-23

If you call yourself a christian and don't have these fruits, your Christianity is Questionable.

The Scribes and Pharisees in the bible were even more devout than these pastors you talk about, but are they Christians?.

The last time I checked, Ananias and Sapphira were Christians.

joyberry:
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef.Lol nairalanders and their funny advices, gone tru many comments about my post. It's funny many Nigerians find it difficult to understand that both women can be commitment phobic, Of I wanna fall in love, get married and have kids,But am so scared of waking up one day, and loathing the man I married. I see a guy I like, we start dating, before I know it, it's just start fizzling out, and am gone without giving the guy a reasonable explanations.Am ok being single for now till I understand my issues. GOD help me

Ekpoma babe .

I'm only afraid of getting married to the wrong person. I just want to be loved and appreciated not forgetting having peace of mind.

jayvine:
You're crazy lol

lol,ok ma

emeijeh:

What do you mean by profitable?

If he is on a month pay of 50k and has been saving for 2 years, then he is good to go

dnt forget other logistics...

friedcorn:
allays ur fear woman.....i know how to fvck very well. Ur saviour is here

You put the 's' In the wrong place, allay your fears

Some times,but i believe in positivity.

Sylverly:
that's quite some time . And all these while, she never had issue with that.

She is not the one that had issue its her mum. Her mum said she is an assistance pastor and she can't afford to lose her respect in the church.

joyberry:
.Nope, finished last year.As for your advice, Thanks but not now;Have lots of emotional issues to work on.Don't wanna go into a relationship and be a emotional burden to someone

its like you were lucky to be shortlisted into the NAF?

yes none���

lol

Bamidele539:
same here, waiting for madam right..

lol

Ipisi:


Do you even understand the question at all? olodo

why won't I understand the meaning����

Milonis:


You gotta be kidding me, there's no Mr. Right

yesso hv not seen any

Toyindiva:
yesso hv not seen any

So do the right thing

Milonis:


So do the right thing

like how oh Teacher

You must be a fool for u to quote my words in a wrong way....and if ur brain is working well, towards d end of my statement, u will knw I meant to say "I must work very hard" b4 my unborn kids ever come to dis hard world....I think ur brain needs resetting "Idiot"[b]

chidifrank:

if your parents thought the same for you, will you be here now on this earth n here in nairaland wit ds absurd thing you wrote for us to read? u need a better mentality than this. God that made man n woman to reproduce is not a fool. yu don't want kids, then don't sex

I feel nervous too but am assured that when I get to the river will surely cross...

Tricia88:
'Marriage'

Full of pains and gains, I just pray I find a man that is worth all the pains someday

Toyindiva:
why won't I understand the meaning����

Lol....

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i am just seeing this I wont talk

Fear not. God will help us all and give us a happy homes. It is not easy but God is on the throne.