Fabulocity:
And they'd be the same idiots that'll say that girls have nothing to offer in a relationship than sex. Just look at this slowpoke's mentality. Nigerian Men are a really confused and brain dead bunch.
It's mostly broke guys that'll agree with this OP because the time they're supposed to use to hustle, they'll spend it looking for sex like sex starved dogs.

FILEBE:


baba. Me and you na man. Make we no lie give ourselves. Let it not be that i dey try do eye service or gather attention from the ladies but the truth has to be spoken bro.
KONJI NA BASTARD!
I won't deny the war we fight with this Konji every now and then as a guy. These girls sef no help matter them dey always trigger the Konji. Make i leave that talk for another day.
You see ehn, wetin u write up there na just to justify your request for sex from ur g.
Frnd. Sex should be mutual. If she wants to give you, collect it and don't make it like it is your birthright. If you want to make it your birthright, bros, marry her.
Sex is sacred. Na before before talk be that (it still is). Now, e no sacred anything for our eyes again. Which style our papa Don do wey we never do pass am before 25? We are just making a big deal out of sex
I rather, we focus on self improvement, money and family. If a girl sees this in you. Forgerrit! Ut have her legs (although some girls are stupid and born to open for any stupid reasons or deceit) As, a guy man, u just gaz work hard, make am and marry ur babe. If una marry... If you like, make una dey do the thing every night and morning. E no affect ny body and e good for una.
I know ladies have their faults or bad habits o but we should use bad to fight bad, e no make sense.
Personally, to me, their shouldn't be any reason why we are doing boyfriend and girlfriend and it won't lead to marriage. What is the essence of the relationship if it won't lead to marriage? You guys just have to define your relationship, if na for friends of benefits relationship o abi na the do-me-i-do-you relationship.

Lastly, O. P, can you say or give this advice to your daughter?
Make you no vex o. Guy to guy talk over some bottles of malt and isi ewu.

2funkyy:
I am sure op created this thread to read women's opinion,truth is we all want what we want, we always have a choice,its not by force, a girl can date who she wants, whether a broke guy,rich guy, sexually active, and platonic guy, guys too can date broke girl, rich girl, sexually active and platonic girl, my point is the choice is yours no one has a right to request for sex or money except you are married.

Silentscreamer:
Ur free to enjoy sex when ur married. And stop talking bout konji or whatever, real men are able to hold their own until they are married.

Rapmoney:
It has been said severally that guys who are broke shouldn't bother about romantic affairs. Many guys who are not financially stable these days don't even give a hoot about relationships because they know the situation but that's for another day. What I'm trying to say is that whoever that's ready to enter a romantic affair, not a platonic one, should be ready to dance to the music. No be fight my sister. If a girl wants a no-sex affair, she should look for a celibate or eunuch! Someone who has agreed to live that type of life too. U cannot force a full fledged sexually active man to become a eunuch because that is what you want. Annoyingly, most of these folks ain't even virgins.

Silentscreamer:
R u among the broke guys? Then ur priority shuld be about working hard to make money and not sex. Misplaced priority.

thesuave10:


Think yourself. Is sex the reason why such a lady is having such failed relationships? Sex has nothing to do with it. It's simple if you don't want sex don't enter a relationship. A lady gets dumped and her heart is broken and she moves to another guy, use your head this is a psychological effect. If she didn't have sex with her ex she will still rush into a relationship and get dumped. Don't blame failed relationships on sex. Use ya head

Fernandowski:
baby Noooo but some girls wicked shaaaaaaa


after initiating the kiss and Errthing, na Dem go tell u say ' I'm not in the mood ' ..... person go just carry erected prick Dey go training

Silentscreamer:
Hmmm... Seems nigerian guys lives depend on sex. See ranting.

Stellie:
hahahaha u got nrtin else to say?? Am nt blamin failed relationship on sex. am using it as a scenario for a gal becomin a borehole wen married.. Argggh am nt replyin u again ok.., u d type dat argues and forget d topic of argument . Gudnyt

pocohantas:
When you guys start giving these kind of advice to your sisters, I will begin to take you serious.

One came here to create thread because guys are looking at his beautiful sister...but he has administered on other people's sisters. He doesn't want another guy to touch his own sister...

udemejack:
And this was the same reason why i seperated from my ex last month.I accepted the no sex stuff but we used to smooch,touch all the touchables,kiss but no penetration only for her to wake up one day that there'll be no hugg,kiss,touch etc.......i come tell myself that i cannot survive this thats when i startd ovoiding her like a plague.
The experienx is terrible

You did the right thing boss

Fabulocity:
Dear Nigerian guys
There is more to life than sex. Stop this obsession about violating the next hole with your rotten pricks and watch your true potentials manifest, watch sucess, money and breakthrough follow you. Trust me on this one.
Sincerely,
A truly concerned female.

