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Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by Dancos: 11:28pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
One chance, my brother run meaning end it b4 u enter and no way to come out. Talking from experience 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by corpershun: 11:28pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Marriage is for two MATURE minds not some egoistic, self centered and controlling adults that wNt to ruin their lives over a pot of boiling water like Esau lost his blessings over a pot of porridge. Age indeed is just a number, OP and wife needs to work on themselves cos this marriage is dead on arrival. Why do you guys even have a little errand cousin, instead of you to wait till kids come, you already opening the door for third parties. Who breaks the door, the serpent bites... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by Omolope4real(m): 11:30pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
OP, u don't need to put the whole blame on ur wife cos u were also wrong. It seems u guys are just living together physically but not together emotionally. In this days, u don't expect a woman to keep quiet and listen to u all d time. I don't blame her Much, u can't pass such an instruction against her family member and expect her to smile. The fact that she is married to u doesn't mean she should abandon her family even tho u come first, what if she listens to u all d time against her family and the day u kick her out, will it not be her family she will turn to for help. I feel u got really upset with her not telling u about the visit which u kept in ur mind for long. In marriage, u av to learn to stamp ur feet as d man but at d same time, u av to also learn to overlook things oh. If my wife takes decisions I don't like, I call her and tel her not to repeat it again and we move on. One of marriage rules, NEVER rubbish ur in-laws no matter the condition. Always treat them like angels even if u don't like them. If u act like this, then u shouldnt expect her family to like u na. I expected u to have used this opportunity to proof that u are a loving person to the young lady. Chai, u missed opportunity oh. I dont think u should abadon the marriage, no person is perfect including u. I am sure ur wife would also be thinking if she is making mistake by marrying u. U were also totally wrong by asking her to leave the room, haba. Fights in marriage are usually settled on d bed oh. The SIL must have really felt bad seeing her sister sleeping in d parlour because of her. U shouldn't expect her to stay na. Ur wife messed up by not informing u but as a man, u need to learn to forgive big time. Women are petty in thoughts and actions so learn to accomodate oh. Even at work place, u will notice this habits in them. Pls sit down with ur wife and talk this through. Marriage is no child's play, it needs a lot of maturity to survive. Always remember this, u and ur wife should learn not to show disunity in public, it is very key. U should have called her to tel her sister to stop using gas or u tell d sister ursef in a loving way. Like, fine sister, Abeg u know say economy tite now, that can she be using d electric kettle next time to save cost. Simple. In life, our tone matters oh. Stop listening to people saying ur wife is disrespectful, no lady will be a dunce for u, u should expect her to fight back also. U can't rubber stamp anybody in this 21st century, even village girl. I pray u guys sit and talk through this and lastly, try and have the courage to call ur SIL and apologize to her like a father to a daughter thing. She must have really being hurt by the whole stuff. Invite her over and promise to be accomodatig to her, ur wife will also appreciate it. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by immortal145: 11:31pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
my sincere advice is simple & short... if u have done any other form of marriage such as court or traditional or any other i dont know about...U ARE ALREADY MARRIED!...& u must make it work for both of u... but if u have not done any form of marriage yet then...u need to rethink n re-assess... from what u wrote n wot i smell...ur lady wants to be the boss of u two...bros kolewerk!...she can use d back door...! better broken courtship than broken marriage... cheers bro... |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by Afribiz(f): 11:35pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
This marriage seems dead on arrival. Make i no hear stories that touch o, Abeg. |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by poseidon12: 11:35pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
yomi007k: Don't mind her. |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by mykel25(m): 11:38pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Plankton2017: Brother check your attitude... Refine your attitude then your relationship ll be fine..... From what your wife did I didn't c anything domineering about it.... For every action there's a reaction... If the reactions u get from your wife family Isnt good them check your actions 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by nolio(m): 11:38pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Plankton2017:they will just beat you one day |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by mykel25(m): 11:39pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Gourdoinc: Aw old are u? Diz ur mindset Ehn 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by coolcatty: 11:43pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Guyman02: Kaiii... Mehn people dey chop raw fresh shiit in the... name of marriage... My mother in law call me a liar to my face??... JESU!!!!..... That will be the day.... As in Ehen...... Jesu!!! Oga sorry... She stops your own relations from coming to ur place and you allowed it?.... Pls u need help.... Send me a pm 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by mykel25(m): 11:46pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Richy4: You're d first person to say a sensible thing on this thread.... 2 n 3 commenters are wrong... Probably they are kids or an authoritarian... Or they grew under an authoritarian father.... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by ebig21(m): 11:49pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
ststyreal: Nawa for you oo, and you were in your other thread asking for money indirectly , and you are calling gas and water common, don't you see why you might not get any help 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by Jman06(m): 11:51pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
