Angelcute:
men and sex.......always complaining of no sex or lesser sex

Fabulocity:
[s]I can see your brain is taking a serious shiit in your skull. Where did you see me rant? I can understand you're so offended by my comment but watch who you quote to say shiit to. Who the fukc are you by the way Did I quote you or anyone in the first place? I can express my opinion the way I deem fit without having any immaterial halfwit quoting me to say utter and reckless rubbish. Nairaland is really giving people a lot of nerves![/s]

Truckload of senseless Crap!

safarigirl:
yes, I am a virgin....as to second accusation, I do not collect what I cannot return and na only four people in my twenty-three years wey don give me shishi...once again, nothing I can't return today if asked

I make my own money and I am not waiting for any man to help my life, I am neither invalid nor handicap and I like to back my words with actions

He who comes to equity must come with clean hands, best believe, I stick to that maxim wholeheartedly before I speak.

So, do not categorize me with the leeches and incapacitated beings you surround yourself with

kkins25:

Damn gal. I wouldnf want to be in ifedithshoes right now... you hit the nail on his HEAD.

JeffreyJamez:



Seriously, Race?!... ...must you make this about race?....is it all white men that are Romantic?


While I agree with you that one can be Romantic without sex coming into play, I disagree about the "black men know nothing of romance" mantra. Stop it abeg.

ikp120:
You are right man.

But I can date without sex o, so long as she sucks my dick regularly.

My niggas forget these hoes. Gucci over pussy any day. Just park a Rolls Royce and you will fvck 10 of them inside that ride within 1 hour without paying a dime.

Chill bro. Just Gucci and pussy go follow.

I heard Louis Vuitton will give 20 chics

thesuave10:

I heard Louis Vuitton will give 20 chics

safarigirl:
Jeffrey, no need to be so vexed...feel free to exclude yourself in the general rule, but the general rule stands. Black men do not understand nor comply with the idea of romance, it is not a part of us

There will always be exceptions of course, but you need not agree with it. Fact is fact

naijaboiy:

That is how they are bro!

All these oppositions and counter-oppositions don't work in real life. What they defend here they don't practice it in real life.

So take their oppositions with a pinch of salt my bro. I know what I'm saying bro.

So many feminists on here have still been used like hoes and rags by the same guys they attack here because of small money.

I won't call names but Issa FACT!

Silentscreamer:
Hmmm... Seems nigerian guys lives depend on sex. See ranting.

FILEBE:



@Bolded. what is good for Greece is also good for Uganda .
before the bolded. hmmn. Whether it exceeds its elastic limits or not , no girl will be proud to say to her husband her high bodycount except they are pornsters . lol. I am saying sex should be mutual. If a girl asks me for money before she lets me sleep with her then she is love peddler. If she zips up because of purity, morality or controlling her urge then i should respect her decision and work towards mine. It is a relationship . Every relationship should not be sex oriented na. Romance is their. Why are we justifying a reason to have sex na. Kilode na!

soflygerian:
Honestly, if u can't offer sex in a relationship, what else can u offer

Rapmoney:
It has been said severally that guys who are broke shouldn't bother about romantic affairs. Many guys who are not financially stable these days don't even give a hoot about relationships because they know the situation but that's for another day. What I'm trying to say is that whoever that's ready to enter a romantic affair, not a platonic one, should be ready to dance to the music. No be fight my sister. If a girl wants a no-sex affair, she should look for a celibate or eunuch! Someone who has agreed to live that type of life too. U cannot force a full fledged sexually active man to become a eunuch because that is what you want. Annoyingly, most of these folks ain't even virgins.

Denko2721987:


*Laughing so hard here* Bro.. My hand no they oooo before them come swallow us oooo... I done evacuate...

it's actually a funny issue bro. I see no need dragging things with them when we all know the story.

Ifedith:


As in ehh, dat one weak me sef, but dat if na true o, otherwise na herself she dey deceive. In any case if she's is as she says, kudos to her, That's why i com ask her if she dey into any serious relationship? You know say who dey drive car with mouth no dey get accident

Anijay1212:

I take it you are joking right?
Because i know you would'nt mistake facts for ranting.
(Sighs).
Blecool mbok come and have your say joor.

Silentscreamer:
Ur free to enjoy sex when ur married. And stop talking bout konji or whatever, real men are able to hold their own until they are married.

Bobbiet:
Very funny. ...
I've taken my time to read through this thread
And I understand one thing, a particular statement can be understood or do I say interpreted from several angles.

A relationship without romance is friendship.
Romance without sex is being 'selfish '.
So why does a lady want romance and not want sex?
Answer; she has more alternatives to sex which is all embedded in her erogenous zones and romance is the key.
But we the MEN, our satisfaction comes from 'penetration '.
Now to the topic. .. The reason you don't want sex in a relationship should be good enough a reason you should stay off relationships and keep your self. Or better still, make it a clear 'friendship '.
Or why should you go to church and hate being a Christian or go to The mosque and forbid putting your head on the ground?

Now to my guys, you see a girl you want a relationship with and she wants a 'no sex' relationship.
Can you cope in the relationship without sex? If yes, go in and love her with all thy heart.
If you can't, move on.

Same goes to the ladies.

But if you are blessed and she agrees to a sexual relationship, then love her with all your heart, body and save the soul for marriage .
Now to those saying if the girl wants sex, fine and if she doesn't, let her be. Why do you feel having sex should be the choice of just the ladies? And tame the guy's sexual need as "konji"?

I am a strong advocate of breakups and I have very strong disdain for cheats.

In a nutshell, being in a relationship is being happy.
If you are not happy in your present relationship, please don't even think of cheating. Just dump the sorry ass and move on.

Like I'll always continue saying, don't sacrifice happiness on the alter of relationship.

Angelcute:
men and sex.......always complaining of no sex or lesser sex

octopusfreaky:
That is how they were made and wired by God. 90% sex and 10% thinking of other things. The only problem is fornication.
A friend of mine married a devoted Christian brother and she was amazed by his sexual fantasies and prowess and I told her all those attributes were in him, all he did was to wait for d right time" wedding" to explore them. He contained and controlled his sexual desires.

lefulefu:

omo if such happens it will be total hell for some guys cos d only way some dudes get a lady"s attention is through money.dats d bitter truth.

lefulefu:

its a game.she is probably getting it frm someone she"s really attracted to while the other guy she"s not attracted to but cant do away with cos of the financial endowments she gets frm him she uses the no sex relationship .thats the game .

EmmyDJourno:



Guys need money to get girls because girls need money to be gotten

My first chick in Germany took me on an tourist excursion around the Berlin Wall, just to tell me the story around it, we had lunch, then went to a love Park and ended up with a lovely dinner at little or no expense

She never bothered about me replicating, though I always did, she only wanted a funny guy to keep her laughing and a good lips to suck on (her exact words)

When chicks don't need money, guys would revert to the lover boys they truly are, until then the MONEY/PUSSY game continues

EmmyDe25:


What if she's not getting any financial benefits from the guy.

S5155:
Yes the Nigerian Man is sex Driven.it's all they live for

Angelcute:
Yea...more like love, care, support, prayers, sacrifices and defense