Stellie:
hmmm oga . U r d one to get d msg.. Listen a relationship is a period of tym wen u get to know ur partner bfor marriage , not where u get to fuccck ur partner...sex is by choice not compulsory so a gal can b in a relationship witout havin sex, its nt by force. Its up to d guy if he can cope or not....Now wen ur daughter tels u she has a boyfrnd . Tel her : babygal go fucck dat guy's dickk til it shrinks .. Kip tellin her dat til she gets married okay ..... Bye

thesuave10:


Holy Moses! Some guys need enlightenment.
Nairalanders should learn to read carefully and reason properly. No one can say sex is the most important thing in a relationship but it's very very important. Sexual compatibility is important. So you want to be financially compatible with a woman, emotionally compatible with a woman but you're now scared of sexual compatibility. You're the one making a big deal out of it. By taking as "sacred" . You shouldnt force any woman but once you tell her a couple of times how you do things and after much persuasion, she doesn't agree just leave her. Sex strengthens relationships. Baba take note

Ifedith:

That's a very wise advice if you must know, our parents did the same, and even our fore fathers. I know you're not a child so I'll pretend you're just trying to be mischievous.

Stellie:
hmmmm oga think okay . Just think.. No gal knows d number of guys she is gonna date in dis lyf.. She myt want to date only one guy buh dat guy myt end up breakin her hrt so she moves on and on and on til she finds her soul mate.... And wit d rate at wich people date witout ambition of marriage, she wud probably hv becom a borehole wen she gets married ... Do u get it?

Silentscreamer:
Hmmm... Seems nigerian guys lives depend on sex. See ranting.

Denko2721987:
I dont understand why Nairaland ladies suddenly made it a point of duty to be rebels against realistic facts and opinions and sometimes even common knowledge/sense as long as its coming from nairaland men... Why all these opposition..

thesuave10:


If you don't want to be a borehole then keep your emotions and psychology IN check. Enter the right relationships. This shows how strong you are tests you

thesuave10:


If you don't want to be a borehole then keep your emotions and psychology IN check. Enter the right relationships. This shows how strong you are tests you

FILEBE:


Sex strengthens relationship? Baba. Why now? Why that line na? If Sex does strengthen relationship why do some people have body counts of more than 20? Or the ashewos that guy sleep with also strengthen their relationship?
See, no big deal about sex, if she gives you. fine! If she no give you, fine too! A man that can shrug off the urge to have sex is a MAN! We can't give in to the urge always na. See, the issue of sexual compatible has been over flogged on this forum. Why are you guys in a relationship if you can't talk to each other? You just can't go on tearing people's daughters' hymens to know if you're sexually compatible na. Is it today we hear stories about husbands later becoming a 1 minute man? I trust the guy in his prime would have been a 45mins man. Lol
We just try so hard to control what we have no grip on. My point is: sex should be mutual and not one party fighting for ot like it is their birthright.
I envy men who have great self control.

Silentscreamer:
Ur free to enjoy sex when ur married. And stop talking bout konji or whatever, real men are able to hold their own until they are married.

FILEBE:


Sex strengthens relationship? Baba. Why now? Why that line na? If Sex does strengthen relationship why do some people have body counts of more than 20? Or the ashewos that guy sleep with also strengthen their relationship?
See, no big deal about sex, if she gives you. fine! If she no give you, fine too! A man that can shrug off the urge to have sex is a MAN! We can't give in to the urge always na. See, the issue of sexual compatible has been over flogged on this forum. Why are you guys in a relationship if you can't talk to each other? You just can't go on tearing people's daughters' hymens to know if you're sexually compatible na. Is it today we hear stories about husbands later becoming a 1 minute man? I trust the guy in his prime would have been a 45mins man. Lol
We just try so hard to control what we have no grip on. My point is: sex should be mutual and not one party fighting for ot like it is their birthright.
I envy men who have great self control.

Nairalanders should stop throwing fallacies up and down. Should I tell you the amount of relationships that failed because of lack of sex? If a relationship fails with sex there's more to it than blaming it on sex. You don't seem to know what sexual compatibility is that's why i spoke of enlightenment. Sex strengthens relationships if you don't know, know it now. Sex increases intimacy. Now sex can be harmful no doubt but it strengthens relationships. What of the millions of relationship that have failed without sex. Bros I repeat stop making fallacious arguments. Self control? So because I want to have sex with my fiance/gf before marriage there is no self control? Baba reason na . That is not self control. Self control is about knowing when and how much sex and not because you can stay in a relationship without sex. Infact that is madness

pocohantas:


No mind them...sex starved he-goats.
Later they'll sit at their round table to judge bodycount...

They should give this advice to their sisters and daughters.
Na these kinds guys go dey check their sister phone, and monitoring her every movement.


He can't give this advice to his daughter...never!

FILEBE:


Sex strengthens relationship? Baba. Why now? Why that line na? If Sex does strengthen relationship why do some people have body counts of more than 20? Or the ashewos that guy sleep with also strengthen their relationship?
See, no big deal about sex, if she gives you. fine! If she no give you, fine too! A man that can shrug off the urge to have sex is a MAN! We can't give in to the urge always na. See, the issue of sexual compatible has been over flogged on this forum. Why are you guys in a relationship if you can't talk to each other? You just can't go on tearing people's daughters' hymens to know if you're sexually compatible na. Is it today we hear stories about husbands later becoming a 1 minute man? I trust the guy in his prime would have been a 45mins man. Lol
We just try so hard to control what we have no grip on. My point is: sex should be mutual and not one party fighting for it like it is their birthright.
I envy men who have great self control.

Ifedith:

And what kind of woman are you, the sex giver type (ashawo) or the one that will tell her daughter to go into a romantic relationship with a man at 13? Pick one.
Next!

Jodha:
Bingos will always bark...

Dry nairaland bingos..

Silentscreamer:
Hmmm... Seems nigerian guys lives depend on sex. See ranting.