ststyreal:So much for being a gentleman! I wonder what stops you ladies from being ''gentlewomen'' sometimes.I guess being gentleman to you means losing ones head and playing dumb all the time when dealing with women. Innit 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by mykel25(m): 11:52pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Jahblessme: You typed this outta my fingers.... I be no get strenght type this thank God u did.... Most sensible post here....d guy is something else.... His action prompted d reaction from his wife to be.... I wud only advise d woman sef to leave this potential wife beater |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by sam4(m): 11:52pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Plankton2017:You are the family son-inlaw, your father, father-in-law, your mother, mother in law. So now who is the LAW? Your wife is the LAW, and if the law is too rigid it may likely send you to your early grave. Why? because the LAW is powerful, it has total authority over you than any member of the family. So God will Journey with you sir. Thank you |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by mykel25(m): 11:56pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Jahblessme: You too get sense Abeg... I guess Ure married.... If not for your comment I wud ve banned myself from nairaland when I saw 402 likes for an advice that ll make things worse |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by ststyreal(f): 11:58pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
ebig21:Which other thread please?? Do you know who you are quoting?? Kindly bring out the thread where I am indirectly begging for money as you said Please do I am waiting |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by ABbless(m): 12:00am On Aug 03, 2017 |
bro I have a question for you. if you bought a car with your hard earned money, and just before you drove it home engine begin show signs of a possible knock or total breakdown, let's say you never pay completely, would you go on and pay the full amount for an engine that is destined to break down. your thoughts right now might be what would people say, you might already be counting in your mind the number of people who might feel disappointed and wondering what you would tell people happened or how u would explain this thing. see, people would always talk good or bad. in fact if you go on and eventually "norkpa" na that talking go worst pass,CNN self fit carry am. there's nothing more unbearable than a nagging wife/husband. if from day one you're already having this kinda irreconcilable differences I guess you already have your excuse for calling it off. but make the choice yourself. what do you see in her that makes you wanna go on? does it outweigh the reasons why you don't want to? in the end it all falls back to you. sense fall on you lool. think it well! |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by ebig21(m): 12:03am On Aug 03, 2017 |
ststyreal:The thread you said you need prayers and miracle, dear go back to ur topics |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by ststyreal(f): 12:08am On Aug 03, 2017 |
ebig21:Bring it out my friend I am waiting How does prayers and miracles tallies with the begging of money you mentioned I indirectly ask I remembered asking for prayers and miracles because I was expecting money from someone and not begging. Get your facts straight or I will report you to the mod for false accusation. So bring out the thread where you said I am indirectly begging for money, I am waitinggggggg pleaseeee It's because of people like you that I am always and extremely careful of what I write and post on a forum like this, because you are always looking for what to insult people with. I am waiting, bring out the thread where you said I am begging indirectly, bring it out I am waiting...... |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by Boyooosa(m): 12:08am On Aug 03, 2017 |
FIRST OF ALL, PEND THAT MARRIAGE TILL U KNOW THE KIND OF WOMAN YOU INTEND TO MARRY (WHITE WEDDING FOR THAT MATTER). ALAS! |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by mykel25(m): 12:10am On Aug 03, 2017 |
My mum always tell me: never correct your in-laws directly.... If you need to correct them send your partner... They only can deliver d msg better....... D OP shd ve called d wife n tell her what means dey shd use in boiling water...... D OP is not accomodating...he only brought d issue here cuz he is already feeling Bad about d consequences of his actions to his SIL....if d wife is my sister I ll never visit that home n if I do due to circumstances I won't eat or bath....d SIL will never feel comfortable around him.. To gist sef go be war.... So she ll avoid him like a plague.... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by mykel25(m): 12:13am On Aug 03, 2017 |
ststyreal: This is a faceless forum.... U don't spend your time to reply everyone.... U ll be disappointed if u fig d kinda person Ure replying .... So many immature minds here no be by bn a law graduate.... Some wanna forcefully act adulthood buh u can't give that u don't ve ..a kid is a kid |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by InvertedHammer: 12:15am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Plankton2017:/ There is no problem here. Freedom is over-rated. Good luck on your journey to perpetual servitude. I cannot advise an adult not to jump into a burning house. \ |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by ststyreal(f): 12:19am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Ajanacool:But it is not the sisters in laws fault that the cousin used gas in boiling the water, all the sister in law requested for was just for the cousin to boil water for her, whether she uses electric or gas, isn't the sisters in laws fault but that of the cousin who should know better. The cousin should have used the electric kettle instead of the gas because the sister in law just visited and may not be aware of the electric kettle. |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by Yusuf4: 12:19am On Aug 03, 2017 |
coolcatty: ADVISER. HOW SURE ARE YOU HIS STORY IS WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by ebig21(m): 12:24am On Aug 03, 2017 |
ststyreal: Madam I have told you my observation, you know deep inside, some people even mentioned it in the thread. |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by ststyreal(f): 12:24am On Aug 03, 2017 |
victor8269:On the contrary I am a woman. I know things are hard but at least, op for pretend small because of the sister in laws presence. She is a visitor and may not be aware of the electric kettle in the house, it is now the duty of the said cousin to make use of the electric kettle instead of using the gas. Secondly, op now mandated his cousin to report to him first before carrying out any assignments given by the sister in law, to me, this should have been left for his wife to handle. |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by ststyreal(f): 12:26am On Aug 03, 2017 |
stainless239:Hahahahaha, don't worry you go marry better guy |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by mandeeredman(m): 12:27am On Aug 03, 2017 |
Jahblessme: |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by Yusuf4: 12:28am On Aug 03, 2017 |
My dear, my uncle shouts at her wife in their room door closed. You made the mistake by making it loud for a permission to be taken from you b4 your in-laws request be granted. so if she had said I want drink water, permission will come from you b4 she can get a glass of water. I don't scold my girlfriend in front of her relatives and friends. I keep it to myself until we are private. You need marriage course bro 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Sister Sneaked Out Of NYSC Camp & Came Into Our House, This Happened by tonguengineer(m): 12:32am On Aug 03, 2017 |
yomi007k:Am telling u |
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